My libido is just not the same especially this past year. Hubby and I still have sex twice a week, but he would probably like more (I'm 53 and he's 51). I read in O magazine that Ginko Biloba helps with libido. I started taking it about two weeks ago and honestly, it seems like it's helping. I don't feel the "urge" really to have more sex, but when I do have it I am enjoying it again. Here's a littel information on it. I bought mine at a health food store.