hi. just a quick question. i am in my 40"s and have been fighting my curl for a couple of years. but it dawned on me the other day that im fighting what i dont have any more. i blew my hair dry (no scrunching or product) to color my roots. now, normally i would have had a fuzzy frizzy big mess. i barelly had a wave. just a bit of wave here and there. has anyone else lost curl with age? no wonder i have been having such trouble. i need to use a gallon of product and diffuse curls into place and then spray more product to keep it there. it is hard as a rock and looks awful. any one?????