I have very curly hair, type 3B. My hair is also long. When I wash it, I love how it looks and the length. However about 15 minutes later my hair scrunches up to become short and forms really tight curls. I've asked my hair stylists on how I can retain my length and they give me products that don't work or that have my hair feeling like dried noodles. What products can I use so that my hair keeps the length and feels soft?