Hi guys! I have been a long time lurker on the CG forums and I have a question. I have type 2c hair, low porosity, high density hair. On The forums and the site it seems to recommend gels for my type of hair but I really dislike gel. I hate the crunchiness that I seem to always experience. What would you guys recommend for me to get definition and softness without my hair being crunchy or looking slightly wet?