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Would you date/marry a porn actor/actress?

The New BlackThe New Black Posts: 16,738Registered Users
Date casually...maybe. But no sex or possibly even kissing.

Date seriously or marry...no, never. The risk of stds is way too high. And I'd feel like part of a harem anyway.

Yeah, I know they're tested regularly. But I also recall a group of actors who tested positive for HIV a few years back. No thanks.
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  • DedachanDedachan Posts: 1,644Registered Users
    No.
  • fraufrau Posts: 6,130Registered Users
    not even one date.
    no strippers either and i was asked out (13 yrs ago) by a gorgeous russian dancer, i said nope. (he danced at gay clubs but claimed he wasn't gay. i was like, whatever bye.)
  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    No. And not for the reason of disease. I don't even get that far with it mentally.

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  • murrrcatmurrrcat Posts: 9,596Registered Users
    frau wrote: »
    not even one date.
    no strippers either and i was asked out (13 yrs ago) by a gorgeous russian dancer, i said nope. (he danced at gay clubs but claimed he wasn't gay. i was like, whatever bye.)


    the one from mtv?? He did gay porn but wasn't gay





    and No.

    Not even the risk of stds, it's probably no different than someone who isn't in porn having stds.

    But just no. One date but if I found out no. Besides guys in porn are never cute. The women aren't either they just have big boobies and people automatically assume they're hot.

    I'm not dating someone who's having sex with other people else while we're dating.


    If he quit and looked like james franco...maybe.

    Aren't they trying to get a law passed where porn actors/actresses have to wear condoms?
    Or did it get passed?
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  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    No.
  • RedCatWavesRedCatWaves Posts: 31,258Registered Users
    Emphatically...No.

    I don't know why anyone would even ask this question.
  • KurlyKaeKurlyKae Posts: 3,413Registered Users
    no

    murrturtles, they passed a condom law, or were trying to, in the town next to ours (we're not far from LA,) the industry was against it, the locals totally in support, hoping the porn makers would just take it somewhere else.
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  • mrspoppersmrspoppers Posts: 7,223Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    No. I can't imagine dating one either.
    When are women going to face the fact that they don’t know their own bodies as well as men who have heard things?

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  • FieryCurlsFieryCurls Posts: 2,904Registered Users
    No!!
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  • cyndicyndi Posts: 3,341Registered Users
    No, never!
    I think that I deceive genius.:happy10:
  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    I couldn't because I give myself 100% to the person I am with and I expect the same back. That includes emotionally and physically.
  • curlyarcacurlyarca Posts: 8,449Registered Users
    Hell no. That's a dealbreaker.

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  • EricachristinaEricachristina Posts: 496Registered Users
    No because of the reasons listed by everyone else std's ect but also because I couldnt date anyone knowing they were having sex with other ppl...a lot of other ppl. Some of these porn actors are married with families so I guess there are ppl out there who accept it.

    Strippers....no some things are only meant to be between a couple not strange women who want to watch my boyfriend get naked. Once when I went to a strip club with my friends this stripper kept hitting on me. He was asking personal questions about me and tried to give me a free dance which I asked him not to do out of embarassment and then he asked for my number which I didnt give. He was really good looking but I just didnt want to go there and he was being so touchy feely with me that I left so I wouldnt have to tell him off in front of everyone and cause a scene. I couldnt help thinking how many women he had asked out in the same fashion after a night of working...and how many he went on dates with or home with...it made me sick.
  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    Date casually...maybe. But no sex or possibly even kissing.

    Date seriously or marry...no, never. The risk of stds is way too high. And I'd feel like part of a harem anyway.

    Yeah, I know they tested regularly. But I also recall a group of actors who tested positive for HIV a few years back. No thanks.

    No kissing, no sex, and no potential of marriage? That's not dating. That's hanging out with a platonic friend.
  • legendslegends Posts: 3,073Registered Users
    I might consider casual dating/sex. Maybe. I'm not entirely against the idea. In theory. I guess. At the very least it might be an interesting anecdote. Maybe. I'd most likely be squicked out if the opportunity ever actually presented itself, though.

    I'd be more likely to go for it if his porn career was in the past and it wasn't a major part of his life. A couple of movies in his youth when he was broke and wanted easy money? Understandable. A multi-year career? No thank you.
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  • The New BlackThe New Black Posts: 16,738Registered Users
    @Speckla True!!^^
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  • SailaSaila Posts: 1,212Registered Users
    It's counter-intuitive, but I recently read that HIV/STD rates are significantly lower in the adult film industry than regular civilians.

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    "The industry’s medical consultants say that about 350,000 sex scenes have been shot without condoms since 2004, and H.I.V. has not been transmitted on a set once."
  • EricachristinaEricachristina Posts: 496Registered Users
    Saila wrote: »
    It's counter-intuitive, but I recently read that HIV/STD rates are significantly lower in the adult film industry than regular civilians.

    /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2012%2F11%2F06%2Fhealth%2Funlikely-model-for-hiv-prevention-porn-industry.html%3Fpagewanted%3Dall%26amp%3B_r%3D0" class="Popup

    "The industry’s medical consultants say that about 350,000 sex scenes have been shot without condoms since 2004, and H.I.V. has not been transmitted on a set once."

    Maybe thats because they have to get tested before a film and the rest of the population may sleep with ppl without knowing their sexual history
  • legendslegends Posts: 3,073Registered Users
    Saila wrote: »
    It's counter-intuitive, but I recently read that HIV/STD rates are significantly lower in the adult film industry than regular civilians.

    /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2012%2F11%2F06%2Fhealth%2Funlikely-model-for-hiv-prevention-porn-industry.html%3Fpagewanted%3Dall%26amp%3B_r%3D0" class="Popup

    "The industry’s medical consultants say that about 350,000 sex scenes have been shot without condoms since 2004, and H.I.V. has not been transmitted on a set once."

    Yes, and in all the cases where actors tested positive, it turned out that they also filmed in countries that don't require condoms or testing.

    Regular testing is key.
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  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    TNB,
    Why did you start this tread? Curiousity? Personal issue you're dealing with? Or trying to pit ethics against morals just to see the reaction vs your own?
  • Fifi.GFifi.G Posts: 15,490Registered Users
    I have joked on here before, in a different thread, that I would pay to have sex with James Deen BUT the key word is joked. No. I can imagine all I want but I could actually never date or ... a porn star.
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  • The New BlackThe New Black Posts: 16,738Registered Users
    Speckla wrote: »
    TNB,
    Why did you start this tread? Curiousity? Personal issue you're dealing with? Or trying to pit ethics against morals just to see the reaction vs your own?

    Long circuitous story...I was Googling pics of Indian bridal makeup and a pic of Sunny Leone came up. Turns out she was a porn actress. I noticed she was married, which got me to thinking.

    I don't know what you mean about pitting ethics against morals...
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  • mad scientistmad scientist Posts: 3,530Registered Users
    Speckla wrote: »
    TNB,
    Why did you start this tread? Curiousity? Personal issue you're dealing with? Or trying to pit ethics against morals just to see the reaction vs your own?

    Long circuitous story...I was Googling pics of Indian bridal makeup and a pic of Sunny Leone came up. Turns out she was a porn actress. I noticed she was married, which got me to thinking.

    I don't know what you mean about pitting ethics against morals...

    Haha I googled her too recently! She was on an episode of one of those Say Yes to the Dress type shows and I kept thinking "She really looks Indian". Had never heard of her and turns out she's Indo-Canadian.
  • The New BlackThe New Black Posts: 16,738Registered Users
    lol...interesting coincidence...
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  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    Ethics = society view, cultural
    morals = religious view, political

    I may be off in my understanding and I do not mind if that is pointed out. I want to explore my understanding and decision making. This is a very good topic and enlightening.
  • The New BlackThe New Black Posts: 16,738Registered Users
    I don't really see ethics and morals as being at odds here. No one really mentioned ethics, by that definition.
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  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    I don't really see ethics and morals as being at odds here. No one really mentioned ethics, by that definition.

    Ok. I just was curious.
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  • multicultcurlymulticultcurly Posts: 5,132Registered Users
    No. I could date a guy who was a stripper in his past. Maybe a porn star in his past, but not so sure. I would think with American porn stars that they actually have a lower risk of STDs than ordinary people because they're tested frequently and they sleep with the same people. I would think strippers would have the same rate of STDs as the normal population.

    What I couldn't deal with would be the "lifestyle." This may be judgmental but emotionally healthy people rarely do porn or strip (for long periods of time).
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  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    I used to be really open and understanding of ones past. After all, it is their past -

    But giving people the benefit of the doubt when comes to my relationships always seems to bite me in the ass. I'm a little more strict about what I accept now.

    I've given someone who was involved in an interesting lifestyle in their past the benefit of the doubt. I've given a recovered drug addict the benefit of the doubt. I felt that their past was the past and people can change.

    Well, people do change, but only a little. That person who decided to get involved in that lifestyle, is still there. They may not currently live that life, but I'm not going to be compatible with someone who once considered living a life that way.

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