When do you give your SO

spiderlashes5000spiderlashes5000 Posts: 17,898Registered Users Curl Virtuoso
a key to your home? And under what circumstances? In what timeframe?

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  • jeepcurlygurljeepcurlygurl Posts: 20,709Registered Users, Curl Ambassador Curl Virtuoso
    Hmmm. Well that depends.
    No one ever had a key to my first apartment as a teen.
    First hubby and I got an apartment together right before we got married so we both got keys at the same time.
    Second hubby moved in with me and got a key a week after we met.
    The three long term guys since then have never had keys but they knew/know where I keep the key outside in case they would need it.
    --I'm located in Western PA.   --I found NC in late 2004, CG since February 2005, joined the forums in May 2005, started going grey in late 2005.   --My hair is 3B with some 3A, currently at mid back length when dry,  texture-medium/fine, porosity-top is low, middle is medium, ends are porous, elasticity-normal.   --My long time favorite products are Suave & VO5 conditioners, LA Looks Sport Gel, coconut oil, honey, vinegar.   
    --My CG and grey hair progress -  
    http://www.naturallycurly.com/curltalk/going-gray/179328-jeepys-grey-hair-progress.html   
    --My article at NaturallyCurly about going grey - 
    https://www.naturallycurly.com/curlreading/color/how-i-went-completely-gray-and-loved-it
  • spiderlashes5000spiderlashes5000 Posts: 17,898Registered Users Curl Virtuoso
    Hmmm. Well that depends.
    No one ever had a key to my first apartment as a teen.
    First hubby and I got an apartment together right before we got married so we both got keys at the same time.
    Second hubby moved in with me and got a key a week after we met.
    The three long term guys since then have never had keys but they knew/know where I keep the key outside in case they would need it.

    Under what circumstances would they need it? Did you discuss those circumstances? Did any of the boyfriends ever say they wanted their own key? Did you have a key to their place?

  • jeepcurlygurljeepcurlygurl Posts: 20,709Registered Users, Curl Ambassador Curl Virtuoso
    They might need to get in my house for various reasons. If something happened and they needed a place to stay. If I was away and I needed them to get in the house and send me something. Or if I couldn't get home and I needed them to take care of my pets. Or if they wanted to fix me dinner for when I got home from work.
    None of them (the ones who haven't lived with me) have ever just come in my house without me knowing.
    I have had keys or know where the keys are to all of them also. For the same reasons.
    No one has ever asked for a permanent key and I have never asked for one either.
    --I'm located in Western PA.   --I found NC in late 2004, CG since February 2005, joined the forums in May 2005, started going grey in late 2005.   --My hair is 3B with some 3A, currently at mid back length when dry,  texture-medium/fine, porosity-top is low, middle is medium, ends are porous, elasticity-normal.   --My long time favorite products are Suave & VO5 conditioners, LA Looks Sport Gel, coconut oil, honey, vinegar.   
    --My CG and grey hair progress -  
    http://www.naturallycurly.com/curltalk/going-gray/179328-jeepys-grey-hair-progress.html   
    --My article at NaturallyCurly about going grey - 
    https://www.naturallycurly.com/curlreading/color/how-i-went-completely-gray-and-loved-it

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