Co-washing doesn't work for me

in Hair Type 2
There, I said it! I was CG 3 years ago when my hair was long (prior to having my daughter) and it worked great, for the most part. At the time I thought I had medium/coarse, porous hair.
I did a big chop after the 3 months postpartum hair-loss. I now have chin-length hair that has never seen a straightening or curling iron and very little blowdrying.
Now my hair is acting like fine, low porosity hair. Someone tell me how to work with this, because I have no idea.
Also, does anyone else notice that co-washing makes your hair look darker? I'm not ok with this. My auburn hair looks dull, dirty brown if I don't low-poo (or even sulfate poo) regularly. I love the curls, but not the flat, icky brown that I get with co-washing.
I did a big chop after the 3 months postpartum hair-loss. I now have chin-length hair that has never seen a straightening or curling iron and very little blowdrying.
Now my hair is acting like fine, low porosity hair. Someone tell me how to work with this, because I have no idea.
Also, does anyone else notice that co-washing makes your hair look darker? I'm not ok with this. My auburn hair looks dull, dirty brown if I don't low-poo (or even sulfate poo) regularly. I love the curls, but not the flat, icky brown that I get with co-washing.
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Low to normal porosity, coarse, kinky, normal elasticity
Current favorites:
Low poo: Yes To Cukes Color Protection (the no sulfate one)
Conditioners: Renpure MPHIP, CJ Smoothing Lotion, AB LI, CJ Curl Rehab, CJ Argan/Olive, Darcy's Pumpkin
Style: FSG, BRHG
Pre-poo/DT: Conditioner with honey & coconut oil
iHerb discount code: PNQ285
Just do what works for you. If you need to low poo or shampoo now in then do it!
I'm so curious as to why co-washing is making some of you darker-haired!
Currently using:
Poo: Earthbath Oatmeal & Aloe
RO: V05 Kiwi Lime
LI: CJ Smoothing Lotion
Styler: UFD CM, CJ PP
PT: CJ Repair Me
:thumright: hydrolized protein, jelly stylers
:angry8: guar hydroxypropyltrimonium chloride, sulfates, jojoba oil
Neutral on cones.
iherb discount code: CFN646
I think it's either buildup or the fact that the hair is retaining more moisture...hair is always darker wet than dry.
Currently using:
Poo: Earthbath Oatmeal & Aloe
RO: V05 Kiwi Lime
LI: CJ Smoothing Lotion
Styler: UFD CM, CJ PP
PT: CJ Repair Me
:thumright: hydrolized protein, jelly stylers
:angry8: guar hydroxypropyltrimonium chloride, sulfates, jojoba oil
Neutral on cones.
iherb discount code: CFN646
CG since october 2012.:love5:
Co wash: VO5 Conditioner Two times a week.
Low Pow: Loreal Ever Sleek once a week (scalp only).
Rinse out conditioner: VO5 conditioner.
Deep Conditioner: Naturaleza y Vida Mascarilla hidratante de aloe y enebro, once a week.
Leave in: VO5 conditioner half water half conditioner.
Gel: VO5 gel light hold.
Mousse: Caprice Rizos Definidos.
:love10: My hair love plopping!.
I usually have medium blond with light blond highlights (natural highlights) and my lighter strands are just gone. I really liked my natural highlights.
I'm trying to figure out my hair. So, I'm wavy for sure. Everything from loose waves to really curly almost ringlet waves.
I believe my hair is low porosity. It's very smooth and squeaks when I did the finger slid. It also takes several hours to dry.
I have fine to medium texture. Mostly fine on top and then it gets a little thicker. The thicker strands are curly as well.
I've co-washed once (using GF Pure and Clean) and then "washed" with just water yesterday. My hair is just so dark and wet looking. It looks like I have a ton of gel in my hair, but I have no product in it.
I bought some sulfate free poo today. I'm hoping my hair will be better using that. I'm not liking this heavy, greasy, wet, dark look.