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2poodles2poodles Posts: 2,481Registered Users Curl Novice
Thought we could start a list of additional sites to visit when we want inspiration.... Here are a few to get us started:

Grey is OK!: Grey Transitions

The Silver Sophisticate — Silver Hair Savoir-Faire

Going Gray with Style and Class - Join the Revolution Gray Movement |Tips and Support for Going Gray
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]2Poodles :flower: Southeast PA
fine, med porosity, normal elasticity
Currently using the following 2 - 3 x/week:
Living Proof Perfect Hair Day suphate-free Poo, cone-free CO and styling treatment, plus KCCC

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  • rbbrbb Posts: 4,210Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    great idea!

    3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity :-(
    washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: curl junkie products
    leave in:curl junkie conditioners and treatments as leave in
    styling: curl junkie 
    sealants - jane carter nourish & shine
  • WavyMaurWavyMaur Posts: 46Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    thanks so much for those sites, what great ideas!
    2C * Normal Porosity * Medium Density * Chin Length

    Still playing with products ( using mostly Deva right now)

    Working on finding my inner curl.
  • MyrnaMyrna Posts: 2,369Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    Ya know, so many gray women have these really heavy eye brows. I am sure they are touched up but that is beside the point; I just dont think I get it. I am not sure I like it. what do others think?
  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
  • 2poodles2poodles Posts: 2,481Registered Users Curl Novice
    Perhaps like this one below. Not sure if they are her natural color brows or not:
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]2Poodles :flower: Southeast PA
    fine, med porosity, normal elasticity
    Currently using the following 2 - 3 x/week:
    Living Proof Perfect Hair Day suphate-free Poo, cone-free CO and styling treatment, plus KCCC

  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
  • RustinaRustina Posts: 894Registered Users
    My brows are not that thick anymore, but they're definitely that dark. Hers definitely look natural to me, because mine used to look like that (before I plucked them to oblivion - they never fully grew back). I think it's just the contrast between the dark and the almost all white hair that is jarring to you, Myrna. I see what you mean, but in a way, I think it helps to maintain a more youthful look when the brows are still brown.
    Sulfate/non-water-soluble silicone free since 8/16/10
    Northern VA
    Med-coarse, normal porosity, low elasticity
    Dye-free since 11/2010

  • MyrnaMyrna Posts: 2,369Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    I have this book called "The Makeup Wakeup: Revitalizing Your Look at Any Age". well, first, almost no one is gray - they are all dyed. Second, the makeup - especially for the one gray woman's makeover - was so heavy and dramatic, I think to myself, where is she going with all that makeup? I dont want to feel that I have to cake on the makeup at age 62 to remain "youthful looking"; that is as oppressive as getting my roots colored every three weeks. I have a bit of a pet peeve about the brow thing - mine too have been over plucked and have been thin for years - now do I have to brush on a whole new set of brows every day? how about false eyelashes, do I have to do that too? Hair extensions? Spanx to hold me in? Sorry for the rant, girls, I will find a pic of what I am talking about in the eye brow department.
  • MyrnaMyrna Posts: 2,369Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    ok look at the woman in the video on the Going gray with class link. I doubt her brows are her own. and this: /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fdaslael%2Fsilver%2F" class="Popup
  • RustinaRustina Posts: 894Registered Users
    I didn't watch the video, but I did look at the Pinterest link, and there are tons of photos of women on that board with no brows, light brows, thin brows, thick brows, dark brows, light make up, dark make up, and no make up. I don't think there's any "rule" about what must be done with make up to maintain an attractive appearance vs a frumpy one. And for most photo shoots, make up is caked on because the harsh lights wash it out in the photos, so I don't think that's the norm for any woman.

    I think I chose my words poorly when I said those dark brows helped maintain a youthful appearance. After all, embracing our gray is partially about not fighting the aging process. Maybe what I should have said is that the dark brows, for me, are attractive. I like that look, and if I'm honest, I hope I someday have white hair and brown eyebrows. But that doesn't mean everyone should have them - I think it depends on skin tone and whether or not those brows existed on the person's face even before going gray.

    I will say this about gray hair and make up - almost all the women I see whose photos I'm drawn to have some sort of flattering lipstick on. So for me, that's something to pay attention to, which will be hard because I almost never wear lip color. And I don't think it's necessary to fill in your brows every day unless you want to, but countless articles I've read have said that the brows should definitely be well groomed and shaped, that it makes a huge difference in how the overall face looks even without make up (for all women, regardless of age or hair color).

    I think in the end, you have to do what's comfortable for you and what makes you feel pretty. I do fill in the outside portions of my brows, but that doesn't mean you have to. I want to be the best me I can be, and that's one small way I feel I can do that. Your best you may not include that, and that's okay. I think if we bow to pressure to look young with gray hair (all those things you mentioned in your post), it's just as bad as bowing to the pressure to constantly color.

    And this was quite the rambly post!
    Sulfate/non-water-soluble silicone free since 8/16/10
    Northern VA
    Med-coarse, normal porosity, low elasticity
    Dye-free since 11/2010

  • 2poodles2poodles Posts: 2,481Registered Users Curl Novice
    Eyebrows can be tricky. My natural brows are a light brown. They are also thinning and becoming more sparse. I use a pencil to fill them in so that they don't disappear, not to make me look younger, per se. Same with my eyelashes - mine are so blonde that it looks like I don't have any. I use mascara so they are visible. Turns out they're rather long!
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]2Poodles :flower: Southeast PA
    fine, med porosity, normal elasticity
    Currently using the following 2 - 3 x/week:
    Living Proof Perfect Hair Day suphate-free Poo, cone-free CO and styling treatment, plus KCCC

  • rbbrbb Posts: 4,210Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    myrna -- i think eyebrows are not that same as wearing false eyelashes, heavy makeup......
    i think eyebrows can age us with any hair color, at any age. they frame our eyes, with our without makeup and are important no matter what our hair color is.

    a good book to read is one of carmindy's, (the makeup artist from 'not what to wear' tv show) she has 3. i think maybe the '5 minute makeup' one is her latest. i took them out from the library, found lots of helpful hints in them.

    also, diana jewel's book, going gray, looking great, has some tips. also in the library.

    3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity :-(
    washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: curl junkie products
    leave in:curl junkie conditioners and treatments as leave in
    styling: curl junkie 
    sealants - jane carter nourish & shine
  • MyrnaMyrna Posts: 2,369Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    Rustina, I agree that darker brow with silver hair are more attractive; unfortunately, on of my brows is still fairly dark, and the other looks like bristles of my toothbrush have flown up and migrated there. So I have been doing some touching up. rbb, some makeup artists I have read say "false eyelashes are a MUST"...really.

    I struggle with my brows, because when I pull my hair back from my face, and up, I concede I look better with a heavier, "lowered" brow - but, at this point, when my hair is down, I am just darkening the one with the tooth brush bristles. I WAS having them dyed also - which was nice, because I didnt have to do anything to them for a couple of weeks - I may still have that done, or do it myself.
  • RustinaRustina Posts: 894Registered Users
    False eyelashes are a must? Bah.

    What do you use to touch up your eyebrow? I have used Bare Minerals brow powder before and liked it a lot. Am now using this weird cream-like brow stuff because Ulta was out of the BM last time I went. It still goes on with a brush, but it's not nearly as nice. And it's too easy to overdo it. Would love recommendations.
    Sulfate/non-water-soluble silicone free since 8/16/10
    Northern VA
    Med-coarse, normal porosity, low elasticity
    Dye-free since 11/2010

  • rbbrbb Posts: 4,210Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    actually, the name of that book is '5 minute face.' and if you ever saw her on what not to wear you would see that she does not push false eyelashes at all. in fact, there have been several women who come on and say they always wear them and will not go without them, so then she shows them how to cut them in half and use less.

    3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity :-(
    washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: curl junkie products
    leave in:curl junkie conditioners and treatments as leave in
    styling: curl junkie 
    sealants - jane carter nourish & shine
  • MyrnaMyrna Posts: 2,369Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    Rustina, I use an eyebrow pencil/crayon by Milani. Someone recommended it on makeupalley.com I am sure there are better products out there but for now, it is fine. I bought an expensive MAC one and took it back - too hard, and wrong color. THe sales associate definitely sold me the wrong product. But I really wanted the Milani anyhow, and I found it. rbb, I have really long eyelashes so I am not getting fake ones - a decent mascara is fine. And, I dont leave the house without lipstick.:hiding:
  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    I want to try some of that Cindy Johnson Boom makeup.
  • 2poodles2poodles Posts: 2,481Registered Users Curl Novice
    chupie wrote: »
    I want to try some of that Cindy Johnson Boom makeup.

    You mean Cindy Joseph's makeup? I bought BOOM when it first came out, a few years ago. At the time my skin was still more oily than dry, so I didn't stick with it too long. I'm glad you reminded me about it, though. Now my skin is drier - especially in the winter. I was just thinking yesterday that I should try a cream blush. I'll see if I can dig out my old boomstick color. Hopefully it hasn't gone bad. I did like the color a lot and I love the whole concept. Thanks for reminding me, chupie!
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]2Poodles :flower: Southeast PA
    fine, med porosity, normal elasticity
    Currently using the following 2 - 3 x/week:
    Living Proof Perfect Hair Day suphate-free Poo, cone-free CO and styling treatment, plus KCCC

  • MyrnaMyrna Posts: 2,369Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    A friend of mine ordered it and I keep forgetting to ask her how she likes it. What I think, though is if I had the bone structure in my face that Cindy has, I would probably only need a tinted moisturizer, a bit of blush, and lipstick.
  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    Well yeah :D Bur I like the idea of a very sheer color.
  • MyrnaMyrna Posts: 2,369Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    I understand, in the past year I have started using a BB cream more than foundation, with a light dusting of powder over.
  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
  • caramix3acaramix3a Posts: 460Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    Another factor, besides one's skin undertone, that determines if one looks lovely with grey and white hair or not is the state of one's skin. All the women who look great tend to have very even-toned skin, like many of the women in these photos. Hardly a sun spot in sight. But for someone whose skin is prone to sun spots that are not easily covered up, maybe not so much. But that might be a matter of personal opinion, so no flames, please!:) So, whatever kind of skin one has, even more attention to skin care in general really helps(and good sun protection).
  • 2poodles2poodles Posts: 2,481Registered Users Curl Novice
    That makes sense, caramix3a. Sun spots and blotches are often warm shades. Silver/gray hair tends to be cool. Cool hair tends to blend better with cooler skin tones. But to be fair, any color hair (as long as it's healthy-looking) will look better against nice, healthy, glowing skin.
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]2Poodles :flower: Southeast PA
    fine, med porosity, normal elasticity
    Currently using the following 2 - 3 x/week:
    Living Proof Perfect Hair Day suphate-free Poo, cone-free CO and styling treatment, plus KCCC

  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    2poodles wrote: »
    chupie wrote: »
    I want to try some of that Cindy Johnson Boom makeup.

    You mean Cindy Joseph's makeup? I bought BOOM when it first came out, a few years ago. At the time my skin was still more oily than dry, so I didn't stick with it too long. I'm glad you reminded me about it, though. Now my skin is drier - especially in the winter. I was just thinking yesterday that I should try a cream blush. I'll see if I can dig out my old boomstick color. Hopefully it hasn't gone bad. I did like the color a lot and I love the whole concept. Thanks for reminding me, chupie!

    Did you try this again?
  • 2poodles2poodles Posts: 2,481Registered Users Curl Novice
    chupie wrote: »
    2poodles wrote: »
    chupie wrote: »
    I want to try some of that Cindy Johnson Boom makeup.

    You mean Cindy Joseph's makeup? I bought BOOM when it first came out, a few years ago. At the time my skin was still more oily than dry, so I didn't stick with it too long. I'm glad you reminded me about it, though. Now my skin is drier - especially in the winter. I was just thinking yesterday that I should try a cream blush. I'll see if I can dig out my old boomstick color. Hopefully it hasn't gone bad. I did like the color a lot and I love the whole concept. Thanks for reminding me, chupie!

    Did you try this again?

    I did! I like her boomstick color. It's a warmish neutral (red/bronze) color. (Sorry, I'm not good at descriptions of color.) It can go on sheer and be layered for more depth. I like it in the fall/winter. I also like the Tarte cheek stain in "natural beauty" for a brighter pink/rose shade that blends well for both the cheeks and lips. (There are also multiple different shade of the tarte cheek stain.) Having both of them is a great combo. Boomstick is a more earthy shade and the Tarte is a brighter, cooler shade. HTH's!!
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]2Poodles :flower: Southeast PA
    fine, med porosity, normal elasticity
    Currently using the following 2 - 3 x/week:
    Living Proof Perfect Hair Day suphate-free Poo, cone-free CO and styling treatment, plus KCCC

  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    I've wondered about the Tarte. Need to look at that.
  • chupiechupie Posts: 5,275Registered Users Curl Connoisseur

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