I'm still not over being called...

TwoMoonsTwoMoons Registered Users Posts: 754
Maddy the slave by my aunt. The more I think about it the more I want to laugh or kill someone... preferably that miserable cow! I mean my hair is longer and thicker than hers for bob's sake! I feel better thought because my little brother over-heard her giving me a hard time and called her ugly.The look on her face was priceless, I wish I had a camera. My brother earned major points with me but we had a swift talking to from my mom. Got to love thanksgiving:toothy10:!
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  • Sunyata B. Sunyata B. Registered Users Posts: 105
    What a hater. I don't understand why people don't think about how their words will affect someone else. I don't know how "little" your little brother is, but I love how little kids speak the truth! It's too funny, even when they put me on blast lol. I guess one could say that that was disrespectful, but whatever with that.
  • TashaTashaTashaTasha Registered Users Posts: 383
    OMG that is just rudeness to the nth degree! She totally deserved that comment from your little bro.

    sidebar - Sunyata your hair looks exactly like mine. Do you have a fotki or more pics?
  • Wild Curls Raquelle Wild Curls Raquelle Registered Users Posts: 793 Curl Neophyte
    At least I know I'm not the only person who's hair was a topic of discussion over the holiday dinner. As soon as I walked into the door my aunt says "What the hell happened to your hair?" She doesn't say hello she just says that with this look of disgust like she's going to vomit. I simply told her I washed it, which was true. But people like her are the reason why I often want to pull out that flat iron. I am trying to be strong but it's hard.
    I wish my brother was there to save me too. But I'm happy yours was there to say something
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  • krazykkrazyk Registered Users Posts: 243
    haha Thanksgiving - Dysfunctional Families at their finest.
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  • zanii0506zanii0506 Registered Users Posts: 176
    all i can say is wow! how disrespectful...and i'm glad your little brother chimed in. it amazes me how people ALWAYS have something to say..and rarely is it anything nice. futhermore, that comment was insulting on a racial level but i'm not gonna get in to that.

    keep you head up and say "bye hater!" :)
  • mariag002mariag002 Registered Users Posts: 3,557 Curl Neophyte
    What the hell? Are you kidding me? What kind of ignorant ish is that?!!!

    All I can say is I'm sorry. I would be angry too. I've heard it all. Even from my grandfather who is blacker than black. I put up a shield when it comes to my hair. I always tell my kids that you have to know who you are (might children of God) in order to let these comments slide off your back.

    I wish I was there to do this to her :boxing:
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  • mojitochicamojitochica Registered Users Posts: 136
    :eek: @ Maddy the slave. This :boxing: would have been on, but :toothy10: @your brother!!
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  • KinkyPJKinkyPJ Registered Users Posts: 297
    It sucks that she tried to make you feel inadequate. It bugs me when people feel they just have to comment on your hair but then don’t say anything positive. When my sis first rocked her twist-outs my aunt used to greet her by saying “my sista” and by raising one fist in the air simultaneously. Not sure what that was about, we just gave our fake smiles and kept it moving. Wasn’t much else we could have done (no brother in our family).

    Btw, now when people make offensive comments (or do hurtful things), I try and thank them for that experience. I learned it from “The Secret”. Try it, it’s so liberating.
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  • curlygirlbeautifulcurlygirlbeautiful Registered Users Posts: 320
    im sorry she said that to u

    i bet she doesnt have a healthy head of hair

    keep contact with people like that to a minimum

    her mind has not evolved and i dont know how old she is, but if she is over 40, she surely has painful memories and damaged self esteem assoc with natural hair. didnt mean to get deep, but its that serious
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  • TwoMoonsTwoMoons Registered Users Posts: 754
    im sorry she said that to u

    i bet she doesnt have a healthy head of hair

    keep contact with people like that to a minimum

    her mind has not evolved and i dont know how old she is, but if she is over 40, she surely has painful memories and damaged self esteem assoc with natural hair. didnt mean to get deep, but its that serious

    Wow! You're right on, on all accounts! Even the over 40 part.
    :coffee::bunny::cat::headbang:OTAKU 4 LIFE!!!!

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    I <3 Cats!
  • SuburbanbushbabeSuburbanbushbabe Registered Users Posts: 15,402 Curl Neophyte
    She sounds like the slave to me. And incredibly rude.
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