Probably been asked and answered a zillion times

So, I've been perusing these message boards for the last few days and finally decided to make the jump and attempt this whole thing. But, I am finding myself very confused. Like I said, I've been looking around here and can't seem to find a straight forward answer anywhere.
How many different products does one use? Or maybe I should say how many 'steps' are there?
1) Wash with a sulfate free shampoo (low poo)
2) Wash the scalp with silicone free conditioner (co-wash)
3) Condition the rest of your hair
4) Get out of the shower (haha)
5) Leave in conditioner
6) Curl cream/Gel/ Whatever else
Now, I understand (or at least think I understand) that the low poo is optional. So, does that mean that if you omit that you need one co wash conditioner, one other conditioner, and one leave in conditioner? Or is all of the conditioner that you use in the shower the same one?
I am probably WAY over thinking this but I just want to understand before I go out and buy all kinds of things.
Yesterday, I went to Trader Joe's and got some of their shampoo and conditioner (I read about it on here). And I used my old (bad) shampoo one last time, and then lathered up my hair with conditioner in the shower, combed through it with my fingers and then rinsed clean. Didn't have a leave in that was acceptable, so I just used an old t-shirt and used the 'plop method.' I noticed that my hair was a little bit less frizzy this morning, although that could just be my imagination haha.
So, am I kinda-sorta-maybe on the right track? Do I need to buy some more types of conditioners? If so, what should the difference be between them? (Is there something special to differentiate between a cowash conditioner and a 'regular' conditioner?)
Thank you so much to anyone willing to lend me a little insight and help me to feel a smidge less clueless!
Amanda
(Hair type is somewhere between 2a and 2b)
How many different products does one use? Or maybe I should say how many 'steps' are there?
1) Wash with a sulfate free shampoo (low poo)
2) Wash the scalp with silicone free conditioner (co-wash)
3) Condition the rest of your hair
4) Get out of the shower (haha)
5) Leave in conditioner
6) Curl cream/Gel/ Whatever else
Now, I understand (or at least think I understand) that the low poo is optional. So, does that mean that if you omit that you need one co wash conditioner, one other conditioner, and one leave in conditioner? Or is all of the conditioner that you use in the shower the same one?
I am probably WAY over thinking this but I just want to understand before I go out and buy all kinds of things.
Yesterday, I went to Trader Joe's and got some of their shampoo and conditioner (I read about it on here). And I used my old (bad) shampoo one last time, and then lathered up my hair with conditioner in the shower, combed through it with my fingers and then rinsed clean. Didn't have a leave in that was acceptable, so I just used an old t-shirt and used the 'plop method.' I noticed that my hair was a little bit less frizzy this morning, although that could just be my imagination haha.
So, am I kinda-sorta-maybe on the right track? Do I need to buy some more types of conditioners? If so, what should the difference be between them? (Is there something special to differentiate between a cowash conditioner and a 'regular' conditioner?)
Thank you so much to anyone willing to lend me a little insight and help me to feel a smidge less clueless!

Amanda
(Hair type is somewhere between 2a and 2b)
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I don't think anyone can help steer you towards products without knowing what type of hair - fine, course, thick thin, porous, low porousity, normal, etc.
But the steps... I have 3A curls & fine/thin hair.
I am still working out a schedule for my hair and seeing what works best.
Today for example in the shower I did:
1. protein treatment - gelatin, drop of oil, little bit of vinegar and a drop or two of conditioner mixed up.
2. cowashed with Tresemme Naturals conditioner.
3. plopped
4. FSG (flax seed gel I made myself)
5. Diffused a bit
And I was done. I use FSG everyday. I usually don't use more than 1 product in the shower. Sometimes I cowash with Sauve Naturals. Sometimes I use Loreal's Evercurl Cleansing Conditioner. I have 3 products in the shower, but usually only use 1 of them on any given day.
But that's because I have fine hair. My hair tends to get weighed down by too much conditioners. It's all about figuring out what kind of hair you have and experimenting.
I read something someone said was to look at people's signatures to see what type of hair they have and try to follow those that have similiar hair types to you to see what they're using.
Curly Girl since 11/10/13 - Still figuring out what works best for my hair!
lopoo 1x per week with - Organix Tea Tree Mint Shampoo
Conditioners: Sauve Naturals Tropical Coconut
Gel: LA Looks Sports Gel
Curl Refresher - water. Still looking for something
PT: IAGirl's Protein Treatment
The main idea is to ensure your hair doesn't dry out as dry hair tends to equal loss of curls.
Some people can load the conditioner and products on, while other people need to use minimal amounts (like me).
Some people do well with cowashing, others do well with lowpooing. Some use a rinse out AND a leave in, others just skip the rinse out and go straight to the leave in, because it's a waste of product in some cases.
If you're doing a sulfate wash, the cowash can be skipped. I'd go straight to a deep conditioner and then do a leave in, or not wash your DC out all the way.
As for stylers, some people like a leave in conditioner underneath their gel. Some people like a leave in conditioner, a cream, and a gel. Some people just like a cream, while others prefer a leave in detangler and a gel. It's really mix and match with what your hair will do well with. Me personally, in the summer I like a leave in conditioner with a gel on top. In the winter I like a cream, a butter for a sealant, and a gel.
Hope I didn't confuse you even more.
:bunny:
NP/LP: CJ Daily Fix, KMF Whenever / Giovanni TTTT
RO/LI: Aussie Moist, CJ Argan & Olive Oil, Hask Keratin Protein
DC/PROTEIN: KC Stellar Strands / CNPF
STYLER: CJ Curl Queen
COLOR: henna, amla & indigo
:thumbdown:: glycerin in high/low dews, polyquat-10 & 11, parabens
The short answer, however, is that to do CG, you only need two things: a silicone free conditioner, and a silicone free styling gel. Some people also need a sulfate (and silicone) free shampoo, known as a low-poo. The rest is individual preference, as people tweak the system.
Morgan
Baby Fine 3B, low porosity, normal density and elasticity
CGing since July 2008
Okay, so basically you can either co-wash or low-poo. Low pooing is just like washing your hair 'normally' - apply the low-poo, rinse it out then apply your conditioner.
For co-washing you basically just use the conditioner as a shampoo, rinse that out and then apply more conditioner to condition with.
Either of the above two are both CG, so do whatever is right for you. Some CGers don't get on well with co-washing and prefer low-pooing and vice versa.
As for leave-in conditioners, these can be optional, depending on whether or not you 'baptism rinse'. A baptism rinse is leaving some of your conditioner in your hair (so not washing it out properly), which allows you to omit using a leave-in.
Then, yes, you add your stylers and such, then scrunch and pump and leave to dry (not touching it during the drying process).
As the above poster said, you should buy the Curly Handbook (second addition). It's only a few pound and is SO helpful (separate chapters for each curl type plus a DVD to see the tips in action).
LP: Shea Moisture (currently JBCO)
Conditioner/CW: Jason Aloe Vera
LI: Aunt Jackie's Curls & Coils Quench
Refreshing: TRESemmé Naturals Aloe Vera & Avocado
Gel: DevaCurl Ultra Defining Gel
DC: Aunt Jackie's Soft & Sassy Super Duper Softening Conditioner
Treatments: Coconut oil/Coconut milk
UK curly. CG since Oct 2013.
Growing my hair to WL when dry :thumright:
Do purchase the book and/ or read the stickies on this and the general haircare board.
As stated you low-poo OR co-wash. Can use between one and three conditioners, some use the same product for all three steps (wash, rinse out, leave in), others prefer to wash with a light product and condition with a richer one.
How many products depends on hair properties and ingredients. Even those with hair that does well with protein (fine or damaged) often don't like protein at the roots (= dry/ build up), ditto oils (= greasy not clean).
CO-wash: Inecto coconut/ Elvive Volume Collagen
Treatments: Komaza Care Matani, coconut/ sweet almond/ fractionated coconut oils, Hairveda Sitrinillah
Leave in: Fructis Sleek & Shine (old), Gliss Ultimate Volume, various Elvive
Styler: Umberto Giannini jelly, Au Naturale styling gelee
Flour sack towel, pixie diffuse or air dry.
Experimenting with: benign neglect
3B, fine, normal porosity, high density, medium width and length
Conditioner: Tresemme Naturals, Trader Joe's Tea Tree Tingle
Co-Wash: As I Am Coconut Co-Wash
Leave in Products: As I Am Leave-In, SM Smoothie/Milk, KCKT, Giovanni Direct Leave-In
Air Dry
Looking for new products and methods to try!
Morgan
Baby Fine 3B, low porosity, normal density and elasticity
CGing since July 2008