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Sexual Orientation?

goldilocks777goldilocks777 Posts: 1,020Registered Users
I hope this isn't construed an offensive poll -- if you find it to be so, please let me know and I'll shut it down.

I have, as of late, become curious about the threads that consistently generate lots of responses and interesting (hopefully instructional) debate. It is clear that the race threads generate lots of attention, and I attribute this to the fact that (based on the poll administered a few days ago) there seems to be a lot of racial variation on the board.

However, threads such as "oprah's not gay" seem to generate less debate. For instance, I found many of the remarks made to be somewhat controversial (i.e. people "knowing" oprah is gay because of how she acts)...and, while on other boards I visit these remarks would be extremely taboo, they receive no comment here. Is this because we have a (relatively) small number of gay women on the board?

At any rate, feel free to answer the poll if you like (and, as always, remain anonymous if you choose). Just curious to know what our makeup here is at nc.com :o
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  • RheannaRheanna Posts: 2,614Registered Users
    Yay I'm the first.
    Hetero here.
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  • msjokermsjoker Posts: 1,658Registered Users
    Strictly dickly.
    "It moisturizes my situation... preserves my sexy."
  • wild_sasparillawild_sasparilla Posts: 4,306Registered Users
    Ditto, I'm hetero too - turns out I'm the second! So far we're 100% straight on this thread.

    EDIT: Dang, I'm a slow typer. At least I was the second to vote. "Strictly dickly" - you crack me up! :lol:
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  • outtahereouttahere Posts: 343Registered Users
    I sometimes think I'm asexual. I don't think I can keep up with my man, that's for sure! :lol:

    Anyway, I think Oprah is boring, so I don't really care what she's doing. Where I live there's a large gay population, and gays are a protected class just like women, minorities, etc. They had to do it as a city ordinance because they knew it wouldn't be accepted statewide, unfortunately. Discrimination against gays is considered to be just as unacceptable as discrimination toward other groups around here. I also consider it to be just as important of an issue.
  • geekygeeky Posts: 4,995Registered Users
    Woo hoo - I'm the first switch hitter to respond.
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  • TrenellTrenell Posts: 3,562Registered Users
    Well see its like this. I pretty much hetero. But I don't think 100%. I've never DONE anything, but I don't think I'd be totally against it. It may just be curiosity. Who knows. But it doesn't matter. I'm married now. I actaully told my hubby "Damn! Now I can't ever hook up with a girl"
  • hobbshobbs Posts: 327Registered Users
    I bat for both teams.
  • gggg Posts: 1,865Registered Users
    I'm stricly dickly but then the more I think about it I think I could seriously be asexual :lol: Sex is really not on my top 10 list of anything.
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  • wonderdiana - shopaholic takes a napwonderdiana - shopaholic takes a nap Posts: 1,728Registered Users
    I put heterosexual but I think that's a little restrictive. I am mostly attracted to men and incidentally attracted to women. I don't tend to feel the connection with women that I do with men. If I had a willing, attractive woman in front of me I would want to be affectionate with her but I'm not sure how far I would take it. I suppose if I found a woman who inspired me I would date her.

    So while I don't feel that the term "bisexual" explains my feelings very well I don't think "heterosexual" tells the full story.

    Or maybe I'm just a slut.
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  • MizKerriMizKerri Posts: 1,701Registered Users
    geeky wrote:
    Woo hoo - I'm the first switch hitter to respond.

    Hee, another one here.
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  • LucilleLucille Posts: 588Registered Users
    Trenellm wrote:
    Well see its like this. I pretty much hetero. But I don't think 100%. I've never DONE anything, but I don't think I'd be totally against it. It may just be curiosity. Who knows. But it doesn't matter. I'm married now. I actaully told my hubby "Damn! Now I can't ever hook up with a girl"

    Same here. Except that I haven't said that to my husband. I think I shall though.
  • PixieCurlPixieCurl Posts: 5,656Registered Users
    I voted hetero, but I agree with what Trenellm and wonderdiana wrote. I've kissed girls before, but not in a romantic way - more in a we're drunk let's make out kind of way. Never done more. Maybe would have considered it in my single days, but I'm married now so it's a moot point.
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  • MeghuneyMeghuney Posts: 4,263Registered Users
    I am married with a son but would not rule out hooking up with a girl. :twisted: It's happened before on a few occasions and I doubt very seriously if those times would be the last times.
  • ScarletScarlet Posts: 3,125Registered Users
    I do admit to girl crushes, but I haven't (nor do I think I would) get involved with a woman romantically/sexually. I like men (sometimes a little too much I think). :wink:
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  • PixieCurlPixieCurl Posts: 5,656Registered Users
    Meghuney wrote:
    I am married with a son but would not rule out hooking up with a girl. :twisted: It's happened before on a few occasions and I doubt very seriously if those times would be the last times.

    Now here's a spinoff question - would your husband consider it cheating if you hooked up with a girl while you were married?
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  • MeghuneyMeghuney Posts: 4,263Registered Users
    PixieCurl wrote:
    Meghuney wrote:
    I am married with a son but would not rule out hooking up with a girl. :twisted: It's happened before on a few occasions and I doubt very seriously if those times would be the last times.

    Now here's a spinoff question - would your husband consider it cheating if you hooked up with a girl while you were married?

    I don't know! Good question!!! We talked about that before marriage and he said he didn't think it was the same as hooking up with a guy. But we haven't talked about it since then, really. Interesting. VERY interesting.
  • goldencurlygoldencurly Posts: 2,385Registered Users
    "switch hitter" I love that!

    I've had one miserable relationship with a woman who broke my heart into 52 bazillion pieces and then trampled on it for the next 2 or so years. So I stick to the men-folk now because I understand them better. But girls are prettier :lol:




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  • hobbshobbs Posts: 327Registered Users
    I've had one miserable relationship with a woman who broke my heart into 52 bazillion pieces and then trampled on it for the next 2 or so years.

    You too, eh? :x

    I agree with goldencurly about how it's not about what gender or sex somebody is. I am attracted to people, not men or women.
  • spring1onuspring1onu Posts: 16,528Registered Users
    Interesting thread!

    I'm only drawn to the penis. :twisted: Even if they are kinda funny looking.. :?
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  • MeghuneyMeghuney Posts: 4,263Registered Users
    spring1onu wrote:
    Interesting thread!

    I'm only drawn to the penis. :twisted: Even if they are kinda funny looking.. :?

    LMAO!! :lol:
  • picklesgirlpicklesgirl Posts: 1,955Registered Users
    Trenellm wrote:
    Well see its like this. I pretty much hetero. But I don't think 100%. I've never DONE anything, but I don't think I'd be totally against it. It may just be curiosity. Who knows. But it doesn't matter. I'm married now. I actaully told my hubby "Damn! Now I can't ever hook up with a girl"

    If I said that to my husband he would say "go right ahead as long as I could watch"

    As far as me I'm a hetero but I have had dreams about hooking up with a girl and then I wake up and go "what the hell was that" and then I made the mistake of telling my husband about it and now If I say somthing like " karen and I are going to go sit in the hottub" he's like "aw trying to live out some of those dreams" :roll:
  • MunchyMunchy Posts: 5,206Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    I had a short term relationship with a female, but that's it. I am attracted to some women but I now date men. That's not set in stone, though, but I am getting married soon and I do consider it (as does my fiance) cheating.

    ETA that my fiance doesn't like that lesbian fantasy stuff. He prefers male-female interactions when it comes to porn and sexual fantasy.
  • WileE-DeadWileE-Dead Banned Posts: 24,963Banned Users
    Meghuney wrote:
    spring1onu wrote:
    Interesting thread!

    I'm only drawn to the penis. :twisted: Even if they are kinda funny looking.. :?

    LMAO!! :lol:
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    I couldn't resist...
    
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  • MeghuneyMeghuney Posts: 4,263Registered Users
    Trenellm wrote:
    Well see its like this. I pretty much hetero. But I don't think 100%. I've never DONE anything, but I don't think I'd be totally against it. It may just be curiosity. Who knows. But it doesn't matter. I'm married now. I actaully told my hubby "Damn! Now I can't ever hook up with a girl"

    If I said that to my husband he would say "go right ahead as long as I could watch"

    As far as me I'm a hetero but I have had dreams about hooking up with a girl and then I wake up and go "what the hell was that" and then I made the mistake of telling my husband about it and now If I say somthing like " karen and I are going to go sit in the hottub" he's like "aw trying to live out some of those dreams" :roll:

    My DH is so weird. He said he would not be interested in watching or joining but that in his eyes it would not be cheating.
  • MeghuneyMeghuney Posts: 4,263Registered Users
    Meghuney wrote:
    spring1onu wrote:
    Interesting thread!

    I'm only drawn to the penis. :twisted: Even if they are kinda funny looking.. :?

    LMAO!! :lol:
    :lol:
    pen0z.gif
    I couldn't resist...
    



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  • spring1onuspring1onu Posts: 16,528Registered Users
    Meghuney wrote:
    spring1onu wrote:
    Interesting thread!

    I'm only drawn to the penis. :twisted: Even if they are kinda funny looking.. :?

    LMAO!! :lol:
    :lol:
    pen0z.gif
    I couldn't resist...
    

    A dancing penis!! Ok, now THAT is funny looking. Thank you for not resisting Wile....I can always count on you. :wink:
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    Byron,GA> Charleston, SC> Jacksonville, FL> Guilford, CT> Rohnert Park, CA! A southern drawl in sunny Cali! . :D
    The amount of time from slipping on the peel and landing on the pavement is exactly one bananosecond.
    I do have a secret yen for pink in unexpected places. ~ninja dog
    I've decided that I'll never get down to my original weight, and I'm OK with that--After all, 8 pounds 2 oz. is just not realistic.
  • outtahereouttahere Posts: 343Registered Users
    spring1onu wrote:
    Interesting thread!

    I'm only drawn to the penis. :twisted: Even if they are kinda funny looking.. :?

    They're UGLY looking. I'm attracted to men, but the sight of a naked man is kind of hilarious. I still fight the urge to laugh when bf is in the arroused state, which hasn't done wonders for our sex life. I can't help it! It's not just him, I think all naked men and the sex act itself are comical. I just don't get much of anything out of either one. I also have little desire to overpopulate the Earth, so maybe it's all related.
  • PixieCurlPixieCurl Posts: 5,656Registered Users
    Munchy wrote:
    ETA that my fiance doesn't like that lesbian fantasy stuff. He prefers male-female interactions when it comes to porn and sexual fantasy.

    Same with mine (husband)! He doesn't understand why so may guys are obsessed with that.
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  • SaKkehSaKkeh Posts: 986Registered Users
    geeky wrote:
    Woo hoo - I'm the first switch hitter to respond.

    *climbing out of closet* :lol:
    switcher here too
  • MeghuneyMeghuney Posts: 4,263Registered Users
    SaKkeh wrote:
    geeky wrote:
    Woo hoo - I'm the first switch hitter to respond.

    *climbing out of closet* :lol:
    switcher here too


    :shock: HAHHAHAA!!! Wow. There are quite a few! :wink:
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