I have baby fine, 3a/b, mid back length hair. I have a huge list of grievances about having fine curly hair but I have one concern that really frustrates me: my curls won’t hold for ****! My curls look nice for about 10 minutes after air drying and once there is any type of movement they get pulled apart. When they get pulled part while dry the result is a sad frizzy has been shell of a curl. I keep my hands out if my hair and this still happens. A slight breeze or the friction of my hair against my back will do this too. I also have an insane amount of frizz, like my hair has it’s own little atmosphere of frizz. I take care of my hair, never color or use heat, deep condition once a week, and do all the curly girl method stuff but my hair is still a disaster. I can’t use a heavy product to hold the curls because my hair ends up looking greasy.
Does anyone have this hair type and this problem? Has anything worked for you? I could deal with a product that weighs down a bit if it mean they’ll stay intact and reduce frizz. I’m at my wits end and am on the verge of giving up and investing in wigs or straightening my hair. I baby my hair and take good care of it yet it still looks like an unkempt mess. I’m sick of looking like a bum!