I really want to color my hair, but I'm having trouble deciding what to do. I asked in a thread before about RC, but chickened out of doing it. I have medium brown hair. Inside it looks kind of ashy, but outside in the sun you can see alot of gold hints. I would like to go darker, but I'm afraid of how it will look. I don't want anything with red in it, but I'm not sure if I should ask for a dark ash brown? I just don't want the ash color to look grey, and not sure how dark to go. I was thinking of lowlights, or would getting all of it dyed look better? I'm so confused with all of the color options out there. I wear a lot of cool colors with my clothes and makeup (not sure if that helps) Any advice will be helpful. Thanks!