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I hate my curly hair

Littlemermaid12Littlemermaid12 Posts: 4Registered Users
I HATE MY HAIR!!! I always have....i can't do crap with it! Its been in braids since the day it came in. Nothing helps it! It's a monster! I some times call it the devil! It never dose what i want it to do! It's always a mess!! I want it gone! I want to cut all off! I hate it hate it hate it!!! Its just like the rest of my miserable life! It makes be depressed and miserable

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  • RimiRimi Posts: 2,001Registered Users
    Oh my. Do you have any pictures? What are your hair properties?
    21 y/o lifelong natural {4a-O ; spongy ; coarse ; dense ; MBL stretched}

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    long-term: HL stretched, BSL unstretched

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  • claudine191claudine191 Posts: 8,220Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    I'm so sorry to read this.

    Life is so much better and easier when we learn to love what we have. How can we help you accept your lovely curls?
  • Littlemermaid12Littlemermaid12 Posts: 4Registered Users
    ImageUploadedByCurlTalk1410221101.197434.jpg this is my hair wet and air dried. I have hair product in it..and for privacy i faceswaped with mr.bean. I tried the except my hair its just so hard...
  • claudine191claudine191 Posts: 8,220Registered Users Curl Neophyte
  • Corrina777Corrina777 Posts: 3,193Registered Users
    I agree with Claudine. You have very pretty curls (I would trade you in a heartbeat). What specifically are you trying to get your hair to do that it's not doing?
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  • Littlemermaid12Littlemermaid12 Posts: 4Registered Users
    I'm just to curl it or put it in a bun or anything beside braids...i dont where my hair down i hate it..that was the only picture i have with my hair down
  • Littlemermaid12Littlemermaid12 Posts: 4Registered Users
    ImageUploadedByCurlTalk1410227658.462553.jpgTo show my hair looks like when i dont do nothin with it
  • RimiRimi Posts: 2,001Registered Users
    Yes the mr. Bean faces are quite jarring.

    What would you like your hair to do?

    Very few of us have the option of doing "nothing" with our hair. It's like keeping any other part of your body healthy; it usually takes some care and effort to keep things in working order.
    21 y/o lifelong natural {4a-O ; spongy ; coarse ; dense ; MBL stretched}

    products {'poo: TJTTT shampoo | RO: TJTTT Condish | LI/style: TJTTT Condish, homemade cocoa butter cream | DC: condish + ayurvedic powder(s), Aussie 3MMM Treatment | PT: condish + NPF | oils: castor oil, grapeseed oil | other treatments: probiotics, tea rinses, AVG rinse/spritz, oil rinse | sealing method: LC sometimes O}

    long-term: HL stretched, BSL unstretched

    CG-friendly Products List!
  • GoldWavesGoldWaves Posts: 50Registered Users
    I think your hair looks beautiful
  • piggybearpiggybear Posts: 32Registered Users
    I HATE MY HAIR!!! I always have....i can't do crap with it! Its been in braids since the day it came in. Nothing helps it! It's a monster! I some times call it the devil! It never dose what i want it to do! It's always a mess!! I want it gone! I want to cut all off! I hate it hate it hate it!!! Its just like the rest of my miserable life! It makes be depressed and miserable


    Visit a salon. Try hair rebonding. It will consume almost half of your day if you have quite a long hair. You will definitely love the result.
  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,270Registered Users Curl Neophyte
  • avale3avale3 Posts: 5Registered Users
    I completely understand where you're coming from. When I first decided to go natural, I absolutely hated my hair and found it was too high maintenance but I think as I dealt with it natural more, my curls started to change and form and I've learned to accept them. Your curls are absolutely beautiful! I wouldn't suggest doing absolutely nothing to them. Apply some product whether it's a leave in conditioner or mousse. Take it out of the braids and experiment with them more using different products! That's really the only way you can learn how to get your hair to do what you want it to do.