Im looking to loosen my curls, 3c/4a mix to a 3c/3b. Im willing to use chemicals because I am just frustrated with my hair, which is about waist length. Detangling is not a issue or styling, but with this texture I can never just wash and go. I always have to do braid outs which take 2 days to dry, and I get the texture i want with braid outs. It looks exactly like 3b hair naturally, but as so as water hits it....noope. But braid outs every week or 2 arent ideal for a lazy natural like me. Help!