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  • I spoke to the customer service people about my concerns about Jack Canfield and about his son's book at Jack Canfield coaching and they encouraged me to do all I could to get peace on the matter. I spoke with one of the coaches I trust and feel be…
  • Thanks MixedUpCurlyChick. I think when I have met people who do what I think I want to do and I get to know them better and I think "I could do it better", it makes me really want to listen to that and just do it. Just do it. Why not? If you wa…
  • Spiderlashes, I appreciate your questions. Motivation is not an issue for me. I am incredibly motivated. I am someone who people trust will achieve my goals I set for myself. I want to sort of map out my life so that I am getting the most fulfi…
  • KurlyKae, "Mary's" story makes me think of Landmark. It is big in the SF Bay Area, and I know people who have attended and have behaved similarly to Mary in the beginning. I also know people who have attended and really benefitted and are private…
  • KurlyKae, Can you tell me more about the experience of the person you know? I really appreciate the link. I think I will share my concerns with one of the coaches I trust and see what the response is. There is a sort of satisfaction guarantee. I…
  • So Phoenix, how did you come to get paid for the blog? Why are you no longer doing it?
  • Thank you CurlyCurlies. Maybe we can help support and encourage each other. Feel free to PM me and we can exchange emails and phone numbers if you want... Best to you!
  • So to share more about the coaching experience so far, I am becoming more aware of my perfectionism and my lack of self-confidence. I thought I was pretty confident and I like that I strive to be the best I can be, but I see now that I do not alway…
  • Anthro, I wish I could meet you have a drink. I love being around smart candid women who know their faults and put energy into resolving them. Go girl! I think you should consider dating younger men. I think men around 40 and older are more li…
  • Curlilocks we are in Sacramento area.
  • Thanks. I agree that 20 years is too long...
  • Thanks RCW. If you don't mind sharing, how much were you quoted for install and equip? We were quoted $26,000 less tax rebates for our 1,700 sq ft home. Our avg electric bill is about $150/month.
  • I love my friendships with women. We talk so openly, care about each other so much, and are supportive and encouraging to each other. Even just sharing on naturallycurly with other women is such a treat! I love my men friends too but it's a who…
  • VTmom, I wish you were my MIL. You know how before you get married, some churches require the couple to take classes to prepare for marriage. I think that parents and future in-laws should attend a class or two on their roles in supporting the cou…
  • Thank you luvmylocs! I will check out the book. Sassysuzanne, thanks for sharing. If you are comfortable sharing more, when was your husband diagnosed? Did you know before you married? Does he take meds or do any kind of therapy? What helps …
  • For the most part, I get along well with my MIL. She is a very kind and generous person. The part of the article that says that MIL's son will always come first, his career goals come first definitely fits our relationship. She does give advice t…
  • I have issues with gas and other gastrointestinal issues. I had colon surgery a few years back. I have been taking Align for several months now and I do think it manages my symptoms. It's worth the cost for me at this point. You can get it at Co…
  • My parents have different political views and they discussed them with us, but I never felt that I needed to agree with either one. They never explicitly said that it was up to me to make up my own mind, but I decided that early on. I am thinking…
  • notegal said: "What happened with people actually going out and learning what works for them? " This basically why I am asking the question. This is what I wish to encourage my children to do. I know that I will share my biases at times, but u…
  • I am sorry you are going through this. My nephew was diagnosed with a brain tumor over 4 years ago. He was about 12 years old at the time. He had several surgeries and did have a feeding tube for several months. I think it's scarier to think abo…
  • I am wondering if Governor Sanford's affair in Argentina was truly with a woman.
  • I am sorry you are dealing with this. Why can't people respect that it's your child/your decision? Your dad made his choices on his children and now it's your turn. My dad deals with things similarly I think. He and I do not have the best relatio…
  • Thanks for everyone's responses. I do feel better about how I handled the situation. But I am feeling pretty miserable about the whole thing. I do think my BIL talked with my MIL and that's why he felt compelled to talk to me like that. My husb…
  • I agree that your SO needs to stand up and set firm boundaries with his parents. It will only get worse once kids are in the picture. I wish I had a real friendship with my in-laws too, but we can't make people be who we want them to be, just gott…
  • My FIL can act like that too. Totally wrong but when called out on it plays the victim, not wanted, she does not like me thing! And will complain to all family members about what happened. Everyone wants to stay out of it because they do not wan…
  • Jon's comment is harsh and incredibly passive aggressive. It "just happened" to fall on her birthday. Is he not responsible for anything? Passive aggressive behavior is crazymaking. I can be the sweetest person with an assertive person, but pass…
  • Did anyone watch the TV show Shalom in the Home when it was around? I think it was on TLC also. Rabbi Shmoley would come to homes where families were behaving dysfunctionally and help them out. I loved it! I think Rabbi Shmoley should visit Jon …
  • Lotsawaves, not close at all. I have met them twice. Once at a wedding: he was the minister. And another time we saw them at a Christmas gathering. They were invited to our wedding but they did not attend. To be honest, I do not really like the…
  • Scrills I think you have my FIL all figured out. Yes, he just wants constant attention. He does not listen to anyone. He annoys everybody. I guess I was hurt by all this because I was thinking of how in-laws should react to a graduation, but I g…