Hi I have kinky curly hair (3c?) and I have been doing a lot of research on how to best take care of it. I comb/finger comb instead of brushing, I CO wash. It looks conditioned and healthy until it dries, then it becomes a short puff, is there a way to keep it looking like it does while its still wet and conditioned. also what type of hairstyles do you guys like I cant wear it in a pony tail because it looks flat so I find myself keeping it in a bun all day thanks.