Home› Curly Teens
CurlTalk

Isn't it nice when guys appreciate your hair?

ElithiaElithia Registered Users Posts: 297
in Curly Teens
Most of my guy friends don't really notice hair except in the sense of "oh, your hair is curly" and "her hair is straight". Like, if I do something different with it they don't even notice. And a couple of them prefer straight hair. But the other day I was chatting with one of my guy friends (he's a curly too!) on Facebook and he said:

"I just have to tell you that I love your hair. It's so perfect. Like, seriously...I'm in love with your hair."

:laughing6:

If he ever asks me out I am so saying yes. :cool: We can get married and have lots of curly babies, LOL.
Proudly CG since 8/10/06 - the story of my hair!
Type: 3a/b, very thick
Length: almost BSL wet
Products: Suave coconut conditioner, coconut oil, Totally Twisted gel

Don't forget to be awesome!
«1

Comments

  • DominoDomino Registered Users Posts: 287
    Awww how nice of him...my boyfriend didn't even notice when I cut 3 inches off!! You're so lucky to be around such guys :cat:
    :king: Priestess Brigit of the Moonlight Oracle in the Order of the Curly Crusaders :king:

    Type: Mix of 1c/2c/3a , fine-ish medium, ii/iii, normal porosity
    Lenght: U-Shaped BSL
    Goal: Wavy and clumpy waist length hair
  • laynesavedthedaylaynesavedtheday Registered Users Posts: 239 Curl Neophyte
    lol Don't worry! My own dad didn't even notice when I dyed my hair dark red or when I cut it from mid back length to shoulder length. Granted I don't see him everyday...but come on haha.
  • ElithiaElithia Registered Users Posts: 297
    It took my dad weeks to notice I'd gotten second piercings in my ears. :D
    Proudly CG since 8/10/06 - the story of my hair!
    Type: 3a/b, very thick
    Length: almost BSL wet
    Products: Suave coconut conditioner, coconut oil, Totally Twisted gel

    Don't forget to be awesome!
  • nutterbutterflynutterbutterfly Registered Users Posts: 137
    Guys who notice hair... it's a beautiful thing =)

    There's one guy I know who is CONSTANTLY playing with/"petting" my hair (bothers me, but if I'm planning on washing it soon anyways I let him). A few times he's even made comments like "Are those... light streaks in your hair??" (speaking of my natural highlights) and he always talks about how he wants to have my hair :sign5:

    Another guy... he's a curly... likes to talk about hair. It kinda cracks me up. He's always like... "We have just about the same hair"
    ... which isn't actually true, his hair is fine and 3b while mine is coarsecoarseTHICK and 3a/b.
    but it's the thought that counts, eh?
    I am a 3a/b with normal-coarse hair that is medium-thick and fairly porous.

    Currently using:
    ~VitaminShampoo (CG :mrgreen: )
    ~L'oreal Vive Pro Nutri Gloss for medium to long hair that's curly/wavy
    ......wow that is a mouthful.
    ~Garnier Fructis curl-shaping spray gel
    *or*
    ~Pantene curl defining mousse
  • botticelli_girl922botticelli_girl922 Registered Users Posts: 896
    Elithia wrote: »
    Most of my guy friends don't really notice hair except in the sense of "oh, your hair is curly" and "her hair is straight". Like, if I do something different with it they don't even notice. And a couple of them prefer straight hair. But the other day I was chatting with one of my guy friends (he's a curly too!) on Facebook and he said:

    "I just have to tell you that I love your hair. It's so perfect. Like, seriously...I'm in love with your hair."

    :laughing6:

    If he ever asks me out I am so saying yes. :cool: We can get married and have lots of curly babies, LOL.

    Aw, that's cool! I wish a guy would tell me that. I've never gotten any compliments about my hair from a guy...only from women and girls. Oh well.
    Curl Type: 2c-3a, Medium thickness, Normal Porosity
    Weekly Low-poo: TJ Pure Castile Soap
    Co-wash: V05 Strawberries and Cream
    Conditioner: GVP Conditioning Balm (Possibly HG!), GF Triple Nutrition
    Styling Products: CK, Re:coil, JCRR, JCCC, LALMHG, EcoStyler, SMU Spray Gel, Boots

    Life has many choices. Eternity has two. What's yours?
  • ElithiaElithia Registered Users Posts: 297
    Yeah...I don't think I've gotten compliments from any guy but him. It's the kind of thing girls notice that guys don't, I guess.
    Proudly CG since 8/10/06 - the story of my hair!
    Type: 3a/b, very thick
    Length: almost BSL wet
    Products: Suave coconut conditioner, coconut oil, Totally Twisted gel

    Don't forget to be awesome!
  • NoraCurlNoraCurl Registered Users Posts: 345
    My dad always noticed every little thing I do to my hair. Like, even if I switch from a low ponytail to a high ponytail, he compliments it! :iconbiggrin: I just LOVE when guys aren't so "manly" all the time!
    :toothy4::toothy4:
    "Smile...just do it.":angel11:

    3aMii, medium porosity, medium to low elasticity:color:

    Shampoo & Conditioner: HE Hydralicious Featherweight
    Styling: HETMS Spray Gel and Finishing Touch Cream
    DT: GF Triple Nutrition

  • BbyCurlyFriesBbyCurlyFries Registered Users Posts: 4
    haha my boyfriend always notices when i do something new with my hair i love it! :)

    once i cut a few inches off and when i saw him
    right away he complimented it lol.
    he said that if we get married and have kids that hopefully they will have beautiful curlies Just Like Me

    what a dork lol :) ily him
  • fabisebienfabisebien Registered Users Posts: 76
    Elithia wrote: »
    If he ever asks me out I am so saying yes. :cool: We can get married and have lots of curly babies, LOL.

    jeje sounds like a good plan
    it is very nice when they do, guys have complemented my hair, just none that I liked, lol, but someday
    New Staples: As I Am: Coconut CoWash Cleansing Conditioner and Leave-In Conditioner.
    Method For Styling: Rake and Shake. And Let Air Dry.

    Bird! [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
  • ElithiaElithia Registered Users Posts: 297
    fabisebien wrote: »
    Elithia wrote: »
    If he ever asks me out I am so saying yes. :cool: We can get married and have lots of curly babies, LOL.

    jeje sounds like a good plan
    it is very nice when they do, guys have complemented my hair, just none that I liked, lol, but someday

    Haha yeah, I think I'm a little young for the second part, but maybe I'll keep him in mind. ;)
    Proudly CG since 8/10/06 - the story of my hair!
    Type: 3a/b, very thick
    Length: almost BSL wet
    Products: Suave coconut conditioner, coconut oil, Totally Twisted gel

    Don't forget to be awesome!
  • fabisebienfabisebien Registered Users Posts: 76
    Elithia wrote: »
    fabisebien wrote: »
    Elithia wrote: »
    If he ever asks me out I am so saying yes. :cool: We can get married and have lots of curly babies, LOL.

    jeje sounds like a good plan
    it is very nice when they do, guys have complemented my hair, just none that I liked, lol, but someday

    Haha yeah, I think I'm a little young for the second part, but maybe I'll keep him in mind. ;)
    please do, most guys would only notice me when I straighten my hair, and that's like twice a year!angry9: they even try to talk me into straighten it more often. Screw them! I have great hair.
    New Staples: As I Am: Coconut CoWash Cleansing Conditioner and Leave-In Conditioner.
    Method For Styling: Rake and Shake. And Let Air Dry.

    Bird! [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
  • rosieradrosierad Registered Users Posts: 10
    I've had lots of compliments or comments about my hair, mainly because the colour changes like my clothes.

    I've yet to actually hear a compliment about my actual hair, and not the colour.

    I only get compliments on my wavy/curly hair when I actually say something about it first, so we'll see.
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

    My hair in its natural state.

    Type: 2C-ish
  • ReDDnStuFFReDDnStuFF Registered Users Posts: 8
    There's this one very metrosexual guy who does the school plays with me and he gets on my nerves sometimes but one day I had my hair straight (which I only do once in a while) and he just looked at me for a minute and was like "Y'know your curly hair is so much prettier". I was having a bad day and I almost hugged him it made me feel so good.
    Guys should notice things more.
  • tengoRizostengoRizos Registered Users Posts: 195
    so i have 1 guy friend who is always commenting on my curly hair. seriously he is soo good for my confidence :D even on my bad hair days. once i just made a general comment like "oh, man, my hair, ughhhhh" and he starts complimenting me. and i seriously wanted to hug him. and he has curly hair too, so he understands all the hardship lol he even said that if he and his gf break up we will get married and have curly babies teehee
    2c/3a mix and very fine, normal porosity
    Shampoo: Loreal EverSleek Sulfate-free (Only 1 or 2x a week)

    CoWash Suave Naturals Coconut or VO5 Kiwi Lime Squeeze

    Rinse Out: Giovanni 2chic Avocado and Olive Oil or GVPCB

    Leave in: More Suave Naturals Coconut or GVPCB Always diluted with water/epsom salt spray

    Products: AG Re:coil with EcoStyler Olive Oil gel or HETT gel


  • ElithiaElithia Registered Users Posts: 297
    tengoRizos wrote: »
    so i have 1 guy friend who is always commenting on my curly hair. seriously he is soo good for my confidence :D even on my bad hair days. once i just made a general comment like "oh, man, my hair, ughhhhh" and he starts complimenting me. and i seriously wanted to hug him. and he has curly hair too, so he understands all the hardship lol he even said that if he and his gf break up we will get married and have curly babies teehee
    I guess I'm not the only one with an evil plan. :D

    Seriously, I already make plans about what I will do to my curly kids' hair when I have them. ;) I just need to make sure I marry a guy who won't give them straight hair. My mum is straight, my dad is curly, and of their four kids I'm the only one who got the curls!
    Proudly CG since 8/10/06 - the story of my hair!
    Type: 3a/b, very thick
    Length: almost BSL wet
    Products: Suave coconut conditioner, coconut oil, Totally Twisted gel

    Don't forget to be awesome!
  • iluvmycurls2796iluvmycurls2796 Registered Users Posts: 8
    There's this guy who was in my social studies class last and kept on playing with my hair. I didn't really mind cuz he's kinda cute. Sadly he has straight hair. :( But i hope to marry Nick Jonas and having little curly haired singing babies! How adorable is that!!! My best friend in the whole wide world actually had a dream that that happened.... hm. but anyways people are like always playing with my hair cuz out of all the eighth graders I'm like the only girl with curly hair. Everyone else stairghtens it.
  • livvy123livvy123 Registered Users Posts: 102
    I used to be under the impression that no guys liked curly hair, and it upset me for obvious reasons. This year though I straightened my hair more often than usual, and my six closest guy friends basically yelled at me for straightening it. Its been curly ever since :sunny:
    CG since January 18th, 2009:blob2:
  • michelle16812michelle16812 Registered Users Posts: 1
    There was this one guy at my church who loved my hair. He would alwayse comment on how natrually pretty it was and how i didnt have to try hard to get it that way. As opposed to straightening, blow drying and etc.
    It always made me feel nice when he would say those things :]
  • MysticSpiralMysticSpiral Registered Users Posts: 1,024
    There once was a guy who just stuck his hand in my hair (see how thick my hair is?) and scruched it and said "you're hair's fun"

    I'm taking it as a compliment.
    Lady Fand of the Joy Filled Summer Skys in the Order of the Curly Crusaders!
    KNEEL BEFORE ZOD!
  • kenzie!kenzie! Registered Users Posts: 5,055
    i think ive had 2 guys say nice stuff about my hair when it was curly....and one was definitely gay (he was one of my friends, im for sure on this one)....and the other one was the only curly haired guy i knew that wore it long enough to look curly....i think he wouldve been a hair twin....but if i wear my hair straight (which is like, once a month) theyre like, "woah, kenzie, what happened to your hair?!?"

    ....but i do have random strangers stop me on the street and tell me my hair looks great.
    Rock Chalk Baby!! If you aren't from Kansas, you just won't understand!

    Dame Kenz Matilda Jayhawk-Rocksalt, heir to the family diamonds.
  • dont worry be curly!dont worry be curly! Registered Users Posts: 144
    the guy I like right now, loves my hair! Well he says its cool,, :) he's not a curly, but he sure is cute!! He's always just like playing with it :).
    ~~Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. --Dr.Seuss

    ~~Don't cry because it's over smile because it happened.--Dr.Seuss:color:

    We are all fools, whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance! :)
  • ZoZoZoZo Registered Users Posts: 24
    I have a male friend, I will be talking to him and he will randomly grab my hair and play with it. :| Haha. I dont have the heart to tell him not to play with my hair because he will make it frizzy.

    Most of the comments i get are from girls, but yeah occationally it gets noticed by a boy. :)
  • PonyGirlPonyGirl Registered Users Posts: 24
    Guys usually like my hair cuz it has lots of personality, but girls hate my hair. And it isn't jealousy either, they genuinely think it looks bad. But I don't usually care. After all, as long as I like it and the guys like it, who needs anyone else?! lol :D
    2cMiii, overly porous, very thick
    Co-wash: Suave Berry, sometimes Suave Coconut, add lemon occasionally
    Rinse-out: alternating: LVPNG, Suave Coconut, GVP Conditioning Balm
    Leave-in: One of the rinse-outs
    Styling Products: Suave Basic Gel, FOTE!!, HESMU, an old gel called Curls Up that they don't make anymore :(, L.A. Looks Gel,
    Experimenting with (and loving :D ): Eco Styler Krystal Gel

    Hair loves: the WINTER!!! protein, moisture, gels, lots of FOTE!! occasionally honey or lime rinses.
  • kenzie!kenzie! Registered Users Posts: 5,055
    PonyGirl wrote: »
    Guys usually like my hair cuz it has lots of personality, but girls hate my hair. And it isn't jealousy either, they genuinely think it looks bad. But I don't usually care. After all, as long as I like it and the guys like it, who needs anyone else?! lol :D

    exactly! girls are way too catty most of the times anyway. and who knows, they may be jealous, theyre just really good as passing it off as hatred. ;)
    Rock Chalk Baby!! If you aren't from Kansas, you just won't understand!

    Dame Kenz Matilda Jayhawk-Rocksalt, heir to the family diamonds.
  • taylorshairtaylorshair Registered Users Posts: 7
    its so awesome when they notice! my gal friends always compliment me but the guys just dont seem to notice so much. does anyone have any cute hairstyles/reccomendations i can try out? id love that!
  • Kurly_KenzieeeKurly_Kenzieee Registered Users Posts: 34
    when i first was trying to figure out what to do with my curly hair instead of my straight hair, I scrunched it.. i didn't like it scrunched so i'd come into school & say, "wow, my hair looks like crap. haha" and my new best guy friend (who everyone thinks is gay..) says, "awww, no its not! it looks pretttyy!!" (: it made my day wayy better. haha. so yeah, it is great when guys notice your hairrr!

    but no girls like my hair.
    oh well! i like it!
    if I ask what I should do, straighten or curl, they immediatly shout "STRAIGHTEN!!!!" and I say no... there isn't really any point in asking. lol.

    (: curly hair= pretttyyy hair
    yayyy CurlyGirls!!
    Kenziee :laughing5:
    Shampoo- Garnier Fructis: Wonder Waves or Sleek and Shine
    Conditioner- Suave Naturals*
    Gel (if used)- Garnier Fructis Curl Shaping Spray
    Scrunch (daily use)- Beyond the Zone: The Scruncher

    *Please PM me for tips on good conditioner, I know Suave isn't good.
  • 21savannah21savannah Registered Users Posts: 1
    oh my gosh yes! and then they play with your hair and it feels good. (:
  • RotiniRotini Registered Users Posts: 53
    guys constantly play with my hair. So do girls. The best part? so does my crush. :)
    Curly Teen & Loving It!
    Type 3b/c hair
    I find myself with less respect for those who straighten their hair constantly or have relaxers or whatever else is out there. I believe that if your hair is curly, wavy, or straight, your hair is beautiful as is. There are non-damaging solutions for frizz or split ends or whatever. You don't have to burn it flat or fry it with chemicals to look "good." People say love the skin you're in, same goes for hair.
    :wav:
  • curlicarlycurlicarly Registered Users Posts: 242 Curl Connoisseur
    once, i went to school with my hair flat ironed. I walked into my first period class and a guy immediately looked over at me and said, "why did you do that to your hair?? i like it curly!" Some people might see that as an insult, but it was probably one of the nicest hair compliments i've ever gotten :)
    3b/c coarse, porous (I think), and THICK! Mod CG since: 10/11/08
    Avoiding humectants and protein!
  • ilaughtoomuchilaughtoomuch Registered Users Posts: 23
    Aww thats sweet!
    None of my guy friends ever compliment my hair, only one of them like to play with it LOL!
    3a-3b Hair
    Redken all-soft conditioner
    Leave in conditioner
    KMS curl-up (THE BEST :D)
    KMS flat out hot spiral spray?
    Finger twirling

Leave a Comment

BoldItalicStrikethroughOrdered listUnordered list
Format
SpoilerCodeQuote
Heading 2Heading 1
Emoji
:):D:(;):/:o:s:p:'(:|B):#:*<3o:)>:)
Url
Image
Align leftAlign centerAlign rightToggle HTML viewToggle full pageToggle lights
Drop image/file
Home • Curly TeensComment As ...

Howdy, Stranger!

It looks like you're new here. Sign in or register to get started.

Sign In Register
New DiscussionExpand for more options.

Categories

Edit My Account View My Public Profile Logout