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What's up with other naturals???

cclark1cclark1 Posts: 346Registered Users
Ok, so it feels so good to be 100% natural. I bced a few weeks ago. I find myself attracted to other natural ladies with beautiful curls. It always goes the same way. I compliment them on their curls and ask them what they use. I always get the same reply, "I just use any old shampoo in my hair. I just wake up and go!!" They don't like to talk about hair and could not even be bothered. I, on the other hand, spend hours online looking for advice. And although I'm not a product junkie, I couldn't use any old shampoo. I want to get up and go. I spend about 30 mins. on my hair in the morning. Is it just me, or do you guys encounter these same naturals? I feel like I have to come on here to get all my advice. Real life ladies, are just not giving up the goods!
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  • empressriempressri Posts: 4,812Registered Users
    Think about it. Even with ladies who aren't natural, or who just press their hair all of the time...they will just use ANY old thing in their hair!! They don't do research, they are just stuck in the same ole rut that they've been in since high school.

    So maybe they just don't take the time with their hair and whatnot so they don't have much to say. Me...I can talk about hair almost all day! lol
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  • jeamariajeamaria Posts: 1,851Registered Users
    I had read about this online but it wasn't until recently that it came up in real life. I was in a natural store and a woman came up and asked me what I used in my hair. When I told her (the products I had in my hair were the same I had in my hands to take to the counter), and explained my routine and so on she said she was really surprised that I answered all her questions and in detail.

    She said most other naturals she asked were really stingy with this information, claiming they couldn't remember what they used and guarding it like a trade secret. I could understand if you're a hair stylist and you don't want to spoil your business by giving away all your techniques, but why the need to hide otherwise?

    I don't doubt that there are some people who just get up and shampoo and have perfect curls, but I'm guessing most naturals have some kind of method. Even naturals I know who aren't as into hair as me know all have to have a certain approach to getting their hair to look a certain way. It might take 3 minutes, but it's still a routine.
  • curlynikkicurlynikki Posts: 2,420Registered Users
    I love sharing my routine with strangers, lol. I get questions/compliments/comments everyday, and I enjoy playing 'consultant'. Its the best when I can tell that the person genuinely wants help.
  • va_candiva_candi Posts: 849Registered Users
    I agree with EmpressRi. A lot of people I know who went natural before me would answer me like that because they just didn't know there were other options for their hair. Luckily, a friend put me on to the site when I was entertaining the idea of going natural. I lurked on this site for months when I was just thinking about transitioning because I wanted to be educated about taking care of my hair before making any big moves. The day after I BCed, two of my natural sorority sisters inquired about my hair. Both of them complained about their hair not being able to grow and not being able to do any styles. I directed them to the site, and they were both intriqued by all the options that naturals have. At the next chapter meeting, everyone was so amazed at how much my hair has grown. When I think about some of the stuff I used to do to my hair, it could have easily not grown. I think when you know better, you do better. I'm not saying that my sorors don't take care of their hair, but up to this point, they've taken care of it to the best of their knowledge. So...wow...basically I used a whole lot of words to say that it doesn't surprise me when people tell you they use any old shampoo in their hair. Like EmpressRi said, they're doing what they've always done.
  • ldiva67ldiva67 Posts: 41Registered Users
    every time I see someone with natural hair I always try to get into a hair talk, the funniest one being the female officer who came into my apartment building to evict someone, we had a great little chat, then she had to go do her job *grin*

    I find that now that I have started going natural, I tend to notice all the curlies and naturals around work and home
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  • SuburbanbushbabeSuburbanbushbabe Posts: 15,402Registered Users
    There are naturals who just love to share products, maybe 80% of the population. And then there's the smug superior cow who thinks she's walking around with a state secret on top of her head. Luckily there are not too many of them and you can usually weed them out by their how high in the air their noses are.
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  • empressriempressri Posts: 4,812Registered Users
    I find that usually the ones who are harder to get to than two armed pinkerton guards are the one's using all of the cheap, bad crap and they probably piled a ton of gel in their hair to make it look a certain way, and heaven forbid you touch it, it will crack like glass lol.

    Anyone worth their weight in products will be happy to trade info! I looooooooooooove sharing info!!! It's a great icebreaker sometimes too!
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  • foxycus02foxycus02 Posts: 918Registered Users
    CClark I can definitely see your point. I live in the part of the country where people don't make eye contact- they just rush past you. So imagine trying to get some info from them.

    This summer I notice alot of natural curly girls when I was out doing my club thing (lol). Someone stopped me yesterday and it caught me so Off - guard.

    Sometimes I see a girl picking stuff up at a BSS and my intruding self would say hey maybe you should check this line out instead.

    I do remember asking a girl on the train how she did her twistouts...and she just said I just grabbed it and twisted it. I was so mad, there's a thread lying somewhere around here about it.

    Sometimes I wish girls would ask me for a tip or two. Last night, I saw a girl who kept staring at me or better yet my hair. Her hair was around my color- but it just looked oh so dry and undefined. There was no lush, nor nothing in it. And you could see alot of oil sheen or grease just sitting on top of it :(

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  • GlammourGirlGlammourGirl Posts: 131Registered Users
    I don't mind sharing information with people, but for me it's all in how you ask. I visited a friend in the hospital, and one of the nurses asked me about my hair routine. I told her what products I used, gave her the websites and everything. When I was leaving the hospital later, she stopped me again with two other natural nurses, and I talked to all of them for about 15 minutes comparing hair stories. The very next day at church, someone said, what do you do to your hair to make it so curly, because I know it's not like that naturally. And I told her I don't do anything to it to make it curly, it is naturally curly, which is the truth. But I didn't even bother going into my routine with her, because of the way she asked me and how she was looking down her nose at me.
  • KynnibKynnib Posts: 999Registered Users
    I havent had a lot of people ask me about my hair but if I did I wouldnt tell them everything...

    1.) im really shy (not to be confused with stuck up) so i try to answer as short and quickly as i can and then leave

    2.) I feel that if anyone knew the lengths and time and money and products i go through with my hair they would think im crazy. Thats why i hang around you guys. Your just as crazy as i am. :p
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  • mariag002mariag002 Posts: 3,557Registered Users
    LMAO@Suburbanbushbabe's comment :laughing7:

    I always tell people what I use in my hair, especially my family. I feel sorry for anybody that asks me cuz I could go on for hours about my hair products :compress:

    I stopped asking people about their hair because the few times that I have THEY WERE WEARING CURLY WEAVES!!! How the hell did I not know. One was an annoyed co-worker who gave me a "damn it why you gotta blow up my spot on the elevator..you should KNOW this is a weave" look and the second person was a stranger at a bank trying to get people to open a checking account. I thought she had curlformers, her hair looked so cute! I asked her in front of a few people and she replied with an attitude "I bought it at the store" Doh! I won't ask again! Bostonian's on their way to work aren't the nicest people so I will sit quietly and admire people's hair in silence LOL
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  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    cclark1 wrote: »
    Ok, so it feels so good to be 100% natural. I bced a few weeks ago. I find myself attracted to other natural ladies with beautiful curls. It always goes the same way. I compliment them on their curls and ask them what they use. I always get the same reply, "I just use any old shampoo in my hair. I just wake up and go!!" They don't like to talk about hair and could not even be bothered. I, on the other hand, spend hours online looking for advice. And although I'm not a product junkie, I couldn't use any old shampoo. I want to get up and go. I spend about 30 mins. on my hair in the morning. Is it just me, or do you guys encounter these same naturals? I feel like I have to come on here to get all my advice. Real life ladies, are just not giving up the goods!

    My guess is that they either a. Get tired of answering the same question over and over or b. swear that they have got the bomb hair and want to keep their routine a secret. Ether way, it is quite ignorant 4 them to hold out. I mean, please, it's only hair and the person asking you may never see you again anyway, so if they attempt to replicate that person's style, then the original natural will be long gone.

    I also get the same answer from natural women here in Atlanta. I have stopped asking. I don't even stare at their hair anymore. They tend to be snooty at times. It could be, perhaps, from self image and self concious issues surroundiong being natural in the first place.

    In conclusion: I have no problem telling people what I use on my hair. I tend to be very excited that someone asks in the first place so I spew out all kinds of info---possibly more than they ask 4. :blob7:
  • foxycus02foxycus02 Posts: 918Registered Users
    lmfao @ Mariah's comment ... haa haa I've been laughing for like 5 minutes at the thought of it.

    You know what's annoying - when you go to the lengths of giving someone free product and they love how it works but once its finished they go back to their same old - same old.

    I gave a former coworker products all the time and she'd always come back gushing about a few of them. But never repurchased them - but she would always come to my desk like dang that was a really good product. I'm so mad its done.

    And I'd say well why don't you purchase it? And I'd get answers like "Girl I aint spending $20 on a hair product"...

    grrr ... heffas!

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  • subbrocksubbrock Posts: 8,212Registered Users
    i might be one of those people youre talking about cclark!

    a few times ive had people ask me what i use in my hair and for advice on being natural and im usually like i deer in headlights. i freeze up because everytime its been someone whos texture is tighter than mine and thicker but they say "i have hair just like yours". so i dont know if should tell them what i use on a daily basis (essentially just conditioner and oil. maybe gel if im feeling fancy) or if i should tell them what would work best for their hairtype...and i have no idea what works for other people's hair. i only know what works for me! i have super easy hair to deal with, so id feel bad telling them, "oh just get some elucence,oil and fantasia gel and thats all you need" when i know that thats probably not going to do the trick. then when i do tell them, i just use conditioner and oil and sometimes gel they usually dont believe me. i have no advice on transitioning because i didnt transition, i did a BC. plus i dont do styles like two strand twists because i hate the way it looks on me. i cant braid and i just prefer to not wear my hair in the same style for more than 2 days. unless its a wash n go.:wink: after all of that i typically say, "go to naturallycurly.com." but by that point i look like an idiot because ive spent so much time trying to figure out the best answer to give them. :laughing7:
  • Nappy_curly_crownNappy_curly_crown Posts: 4,162Registered Users
    for me it depends on how I was approached and if the person is natural or not.

    A lot of permies ask me about my hair. A lot of them come at me with the " what chemcial process do you use to get your hair to look like that". They are not interested in hair health, they just want to know how to achieve the look. For those people...they usually get the "leave in conditioner and gel" answer. I'm not lying...because I basicly DO use leave in conditioner and gel on my hair. Its too difficult to explain co-washes and all that jazz to someone that still is putting a quick weave in thier head and is only washing thier hair 1x ever 2weeks at most. If the person expresses an interest in wanting to go natural, then they will get a bit more from me...but usually I will direct them to either here, or two other hair sites that I frequent.

    If the person is natural and i'm not in a rush, then I will stop and have a nice long conversation. Sometimes, its not about being rude, for me its sometimes aboutme being in a rush and not have 2 hours to explain CG to folks.
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  • OnyxCabeloOnyxCabelo Posts: 1,767Registered Users
    cclark, I can totally relate. I get the same thing:roll:. A lot of people I've met face to face and asked about their routine, seemed real stingy with the information - so I don't even ask any more. Truth be told, those who did take the time to tell me what they used - i tried what they suggested and hated it, :lol:. It wasn't until I came here that I found all kinds of great information about transitioning and, then after my BC, about taking care of my natural hair that I realized that I was better off coming here and asking for advice. I was completely floored when I saw all these ladies on here with just amazing hair and they were sharing all their information, plus the stuff actually worked:shock:!!

    Subbrock, I can understand your hesitation in giving out advice. Everyone's hair is so different anyway, but when you add different textures, types, etc. that makes giving advice even tougher. I would be worried about telling someone what I use, then they go out and get it and it just doesn't work for them.

    I've only been asked once about the products I use, I just refer them here - then I don't have to worry about whether or not I'm giving out good advice or not:wink:.
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  • amaraliceamaralice Posts: 302Registered Users
    ROTFL:laughing7::laughing7::laughing7:!
    There are naturals who just love to share products, maybe 80% of the population. And then there's the smug superior cow who thinks she's walking around with a state secret on top of her head. Luckily there are not too many of them and you can usually weed them out by their how high in the air their noses are.
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  • Curly1908Curly1908 Posts: 192Registered Users
    cclark1 wrote: »
    Ok, so it feels so good to be 100% natural. I bced a few weeks ago. I find myself attracted to other natural ladies with beautiful curls. It always goes the same way. I compliment them on their curls and ask them what they use. I always get the same reply, "I just use any old shampoo in my hair. I just wake up and go!!" They don't like to talk about hair and could not even be bothered. I, on the other hand, spend hours online looking for advice. And although I'm not a product junkie, I couldn't use any old shampoo. I want to get up and go. I spend about 30 mins. on my hair in the morning. Is it just me, or do you guys encounter these same naturals? I feel like I have to come on here to get all my advice. Real life ladies, are just not giving up the goods!

    You've only been natural a few weeks. There are women who have been natural for several YEARS. They probably don't want to be bothered by discussing an old subject...especially with a stranger.

    Also, people's routines differ. Just because one person has to spend a ton of time and a pile of gel + moisturizer on their hair doesn't mean that another person has to do the same. There are plenty of people with 5 minute daily routines who only wash 1x per week.
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  • KitathenaKitathena Posts: 1,666Registered Users
    Cclark, I'm sorry that's happening to you. I so rarely see another natural who isn't wearing a little TWA that they keep short, so I've not run into this situation. I hope I will get to see some more naturals now that I'm back at work, but most of our clientele come in with weaves, waterfalls (ya'll thought that was out of style, didn't ya?), and the occasional jherri curl.

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  • maracasbeachmaracasbeach Posts: 310Registered Users
    I can honestly say I have never had that problem with other naturals. I am also cool answering questions about my hair, twists, and what products I use. This past holiday weekend was a case in point because I did not wear my hair in twists all weekend (more work for me). Wore it loose. Went to US Open and winding our way through the food court I got stopped 3 times by 3 different naturals asking about my hair. They were all brief convos, but my guy was rolling his eyes after the third conversation:)
  • TLMMMTLMMM Posts: 457Registered Users
    I used to get it all the time when I had locs. they always looked so disappointed to find out what my routine was.
  • TK*TK* Posts: 885Registered Users
    I don't get asked questions by naturals but usually from people who have straight hair (mostly curious white girls). I hardly ever see any other natural girls and when I do, it's rare that we'll just strike up a conversation about our hair! However, if I was ever asked by another natural I would happily tell her all about it. The opportunity has never given itself to me as of yet...
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  • BrandycatBrandycat Posts: 126Registered Users
    I haven't been out too much since the BC but haven't met too many curlies with tude. I tend to stare the hair down until I can figure if she's a texture twin or if there is a chemical or weave involved in the situation. Plus I've found that a lot of us are using the same stuff anyway.

    I've got a curly street convo funny story from years ago:

    A friend of mine has 3b curls and people used to stop her all the time to ask about it, not knowing that their hair couldn't really achieve the same look naturally if their texture was different. Well, one day a young woman who was transitioning stopped us and asked about my friend's hair - long story short, street curly offered to pay my friend to BC her relaxer off and twist her hair, hoping to get the same look. Street curly's hair turned out to be 4a and too short to even twist once BC'd. Needless to say, street curly was quite irate that the look couldn’t be duplicated. That was years ago before educational outlets like this. In fact, I think there was only one natural salon in Atl and it was a terror, so we were all on our own kinda. I wonder if she recovered from the disaster without relaxing.
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  • Frizzcurls427Frizzcurls427 Posts: 152Registered Users
    I actually get compliments/questions from alot of people who wear their hair straight/relaxed...This is interesting to me because I noticed a few of you said the same thing...Just today a lady was referring to my hair when she said to someone else " I wish my hair could do that because I would wear it just like that". She didn't ask me anything about my routine or anything she just looked on in admiration... There was also this lady in the elevator who said to me " Your hair is so pretty. What did you do to it?" Because I was short on time I told her that I wet it and just leave it alone and it curls naturally which is the truth but I didn't have time to go on to tell her that I load my hair up with conditioner and smooth it through and yada yada...Some people haven't the slightest idea of what you are talking about when you start going into details...I rarely have other naturals say anything to me but I don't see as many naturals as I do relaxed/straightened ladies...
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  • Frizzcurls427Frizzcurls427 Posts: 152Registered Users
    Brandycat wrote: »
    I haven't been out too much since the BC but haven't met too many curlies with tude. I tend to stare the hair down until I can figure if she's a texture twin or if there is a chemical or weave involved in the situation. Plus I've found that a lot of us are using the same stuff anyway.

    I've got a curly street convo funny story from years ago:

    A friend of mine has 3b curls and people used to stop her all the time to ask about it, not knowing that their hair couldn't really achieve the same look naturally if their texture was different. Well, one day a young woman who was transitioning stopped us and asked about my friend's hair - long story short, street curly offered to pay my friend to BC her relaxer off and twist her hair, hoping to get the same look. Street curly's hair turned out to be 4a and too short to even twist once BC'd. Needless to say, street curly was quite irate that the look couldn’t be duplicated. That was years ago before educational outlets like this. In fact, I think there was only one natural salon in Atl and it was a terror, so we were all on our own kinda. I wonder if she recovered from the disaster without relaxing.


    See, I don't get this when people go natural in hopes that they will have a loose curly texture and then when they don't they are disappointed...Are people really that delusional? I hadn't seen my natural texture since I was a kid but I had a quite accurate depiction of what my texture would be like based on what I remembered when I was natural as a child...I have alot of people with relaxed hair say to me that they can't go natural because they don't have that "good hair" or "if my hair was like yours I would go natural"...Its irritating to me because I have learned to love and admire all types of textures and I know the majority admires looser textures of hair but I just loathe the self-hate comments I hear from black women I know who fail to see that their hair does not have to be a certain texture in order to be beautiful...Sorry for the rant but I've been hearing alot of these types of comments and it makes my skin boil...
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  • curlygirlbeautifulcurlygirlbeautiful Posts: 320Registered Users
    suburbanbushbabe
    curly nikki

    you 2 have the most amazing hair pics ive ever seen
    my hair is still much shorter than yours
    what are your routines and how do u style day 2 day
    i know hair grows at different lengths how long have u guys been growing your hair

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  • QuirkyYoginiQuirkyYogini Posts: 569Registered Users
    Hmmm. You know, I don't think I've ever asked a stranger about their hair. I've thought about it, but I've always been to shy. I did ask a friend of mine who is a 3b, and she told me she just left conditioner in her hair sometimes. Little did we know the type of conditioner can make a difference!

    As for me, I will talk your ear off if you ask me questions! I usually leave the conversation thinking of other things I should have thought about and feel guilty for forgetting. I always hope they stop by here one day.
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  • BrandycatBrandycat Posts: 126Registered Users
    Yeah that street curly was so upset that she didnt have the same hair texture but I hope she didnt give up on her own. My friend was just trying to be nice and really didn't understand that she might not be able to copy her own look on the woman's hair. She didnt know other textures. Until 2 yrs ago, she thought everyone got touch ups every 3 months!

    It's hard to break people of kinky = bad thought. I figure once they are educated about and ready to put in the work it takes to care for and style natural hair, they can realize how purdy their not so curly hair is. Or they can relax, tex, define, whatever, as long as they feel beautiful then more power to them!
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  • SuburbanbushbabeSuburbanbushbabe Posts: 15,402Registered Users
    suburbanbushbabe
    curly nikki

    you 2 have the most amazing hair pics ive ever seen
    my hair is still much shorter than yours
    what are your routines and how do u style day 2 day
    i know hair grows at different lengths how long have u guys been growing your hair

    as for other naturals i live in the A so i dont even see too many but if I do they usually have a text but it still looks really curly just less shrinkage any body have good exp with texturizers been thinking about it still on the fence
    Thank you so much for the compliment. If you go to my Fotki (no password needed, but Fotki members have more access to stuff), I have a journal and my photos have comments. It's a frikkin' hair documentary over there LOL. My biggest challenge right now is just retaining length and keeping those ends from breaking off.
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    Playing with my hair is a hobby. Fluffy, fine natural 4a. Goal= Healthy, beautiful hair that retains its length.
    Hear that crash? It's me falling off the CG wagon.
  • cclark1cclark1 Posts: 346Registered Users
    Ok, so I get it now!! I finally got a compliment on my hair and the question, How do you do that!!! I went through my whole speal. And I felt so crazy. I was like she must think I'm a nut!!! But she said she was going to try it tonight. I even gave her the nc.com website. It was pretty weird explaining my routine to a natural not as obsessed with her hair and who usual wears it straight!
    Dare to be......remarkable!!!
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