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My husband was finally honest about the "new" hair

Ok, this morning my husband finally told me that since I have went CG he just does not like it. Well to say that that really pained me is an understatement. He said that it was flat and looked greasy to him and that he liked it better when I was just doing the "normal" washing and conditioning because it had more volume and looked better to him.

Ok now to give him credit, I have to admit, although I love the Jessicurl products for how they are making my hair FEEL, they are weighing my hair down on top and making it "lanky" for the lack of a better word. Any suggestions? I do not want to go back to sulfate and silicone world but would like to have curls at the top of my head like I used to. Thanks!
3a-3b, coarse (?), thick, elastic, porous! Mod. CG 11/2010
Poo: Tresemme Naturals Low Sulfate Shampoo, Bain De Terre Green Meadow Poo, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Poo for colored hair
Condish/Cowashes: Tresemme Naturals, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Conditioner
DT/Leave In: KC Knot Today
Gels/Stylers: KCCC, HE Totally Twisted
Weekly: Nothing yet! Don't need!
"Curls on the Go": Water Spritz
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  • curlyhairmichukcurlyhairmichuk Posts: 860Registered Users
    Ok, this morning my husband finally told me that since I have went CG he just does not like it. Well to say that that really pained me is an understatement. He said that it was flat and looked greasy to him and that he liked it better when I was just doing the "normal" washing and conditioning because it had more volume and looked better to him.

    Ok now to give him credit, I have to admit, although I love the Jessicurl products for how they are making my hair FEEL, they are weighing my hair down on top and making it "lanky" for the lack of a better word. Any suggestions? I do not want to go back to sulfate and silicone world but would like to have curls at the top of my head like I used to. Thanks!

    Watch you are not over conditioning as that will make it feel weighed down & 'lanky' (know what you mean). Also it will take a little time for your hair to become accustomed to it. (I think that because when you use shampoos your scalp produces more sebum/oil to counteract the dryness shampoos cause and then when you stop using shampoo the scalp takes a little while to realise that it doesn't need to produce so much sebum/oil.) If worse comes to worse you could use a low poo now and again. But I would give it a little time. Tell him too that it will take a little time to settle. HTHicon7.gif
    UK curly

    fine to medium strands, porous, medium density
    CG May 2009 - low poo occasionally
    Co-wash: Tresemme Naturals
    Styling -Naked Curl Defining Cream, BRHG, Mop Top, FSG
    Product for a good hair day: FSG or Mop Top
    Hair loves protein!
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  • poemaXXpoemaXX Posts: 456Registered Users
    Perhaps you are using to much product? I think it's definitely worth a try to lighten it up a bit. Or maybe the JessiCurl line just isn't for you. I use to load my hair with gel, but after using deep treatments and protein treatments my hair looks great after applying coconut oil and jojoba oil to wet hair. (It doesn't feel oily. It soaks right in.) I feel like you might need to try something else. Wish I could help your more. What is your curl type / porosity / etc? It should be helpful to look at what other similar curlies are using. :)
    || 3b; normal porosity; fine/normal texture || CG since Feb 2010 || SD/dandruff prone

    Current Routine BAQ henna 1/month Leave-in OH Hair Dew Cheapie Conditioner Tresemme Naturals Moisturizing
    Old Stand-bys extra-virgin coconut oil Protein AO GPB; Moisture AO HR Style AOMMJ – Kept for troubleshooting.
    Waiting to try extra-wide curlformers SD treatment H&S Clinical Strength

  • BoomygrrlBoomygrrl Posts: 4,940Registered Users
    I had to stop CG. Not because it was bad...I know it helps a lot of curlies here. CO washing was just tooooo much for my hair. My hair is fine-textured and can get weighed down easily. I'm still more gentle to my hair than I ever was in my pre-CG days, but I'm less gentle now in my post-CG days than when I was in my CG days (wow! that was a mouthful). Now, I use non-sulfate shampoos and I use some cones but ones that can easily wash out. I will use a sulfate shampoo once a week or once every week and a half because even with the non-sulfate shampoos, my hair still gets weighed down easily.
    Hopefully, you'll find a happy medium.
    That's right, I said it! I wear scrunchies!!

    I am a sulfate washing, cone slabbing, curly lovin' s.o.b. The CG police haven't caught me yet.
    :blob8:

    3a/3b
  • 85MR285MR2 Posts: 226Registered Users
    I wouldn't fret just yet. I told the bf at the beginning of my CG transition that it might be 6 weeks before things mellowed out, so he knew what to expect. It can take a while to transition. How long has it been for you?

    Also, like previously mentioned, both over conditioning and using too much product can make hair go flat. I've seen a lot of girls make themselves look flat and oily in their quest to eliminate frizz. What is your current routine and hair type? Pics?

    Lastly, here is a thread re: root volume and crown height. http://www.naturallycurly.com/curltalk/showthread.php?t=98715 I use a modified Icequeen method and pixiecurl difusse when I want volume. There are some other suggestiongs there as well. HTH Good luck!
    CG since 2/23/10!

    2B 3A mix, fine texture and high porosity at crown/bangs, normal elsewhere. I like protein!

    Trying to grow out a short haircut.

    WASH: Jessicurl Cleansing Cream (once every week or so)
    CONDITION: Jessicurl Too Shea! or Aloeba Conditioner
    STYLE: Jessicurl Gelebration Spray/Awe Inspiraling Spray

    /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fpublic.fotki.com%2F85MR2%2F" class="Popup (PICS OF CG TRANSITION SO FAR) Need to update. No pics with the Jessicurl products yet, but I LOVE them!
  • 85MR285MR2 Posts: 226Registered Users
    Boomygrrl wrote: »
    I had to stop CG. Not because it was bad...I know it helps a lot of curlies here. CO washing was just tooooo much for my hair. My hair is fine-textured and can get weighed down easily. I'm still more gentle to my hair than I ever was in my pre-CG days, but I'm less gentle now in my post-CG days than when I was in my CG days (wow! that was a mouthful). Now, I use non-sulfate shampoos and I use some cones but ones that can easily wash out. I will use a sulfate shampoo once a week or once every week and a half because even with the non-sulfate shampoos, my hair still gets weighed down easily.
    Hopefully, you'll find a happy medium.

    Agreed! Everyone should do what works for their hair. A low-poo may be necessary in the long run. I would tweak a couple things first, but I have one stashed in my cupboard just in case!
    CG since 2/23/10!

    2B 3A mix, fine texture and high porosity at crown/bangs, normal elsewhere. I like protein!

    Trying to grow out a short haircut.

    WASH: Jessicurl Cleansing Cream (once every week or so)
    CONDITION: Jessicurl Too Shea! or Aloeba Conditioner
    STYLE: Jessicurl Gelebration Spray/Awe Inspiraling Spray

    /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fpublic.fotki.com%2F85MR2%2F" class="Popup (PICS OF CG TRANSITION SO FAR) Need to update. No pics with the Jessicurl products yet, but I LOVE them!
  • finaleofseemfinaleofseem Posts: 900Registered Users
    85MR2 wrote: »
    Boomygrrl wrote: »
    I had to stop CG. Not because it was bad...I know it helps a lot of curlies here. CO washing was just tooooo much for my hair. My hair is fine-textured and can get weighed down easily. I'm still more gentle to my hair than I ever was in my pre-CG days, but I'm less gentle now in my post-CG days than when I was in my CG days (wow! that was a mouthful). Now, I use non-sulfate shampoos and I use some cones but ones that can easily wash out. I will use a sulfate shampoo once a week or once every week and a half because even with the non-sulfate shampoos, my hair still gets weighed down easily.
    Hopefully, you'll find a happy medium.

    Agreed! Everyone should do what works for their hair. A low-poo may be necessary in the long run. I would tweak a couple things first, but I have one stashed in my cupboard just in case!
    +1 I tried for about 2 months to go completely CG, but my scalp and hair just *really* love a good low-poo once a week or so. When I was exclusively co-washing, I got scalp acne. Not attractive!

    How long have you been at it? How often do you cowash? Are you fine-haired? Porous? Nonporous?

    I'm medium-textured, medium-to-thin thickness, and porous. I haven't tried the Jessicurl line, but maybe it's the products? I'd look at the hair bio thread to see what other curlies are using, and maybe order some samples from Kathymack if something sounds like it may work for you.
    Location: West Virginia (Eastern Panhandle)
    2b/cMii, medium-high porosity

    Likes protein and most oils, HATES mineral oil
    Summer Routine
    Poo: Tresemme Naturals Nourishing Moisture
    Cowash CJ Daily Fix
    Rinse out: Tresemme Naturals Nourishing Moisture
    Leave In: Tresemme Naturals Nourishing Moisture, SSRPT
    Stylers: Ecostyler Krystal, LALSG (in really high dews)
    PT: SS Repairing Protein Treatment
  • MirCurlsMirCurls Posts: 2,660Registered Users
    I also find that close-to-the-head curls and a flat top can seem "greasy" to many--it often does to me . I am trying to find that balance that gives me moisturized curls but doesn't flatten and overproduct me. I have not perfected the system. ahahha. But then, I've only been doing it three months, and I have made progress.

    I will not be totally CG looks like. I still like to use a stronger poo on occasion (to clarify) and I alternate poos--Come Clean, Daily Fix, [buylink=http://www.curlmart.com/DevaCurl-LowPoo-p-54.html?utm_source=naturallycurly.com&utm_medium=text-link&utm_content=curltalk-post-text&utm_campaign=devacurl-devacurl-lowpoo]Deva LowPoo[/buylink], Elucence Clarifying--depending on how my hair feels. But becuase I'm dry and porous, I do need lots of condish, the thing is, I someimes overcondish, and there's that greasy look!

    Right now, I'm working on getting crown height and some more volume. When the curls are perfectly coiled and clumped, I don't like how the overall style looks. After all, people aren't looking at my curls. They're looking at the "hair effect". A flat top, close to head, supercoily, low-volume hair "effect" is not flattering on most folks, and certainly not me.

    So, I think you can experiment with less product. In fact, try starting with the absolute minimum you think you can get away with (ie, poo, rinse out, a curl enhance in small quantities) and then do something to work up crown height (a bit of mousse or hard hold gel at the crown). Use some clips or stick fingers in to diffuse crown UP and roots UP close to the head. See if that works to give you a happier curl look your husband and you can enjoy.

    Sorry he didn't like it, but it's nice he could be honest. My hubby has complimented me MORE since I went back to curly hair (he met me when I was frizzy-curly totally air dry natural). But your guy got used to something else and, well, change isn't always welcome. There's a happy medium somewhere, that place where you can keep your hair healthy and curly and he can like its "clean and coily" look...
    3a3b
    Natural since 11/25/09
    Then: fine, superdry, non-elastic, porous
    Now: medium, dry, elastic, lower porosity, BSL

    Curl Junkie Conditions!
    Eden BW Cleansing Condish Rocks!

    ~CJ Protein Tx
    ; BEE-U-Ti-Ful Deep Condish
    ~SMasters Method; Pixie-curling
    Dumped clumps for VOLUME!

    Marchioness Mir, Magister of Moisturization & Mystic of the Lofty Crown in the Order of the Curly Crusaders
  • wavyblondewavyblonde Posts: 1,637Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    Definitely experiment with different products before you give up! I and a lot of other girls are trying to get more volume, as well. If I find something that really works, I'll let you know. Today I'm trying curl creme + mousse. Still wet, but fingers crossed!
    2c/3a with 2b underlayer. Fine, porous. Loves protein. But not hydrolized wheat protein. Yuck.

    Wash: WEN Sweet Almond Mint or Pomegranate
    Gels: LA Looks Sport Gel
    Mousse: Tigi Catwalk Curlesque
    Curling creams/gellies: Coffee Coco Curling Cream Lite, Spiral Solutions Curl Enhancing Jelly, Curls Gel-les'c
    SOTC: JC N&S (LOVE)
    http://public.fotki.com/wavyblonde/hair-2010/
  • FoxyCleopatraFoxyCleopatra Posts: 412Registered Users
    poemaXX wrote: »
    Perhaps you are using to much product? I think it's definitely worth a try to lighten it up a bit. Or maybe the JessiCurl line just isn't for you. I use to load my hair with gel, but after using deep treatments and protein treatments my hair looks great after applying coconut oil and jojoba oil to wet hair. (It doesn't feel oily. It soaks right in.) I feel like you might need to try something else. Wish I could help your more. What is your curl type / porosity / etc? It should be helpful to look at what other similar curlies are using. :)

    I agree. If JessiCurl doesn't work, try a diff line maybe? Might help :)
  • 85MR285MR2 Posts: 226Registered Users
    I wanted to add that it is cool that he mentioned something. I asked my bf to let me know right away if I looked greasy, or if my hair smelled bad, or anything out of the ordinary. That way I could make the appropriate adjustments, whether that meant change up products, methods, whatever. So far he has made comments three times. Once to tell me my hair smelled good, once to tell me it was really pretty that day, and this morning he told me that I should really wash it (he know that means co-washing right now). I did a deep treatment last night, and the olive oil left me a little greasy at the roots. I cowashed and he said it took care of it. But having a second set of eyes is awesome! Take advantage of it.
    CG since 2/23/10!

    2B 3A mix, fine texture and high porosity at crown/bangs, normal elsewhere. I like protein!

    Trying to grow out a short haircut.

    WASH: Jessicurl Cleansing Cream (once every week or so)
    CONDITION: Jessicurl Too Shea! or Aloeba Conditioner
    STYLE: Jessicurl Gelebration Spray/Awe Inspiraling Spray

    /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fpublic.fotki.com%2F85MR2%2F" class="Popup (PICS OF CG TRANSITION SO FAR) Need to update. No pics with the Jessicurl products yet, but I LOVE them!
  • *Marah**Marah* Posts: 8,032Registered Users
    I am a CG'er and you really have to be careful with products weighing the hair down (if you don't want that particular look) especially if you have fine hair.

    I have REALLY thick and dense hair and my hair can hold A LOT of product and not feel or look greasy once it's semi-dry. But even with my thick hair.. using to much of a certain product can go over kill.

    I love BIG fluffy hair and I wear my hair like that pretty much daily...and I try to use the amount of product that I know will not make my hair look flat.. I just don't look right with flat hair.

    So you might have to not use so much product. Being a CG'er doesn't mean you have to go over kill with conditioners and styling agents. You may have to experiement with different products or use what you have much more sparingly than what you are using.
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  • crimsonshedemoncrimsonshedemon Posts: 2,098Registered Users
    Jessicurl has a no poo and a low poo.
    I've also started experimenting with soap bars from Kathymack followed by a ACV rinse.

    Be careful when you condition. I don't apply it against my roots at all. With my daughter, who's hair is very fine, I tell her to condition from ears down so her hair won't get weighed down.

    Good luck
  • CurliLocksCurliLocks Posts: 10,572Registered Users Curl Dabbler
    I never got into the full CG conditioner wash thing as my hair looked that way too. I used Jessicurl's cleansers as well, and still had that look. BUT, I jumped on the Curl Junkie bandwagon and am using the Daily Fix -- love it! It doesn't leave my hair gunky or flat at all! Try it! :)
    SF Bay Area, CA * "The Angel-Goddess-Guru of Haircoloring" :D
    3b/c/a mix. medium texture, low porosity
    My Motto: Strand Test! some hair pics
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] -- gone, but never forgotten.
  • kathymackkathymack Posts: 9,999Registered Users
    +1 for the products. Jessicurl made my hair limp and lifeless after only a week. I'd try a few more things before I gave up. Many of us are modified CG. You have to do what works for you.
    3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity
    SE PA

    HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Aloe Fix
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  • RedMermaidRedMermaid Posts: 109Registered Users
    I have to agree with what everyone has been saying about lessening product use, or maybe something a little less "rich" would help as well. I haven't been CG long, but already leaned that I don't need nearly the same amount of product I used to use. Now I only rake a DIME SIZED plop of GDLI (see signature) as opposed to the half-dollar (sooo much for shoulder length hair!) sized I used when first turning (almost always looked greasy and felt heavy as well).

    As for crown curls, plopping has really made a difference and nothing helped more than buying a decent diffuser.

    Finally, don't underestimate a good ACV rinse and don't lose hope. It's good he's telling you these things, but it doesn't mean you have the go back to the way it was before. Thank him for being honest and ask his opinion when you change products to see if things are improving.
    3a/b, med porosity
    CG as of 01/10
    CoWash: V05 Kiwi
    Cond: Burt's Bees Grapefruit and Sugar Beet
    DT: Lustrasilk Liquid Cholesterol
    Leave-in: Giovanni Direct Leave-in
    Styling: ECOgel
    Testing: using my rinse-out as a leave-in

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  • Libertybelle67Libertybelle67 Posts: 76Registered Users
    Need to get my hair type into my signature somehow. I have the botticelli type curls according to the CG book. I have only been trying CG for a month now. Still experimenting with product. I think that I AM fine and not coarse like one of you had suggested. I do think I am somewhere between a 2c-3b if there is such a thing! And I have a lot of hair, but it has to be fine because it does weigh down easy. I am used to using a lot of product and that very well may be my problem. My hair is also to the small of my back when wet, so it is pretty long and the weight of just the hair does drag it down I am sure. I have an appt. to go see a Deva Trained hairstylist in Asheville, NC soon, so I am hoping that she can help with a better cut and with some suggestions for my hair type. She told me to be prepared to spend about 2 hours with her.

    Yeah my husband is great for being honest with me! We are early 40's and have only been married a year and half so we are still in the honeymoon stage, but getting married at this age is AWESOME! Through with all the growing pains and into a real relationship with the same goals, so yeah, I do appreciate his honesty and tell him so! But thanks for reminding me to do that just in case I had forgot! Sometimes I am single minded that way!

    Thanks for all the suggestions and I do think I am going to pull together some from all of you, esp. the Curl Junkie suggestions and ACV rinse out and using some low poos or no sulfate poos.

    Again, a great big thanks to all!
    3a-3b, coarse (?), thick, elastic, porous! Mod. CG 11/2010
    Poo: Tresemme Naturals Low Sulfate Shampoo, Bain De Terre Green Meadow Poo, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Poo for colored hair
    Condish/Cowashes: Tresemme Naturals, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Conditioner
    DT/Leave In: KC Knot Today
    Gels/Stylers: KCCC, HE Totally Twisted
    Weekly: Nothing yet! Don't need!
    "Curls on the Go": Water Spritz
  • xcptnlxcptnl Posts: 15,678Registered Users
    Boomygrrl wrote: »
    I had to stop CG. Not because it was bad...I know it helps a lot of curlies here. CO washing was just tooooo much for my hair. My hair is fine-textured and can get weighed down easily. I'm still more gentle to my hair than I ever was in my pre-CG days, but I'm less gentle now in my post-CG days than when I was in my CG days (wow! that was a mouthful). Now, I use non-sulfate shampoos and I use some cones but ones that can easily wash out. I will use a sulfate shampoo once a week or once every week and a half because even with the non-sulfate shampoos, my hair still gets weighed down easily.
    Hopefully, you'll find a happy medium.

    Same here. Do what makes you feel right. I also low poo daily-not sure if boomygrrl does-so do not feel like you have to not shampoo. But if you want to continue on-that is ok too.
    Central Massachusetts

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  • goobernutgoobernut Posts: 2,317Registered Users
    I'm so glad some of you mentioned that you shampoo weekly. The low-poos just weren't cutting it. It took me forever to realize that my hair wasn't getting completely clean either. Now I use a sulfate shampoo (and not the Kenra either, that sulfate doesn't seem to cleanse the oil off very well) once a week.

    So if the CG police come after me, I'm gonna rat you guys out too. LOL
    Grand Goobah Caedran, Aqueous Infusion of Demulcents, Order of the Curly Crusaders

    Fia 2cFi, fine texture, med porosity CG 5-29-09 * My hair loves protein! Currently using : DermOrganics Shampoo and IHM, G2B Kinkier Mousse, Re:Coil VMM, Anything Spiral Solutions! MO Sealing. Coconut Oil Pre-Poo, once a month Hard Water shampoo. Avoiding Glycerin in finishing products.
  • parzyparzy Posts: 246Registered Users
    Jessicurl stylers sadly made me quite stringy - but I do like the conditioners!

    I am a huge fan of low poos because my hair gets overconditioned and weighed so easily. I also use just a tad of product - leave in some condish just on the ends, plop, scrunch about a quarter of gel from the ends to the roots, nice volume and no lankness!

    CG worked great for me, but as I have said in other threads, I just really prefer a much less defined, almost drier look to my waves. Not unhealthy, just airy.
    2b (a fine 'n porous wavy)...and finally growing out :-)

    Wash: Deva Low-poo
    Condish and leave in: OneC or Suave Coconut

    Styler: Angell or the Deva foam, sometimes KKKC

    Etc: Set It Free as a refresher

    Protien: Looking for one

    I love hairspray...don't judge
  • MirCurlsMirCurls Posts: 2,660Registered Users
    Yup. I use a clarifier more often. I actually am starting to like using a stronger poo after nopooing. So, I'm starting to alternate--nopoo, lowpoo, lowpoo, poo, nopoo, etc. I find that, maybe cause I do use oils as sealants and pomades that I need to cleanse a bit stronger or my hair gets superflat.
    3a3b
    Natural since 11/25/09
    Then: fine, superdry, non-elastic, porous
    Now: medium, dry, elastic, lower porosity, BSL

    Curl Junkie Conditions!
    Eden BW Cleansing Condish Rocks!

    ~CJ Protein Tx
    ; BEE-U-Ti-Ful Deep Condish
    ~SMasters Method; Pixie-curling
    Dumped clumps for VOLUME!

    Marchioness Mir, Magister of Moisturization & Mystic of the Lofty Crown in the Order of the Curly Crusaders
  • DeodandDeodand Posts: 159Registered Users
    I had to go back to low-poo because of scalp acne, and after six months, I'm thinking of going back to sulfate shampoo for the same reason. My scalp will not adjust, and I've tried changing things around.

    Mind you, I have low-porosity unprocessed hair, so I think it'll be OK. I just want to talk about it a bit so anyone who doesn't go CG or even partial CG doesn't feel like they've done something terrible.

    Whatever else happens, I won't go back to silicone!
    2B low porosity low elasticity fine texture
    I'm not CG - tried it and failed for two years. My scalp hates it.
  • goobernutgoobernut Posts: 2,317Registered Users
    Same here Deodand! I got horrible scalp acne, yukko. I do now what Mir described earlier and just alternate all my different products. The CJ cleansing condish is awesome, so I even no-poo sometimes. I rotate them around quite a bit. Before I do my PT, I'll use a sulfate shampoo so that the protein will (hopefully) bond better :)
    Grand Goobah Caedran, Aqueous Infusion of Demulcents, Order of the Curly Crusaders

    Fia 2cFi, fine texture, med porosity CG 5-29-09 * My hair loves protein! Currently using : DermOrganics Shampoo and IHM, G2B Kinkier Mousse, Re:Coil VMM, Anything Spiral Solutions! MO Sealing. Coconut Oil Pre-Poo, once a month Hard Water shampoo. Avoiding Glycerin in finishing products.
  • TexaskurlTexaskurl Posts: 124Registered Users
    You mention your hair is quite fine. I have fine hair, and I've discovered that protein gives me the root-lift I need. I don't use a big protein treatment, just a bit of AOGPB each time I wash.
    fine hair, not sure of porosity.
    Deva Care Lo-Poo
    Rinse-outs: AO GPB, JC
    Leave-in: CJ Curl Assurance (a dime's worth)
    Style cream: KCCC, CJ CCCC-lite, & BRHG
    Protein Treatment: SS Repairing Protein Treatment
    DT: SS Deeply Decadent Moisturizing Treatment, CJ Hibiscus & Banana Deep Fix



    Holy Grails: AO GPB, SS Repairing Protein Treatment, KCCC, & BRHG
  • Libertybelle67Libertybelle67 Posts: 76Registered Users
    Texaskurl wrote: »
    You mention your hair is quite fine. I have fine hair, and I've discovered that protein gives me the root-lift I need. I don't use a big protein treatment, just a bit of AOGPB each time I wash.

    Hey there Texas, I think the AO stands for Aubrey Organics, but what is the second part? GPB? And where do you buy yours?

    Anybody else got any suggestions for protein? And also how about washing with the [buylink=http://www.curlmart.com/Kinky-Curly-Come-Clean-Moisturizing-Shampoo-p-844.html?utm_source=naturallycurly.com&utm_medium=text-link&utm_content=curltalk-post-text&utm_campaign=Kinky-Curly-Come-Clean-Moisturizing-Shampoo]Kinky Curly Come Clean[/buylink] like one a week and low poo too? Would that help me do ya'll think and still keep me CG?

    Ya'll have been great and thanks for all the great help, I check this daily to set up my next strategy! LOL
    3a-3b, coarse (?), thick, elastic, porous! Mod. CG 11/2010
    Poo: Tresemme Naturals Low Sulfate Shampoo, Bain De Terre Green Meadow Poo, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Poo for colored hair
    Condish/Cowashes: Tresemme Naturals, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Conditioner
    DT/Leave In: KC Knot Today
    Gels/Stylers: KCCC, HE Totally Twisted
    Weekly: Nothing yet! Don't need!
    "Curls on the Go": Water Spritz
  • Libertybelle67Libertybelle67 Posts: 76Registered Users
    MirCurls wrote: »
    Yup. I use a clarifier more often. I actually am starting to like using a stronger poo after nopooing. So, I'm starting to alternate--nopoo, lowpoo, lowpoo, poo, nopoo, etc. I find that, maybe cause I do use oils as sealants and pomades that I need to cleanse a bit stronger or my hair gets superflat.

    I have heard a lot of people on here talking about they are "crazy for Curl Junkie". What products do you use to alternate with and kind of "clean up"? If you know what I mean. I don't use oils or pomades, (yet! lol) but I am using the Jessicurl exclusively and I probably need to mix and match huh? I know I am buggin' ya'll to death, but just trying to find something here to work for me. Oh, I saw your post about crown height. I went back to the CG book and there is a page in there about "criss-crossing" the clips at the front and top and crown. Have you tried that for some height? That looks like that might work for me too, so I am going to try that tonight when I wash and air dry! HTH
    3a-3b, coarse (?), thick, elastic, porous! Mod. CG 11/2010
    Poo: Tresemme Naturals Low Sulfate Shampoo, Bain De Terre Green Meadow Poo, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Poo for colored hair
    Condish/Cowashes: Tresemme Naturals, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Conditioner
    DT/Leave In: KC Knot Today
    Gels/Stylers: KCCC, HE Totally Twisted
    Weekly: Nothing yet! Don't need!
    "Curls on the Go": Water Spritz
  • Libertybelle67Libertybelle67 Posts: 76Registered Users
    85MR2 wrote: »
    Boomygrrl wrote: »
    I had to stop CG. Not because it was bad...I know it helps a lot of curlies here. CO washing was just tooooo much for my hair. My hair is fine-textured and can get weighed down easily. I'm still more gentle to my hair than I ever was in my pre-CG days, but I'm less gentle now in my post-CG days than when I was in my CG days (wow! that was a mouthful). Now, I use non-sulfate shampoos and I use some cones but ones that can easily wash out. I will use a sulfate shampoo once a week or once every week and a half because even with the non-sulfate shampoos, my hair still gets weighed down easily.
    Hopefully, you'll find a happy medium.

    Agreed! Everyone should do what works for their hair. A low-poo may be necessary in the long run. I would tweak a couple things first, but I have one stashed in my cupboard just in case!
    +1 I tried for about 2 months to go completely CG, but my scalp and hair just *really* love a good low-poo once a week or so. When I was exclusively co-washing, I got scalp acne. Not attractive!

    How long have you been at it? How often do you cowash? Are you fine-haired? Porous? Nonporous?

    I'm medium-textured, medium-to-thin thickness, and porous. I haven't tried the Jessicurl line, but maybe it's the products? I'd look at the hair bio thread to see what other curlies are using, and maybe order some samples from Kathymack if something sounds like it may work for you.

    I co wash once every 3 days or so, sometimes 4 if the hair is ok. I only washed when I was "regular" washing every 2 days, so that was my approximate for when to co wash. I am a 2c-3b I have decided and I have high elasticity, and high porosity with it being medium, not fine or coarse in texture. I have only been at it for about 4 weeks and still feeling my way, but have ordered full size of JC product from Curlmart and now regret it! But I will see how things go. Am going to wash with KC Come Clean, do ACV rinse, DT with Knot Today, and use KC Curling Custard tonight and see how it goes! I may need to mix it up and find low poos along with the KC Come Clean, ACV rinse weekly, and learn height tricks for the front and crown. Am studying the CG book! Thanks for the help!
    3a-3b, coarse (?), thick, elastic, porous! Mod. CG 11/2010
    Poo: Tresemme Naturals Low Sulfate Shampoo, Bain De Terre Green Meadow Poo, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Poo for colored hair
    Condish/Cowashes: Tresemme Naturals, L'Oreal Sulfate Free Conditioner
    DT/Leave In: KC Knot Today
    Gels/Stylers: KCCC, HE Totally Twisted
    Weekly: Nothing yet! Don't need!
    "Curls on the Go": Water Spritz
  • CurlieTopCurlieTop Posts: 345Registered Users
    OP, I understand your dilemma. My hair is on the border of wavy and curly (so it's only moderately dry in its natural state, not super dry), and after experimenting with CG for a month I've come to realize that I actually need to continue sulfate shampooing (not no-poo or low-poo, but sulfate shampoo) to avoid the "greasy curl" look. For me, it's twice a week! (However before CG I used to shampoo my hair EVERY DAY... so big difference!) After a shampoo, I follow with both the Suave and Garnier Triple Nutrition and try not to wash the Garnier Triple Nutrition completely out. My hair actually looks BEST the day after I sulfate shampoo it, because the curls are gorgeous and defined but not too shiny/greasy, so they look like I heat-curled them. And even on weekend days when I go without styling product, my hair is still 10x softer than it ever has been in my life. So don't feel like you can never shampoo again... I think everything is worth a try, and when you first start out it's a long and arduous learning process to find out what works best for *your* hair. Good luck!!
    ~ curlie top ~
    2C in back, 3A in front, fine to medium texture
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  • CurlyToastCurlyToast Posts: 579Registered Users
    Ain't no shame in shampoo (no really, there isn't. You'd need an extra 'e' . . . ). But what might also help, if you wanted to stay as product-related CG as possible, is ye olde boar bristle brush. I still use mine almost nightly and find it particularly effective when I'm off the shampoo wagon. It distributes the oil down the shaft, so you won't get the greasy roots thing quite so soon. And it also just makes my hair more manageable whether I'm going for second day wavies, or styling my curls "normally".
  • RedMermaidRedMermaid Posts: 109Registered Users
    There is another thing I overlooked and couldn't figure out for a while: when I go stay at my folk's farm for a long weekend and use their water I NEVER have a good hair day. Turns out the well water is so hard and full of rust and iron that only a good shampoo-ing will help it out. I've even thought about buying a jug of filtered water from the store to rinse with instead. Anyone else get that? Maybe it's the reason for such passionate hair battles in high school!
    3a/b, med porosity
    CG as of 01/10
    CoWash: V05 Kiwi
    Cond: Burt's Bees Grapefruit and Sugar Beet
    DT: Lustrasilk Liquid Cholesterol
    Leave-in: Giovanni Direct Leave-in
    Styling: ECOgel
    Testing: using my rinse-out as a leave-in

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  • ShanaVilloriaShanaVilloria Posts: 263Registered Users
    Wishing the OP and everyone the best of luck along their CG or mod-CG journeys! All the advice here seems really sound.

    And it's great that you're getting a fresh Deva haircut soon, that may help a lot too, so that you have an excellent foundation to start from.

    Hope your hair experiments work out well!

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    2A and 3A
    Co-wash:
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    Rinse out: DevaCurl OneC, KCKT
    Leave in: Curl Junkie Beauticurls
    Styling: CHS Curl Keeper + KCCC
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