So... I've been trying to diffuse my hair with the pixie method but I have a hard time getting all of my wave clump to go inside of the diffuser. Instead parts of them will stick out the side of the diffuser and not get dry. It's like my hair is stiff and won't bend properly as I put the diffuser up to my scalp and as a result some of my waves tend to straighten out as I diffuse. Any tips?