My baby girl was born still :(

Katina128Katina128 Registered Users Posts: 560
I went in this past friday because I couldn't feel her move, and an u/s showed she had no heartbeat. I gave birth to her on Saturday 9-19-09 at 4:20pm. She was 26 wks gestation, 1lb 7oz, 12 inches long and just beautiful. We had an autopsy done and hope to have results of that in another week. We are devastated and heartbroken of course. It took us 2 years to conceive her with lots of infertility treatment. Now, we have to start all over again. My sons are so incredibly sad. They wanted their baby sister soooooo much. They prayed for a sister long before we were able to conceive. I'm just so shocked and it's just so unfair. If you could spare a good thought or prayer, we would surely appreciate it as we try to come to terms with our life without her in it.
Katina, 3a redhead with spirals/waves
My Faves:
CJ CCCC Lite, Mirracurls gel, Marie Dean Curly Styling Cream


  • LoloDSMLoloDSM Registered Users Posts: 3,778 Curl Neophyte
    Oh, Katina. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could say something that would make you feel better. You and your family, including your baby girl, are in my prayers. God bless.
    Loose botticelli curls and waves
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  • anonymous_22139anonymous_22139 Registered Users Posts: 659 Curl Neophyte
    My deepest sympathy. Praying now.
  • tinahtinah Central FloridaRegistered Users Posts: 1,195 Curl Neophyte
    I"m so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • WileE-DeadWileE-Dead Banned Banned Users Posts: 24,963 Curl Neophyte
    I'm very sorry to hear this...
  • PixieCurlPixieCurl Syracuse, NYRegistered Users Posts: 5,656
    I'm so, so sorry Katina.
    Faith, 3Aish redhead
    Mama to two wild superheroes and a curly-headed baby boy :love5:
  • nynaeve77nynaeve77 Dallas/Ft. Worth MetroplexRegistered Users Posts: 7,135 Curl Novice
    I'm so sorry for you loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
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  • brown_eyedgal20brown_eyedgal20 Registered Users Posts: 412
    I am sorry that you are going through this...sending many prayers from my family to yours...

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  • geekygeeky Registered Users Posts: 4,995
    I am so sorry.
    To Trenell, MizKerri and geeky:
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  • ninja dogninja dog Registered Users Posts: 23,780 Curl Neophyte
    So sorry.

    Best wishes to you and yours.
  • DEL2CDEL2C Registered Users Posts: 6,418 Curl Neophyte
    Oh Katina, I'm so sad to hear this! Lots of T&P's to give you and your family the strength to get through this. (((hugs)))
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  • Jess the MessJess the Mess Registered Users Posts: 5,844 Curl Neophyte
    So so sorry :(
    High Priestess JessMess, follower of the Goddess of the Coiling Way and Confiscator of Concoctions in the Order of the Curly Crusaders

  • DarkAngelDarkAngel Registered Users Posts: 2,671 Curl Neophyte
    I am so sorry.

    "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -- Theodor Seuss Geisel
  • curly_keltiecurly_keltie Registered Users Posts: 791
    Oh no! I am so sorry for you and your family.
    Long, blonde, 3a/mostly b hair.

  • alidanalidan Registered Users Posts: 111
    Sorry for your loss :sad::sad::sad:
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    Products lines I would love to try: Miss Jessie's, KBB , Qhemets and Hairveda.
  • CurlyminxCurlyminx Registered Users Posts: 5,581
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Mix of 3s, thick, coarse, medium porosity

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  • webjockeywebjockey Registered Users Posts: 2,786
    I'm so sorry.
  • MagooMagoo Registered Users Posts: 2,173 Curl Neophyte
    I'm am so, so sorry. You are in my thoughts.
    3b/c fine, thick, porous, protein sensitive
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    Experimenting with BRHG

    "If you want the rainbow, you've gotta put up with the rain"
  • RedCatWavesRedCatWaves Registered Users Posts: 31,259 Curl Connoisseur
    My deep condolences to you and your family. I wish you all peace.
  • misspammisspam Registered Users Posts: 5,318
    How unbelievably sad. I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • inheritedcurlsinheritedcurls Registered Users Posts: 2,954 Curl Connoisseur
    I am so sorry for your loss. My family will be thinking of yours.
  • ruralcurlsruralcurls Registered Users Posts: 2,574
    I am so sorry for your loss. I will be sending good thoughts and prayers your way.
  • spiderlashes5000spiderlashes5000 Registered Users Posts: 17,898 Curl Virtuoso
    I don't know what to say. I pray that you are able to conceive again soon and give your sons the little sister they wanted so badly...and that time will make this tragedy less painful. My heart goes out to you. ((HUGS))
  • AmnerisAmneris Registered Users Posts: 15,117
    I am so sorry - I sent up a prayer for you and your family.
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  • Yes, Still PaulaYes, Still Paula Registered Users Posts: 485
    I'm so, so very sorry for your loss...
  • legendslegends Registered Users Posts: 3,073
    I'm sorry for your loss.
    Eres o te haces?
  • RheannaRheanna KentuckyRegistered Users Posts: 2,614
    That's just heartbreaking. :( I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • SilverLockesSilverLockes Registered Users Posts: 74
    I'm so, so sorry. I wish you peace.
    3a on top and sides, 3b underneath in the back, and 2-something in front. What a mess....:dontknow:

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  • bushyheadbushyhead Registered Users Posts: 1,676
    I am so incredibly sorry. My thoughts are with you.

    "Yesterday's history, tomorrow's a mystery, today is a gift . . . that's why it's called the present." - Unknown
  • DelmaDelma connecticutRegistered Users Posts: 1,121
    I am so sorry, will be praying for you and your family.
  • curlyhairmichukcurlyhairmichuk Perth, ScotlandRegistered Users Posts: 860
    So sorry - keep her in your heart :love2:
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    Co-wash: Tresemme Naturals
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    Product for a good hair day: FSG or Mop Top
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    Enjoying the freedom of going curly!:wave:
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