Advice on hair, newbie

LadySuchan

Hello my fellow curlies! I am so glad to have found this site. For
years I’ve struggled to manage my curly hair. I have a short bob and
have always straightened it up until my last trip to Hawaii. I couldn’t
 keep it straight no matter what I did. I decided my goal is to learn to
 how make the best of what I’ve got. I think my hair is a 2B. But I’m
not entirely sure. This is what it like. I’d love suggestions on how to
enhance what I have. It’s pretty dry when it’s curly. Products seem to
make it hard and flaky. I also swim 3 times a week. Try to put coconut

oil in it before swimming always. Came across the curly girl method on here and decided to give ti a whirl. Right now I am using Marc Anthony Curl Conditioner, after my shower drying with tshirt and then putting in Davines OI Oil and then Davines Curl Cream. My hair feels like it has a buildup of product in it. Not sure if thats normal. Would love some suggestions on how to manage this dry mess. Thank you!

Here is my hair now:

tinksaysboo

Hello and welcome to embracing curly hair!

First off- the products you are using all have silicons.  That is the number 1 no no for curly girl method.  Silicons put a coating around your hair that can only be removed with harsh sulfates  Sulfates dry out your hair, which is why we avoid them.  Without the sulfate shampoo, all that silicon just builds up on your hair,which you are experiencing now.  It also prevents moisture and other products from penetrating into your hair. 

When going CGM there are two important first steps:

1. Do a "final wash" with a sulfate, silicone-free, shampoo.  Suave Daily Clean is a popular choice for final wash in the curly girl community as it's easy to find and only like a $1.  Some people like just using Dawn Soap.  The point of this is to strip your hair of all the silicons and waxes you have been using to give your hair a "fresh slate"
2.  Don't use any products with ingredients ending in -cone or -xane  (so unfortunately, you are going to have to replace all your products.

Do these two steps and I am sure you will see a difference and then we can troubleshoot from there.  If you want to use up the products you have before you start, pick up a sulfate shampoo as you cannot co-wash with your current conditioner and styling products. 

Hope this helps, and good luck! 

Edit: edited some bad grammar 

Guide 65

Welcome!  I agree with everything @tinksaysboo said.  Once you get rid of the build up and use the right products for you, you may be surprised at how much your hair curls up!

LadySuchan

Hey ladies!

Thank you so much for the advice. After reading what you said and downloading the curly girl guide and reading alot of it, last night I decided to experiment. I washed my hair with a sulfate shampoo for a final cleaning. Deep conditioned with Macadamia Nut Deep conditioner. Hair blot dried with towel. Then put on an all natural Aloe Vera Gel I had scrunched it in and then let it air dry completely. I pinned at the top too to create some volume. I cannot tell you how different and soft and light my hair feels. I actually feel the bounce! I am worried about what's going to happen after swimming today but time will tell! Here is my before and after picture. What do you guys think?!

tinksaysboo

It defiantly looks less weighed down and I see your curls really starting to show!  Yay!  I suggest keep going at this routine and make sure to deep condition at least once a week. 


CGM does take a while so don't expect your curls to be at the best within a couple weeks (a lot of people do and they end up disappointed).  I would say the average "transitioning" period where you trial and error to figure out your hair is about 6 months.  But don't freak out!  It sounds like, but it goes fast especially when you use communities like Naturally Curly to troubleshoot! 

I don't have any knowledge on curl care and swimming aside from investing in a swim cap. 

smithclarkson01

#1 soon. Lately though, I've been shampooing with L'oreal ever sleek keratin caring shampoo and conditioning with L'oreal ever sleek keratin caring conditioner. My hair seems to like proteins quite a bit as well as the products in general. I've been diagnosed with having sebhorreic dermatitis on my scalp however in the past. I've had the itching that goes along with it and the build up. I've tried using the co wash method, in which I would shampoo once a week and for a few days wash with conditioner, and let it sit for a while in my hair. This is wonderful and it gives my otherwise dull, crappy hair the moisture it desperately needs, but I've been seeing a lot of buildup. If I scratch my scalp there is clear dandruff and sebum coming out. I've been washing my hair everyday, because otherwise my hair gets very oily quickly to the point I look like a wet dog if I don't shower for 48 hours on https://9appsapk.com & https://vidmate.vin Can anyone offer some recommendations? Ultimately I want my hair to be fuller, shinier, all that jazz, but the buildup I'm constantly getting is making it very difficult.

smithclarkson01

#1 soon. Lately though, I've been shampooing with L'oreal ever sleek keratin caring shampoo and conditioning with L'oreal ever sleek keratin caring conditioner. My hair seems to like proteins quite a bit as well as the products in general. I've been diagnosed with having sebhorreic dermatitis on my scalp however in the past. I've had the itching that goes along with it and the build up. I've tried using the co wash method, in which I would shampoo once a week and for a few days wash with conditioner, and let it sit for a while in my hair. This is wonderful and it gives my otherwise dull, crappy hair the moisture it desperately needs, but I've been seeing a lot of buildup. If I scratch my scalp there is clear dandruff and sebum coming out. I've been washing my hair everyday, because otherwise my hair gets very oily quickly to the point I look like a wet dog if I don't shower for 48 hours on https://9appsapk.vin & https://vidmateapp.vin Can anyone offer some recommendations? Ultimately I want my hair to be fuller, shinier, all that jazz, but the buildup I'm constantly getting is making it very difficult. https://vlc.vin

alisonm

Hello everyone! I am new to Curly Girl and have been reading your comments. I currently have i say 2b hair but my natural hair is really 2C/3A. the last time i bleached my hair was 2 years ago, however I did tone it and cut it at a salon a year ago. I haven't touched it since, except blow dry which has been a few months since I picked up a blow dryer. but I often braid my hair or have it up ( sometimes I'll have it up for days at a time and my hair will begin to feel extremely greasy, oily, heavy, stiff, and overall nasty with no volume. I am beginning my hair journey since 2 days ago, i used Doo-Gro thickening conditioner and Elasta Qp leave in conditioner and put a plastic bag over it with a bonnet. I woke up with hair still wet but curls WOW. After it dried, it went right back to its original nasty self . Now i have had thick hair in the past even after bleaching but i guess with my weight loss (unwanted) has made a huge impact on my hair. I been trying to get my weight back up but its very difficult. The current products I have used overall are Doo-Gro stimulating Growth oil which I've used years ago and its always helped. I use Elasta QP which i have used before and did not disappoint. And i change up shampoos and conditioners.ALL SUGGESTIONS WELCOME

Pilar Retegui

Hi! I'm new to the CGM community! I'm a 2b and I think this has been true all my life but I never knew how to really take care of my hair so it never looked quite...right. I wonder how it will look like when I start with the CGM and I am hopeful 😍 I need some help and orientation from you girls, there are too many different products and I don't know which ones to choose😩. I know I specially need deep hydration and getting rid of frizz and that I can't be spending 20-30€ in each 400 or 500ml bottle. Any suggestions? My hair is: frizzy specially on top, thick, dry, medium density, high porosity —I guess because of the dye, and it has medium density and elasticity. The waves in my hair make me look like I'm trying to get the 1960s signature look, ends curving out and away from the face, not so much small S shapes but bigger. And I always wear it jaw-lenght so I cut it every 3 months or so, same frequency as I dye it. Can you help me, please? Thank you so much!!🙏🏻❤️