Does your hair get mistaken for a wig?

HipsterSoulHipsterSoul Registered Users Posts: 1,017
I Get this a lot when my hair is out in a twistout. I have big hair and you can't see my scalp so people who compliment it often ask if it's a wig and how do I do my hair like that. Even when I had a perm, hatin' girls at school thought it was fake because I took care of it.


I take it as a compliment because that means its thick and lush.

So, does this happen to you, random strangers thinking it's fake?
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  • hippychichippychic Registered Users Posts: 4,673 Curl Neophyte
    i wish i had that problem:toothy7:
    my daughter is often asked if her hair is a weave. people would come up to her at school and slickly touch her hair to feel for tracks. her hair is relaxed but lush and thick too. :)
    LOIS (OS); cottony, TYPE 4 hair, fine/med strands; no cones bcz my hair hates them; last relaxer '98; now low porosity:?, ignores most natural hair rules; BC #8

    faves: suave, v05 shampoo, conditioner (my own), raw shea butter, castor oil, peanut oil, aloe juice
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  • adthomasadthomas Registered Users Posts: 5,525 Curl Neophyte
    I Get this a lot when my hair is out in a twistout. I have big hair and you can't see my scalp so people who compliment it often ask if it's a wig and how do I do my hair like that. Even when I had a perm, hatin' girls at school thought it was fake because I took care of it.


    I take it as a compliment because that means its thick and lush.

    So, does this happen to you, random strangers thinking it's fake?

    If I had a quarter for every time I grt that I would be rich. my hair is massively dense and can get really big. People ask me if it's my real hair or if it is all my hair (like a hair piece). Some people I guess not believing me have actually stuck their fingers in to feel my scalp. Not cool.
    Funny thing is I also wear a straight bob wig which is short and "tame" and most people think it's my real hair.
    Yes, it's real. No, you can't touch it. :wav:
  • CerendipityCerendipity Registered Users Posts: 5,091 Curl Novice
    If i have a super hot WnG i get is that your real hair. Never a wig though
  • claudine19claudine19 Registered Users Posts: 4,486
    Hah!

    I wish my hair looked good enough to be mistaken for a wig!
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  • NaturallyNikéNaturallyNiké Registered Users Posts: 364 Curl Neophyte
    ALL THE TIME....When straightened and while in its natural state...It's the color and shine, my hair tends to look synthetic
    Niké (Nee-Kay):nike:

    My world of curls
    2hchy5z.jpg3C/4A,Fine-Meduim,Thick, Lo Porosity

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    Leave-in/Moisturizer: Giovanni Direct Leave in
    Sealants:EVOO, JBCO, Crisco
    DC:Matrix Condtioning Balm,Giovanni SAS,Honey, Glycerin
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  • EtTu2EtTu2 Registered Users Posts: 69
    Yep!
    I was at work one day and some random guy argued with me trying to say my jair wasnt real. It was pretty embaressing. I also had a lady grab my hair from behind. I thought I was going to have to start swinging but then she asked if my hair was real and asked what I do to it. I gladly told her and then she said" oh, well I cant do that with my hair." :/
  • ida2ida2 Registered Users Posts: 140
    People may questioned wither my hair is wig when I'm wearing a twist out.
  • PearlsForCurlsPearlsForCurls Registered Users Posts: 86
    I'm still in the TWA stage, so I get asked what kind of texturizer I use very often. I get gasps when I say I don't use them lol. The product question usually follows the gasps. Ohh the joys of being natural. ;)
    Transitioned from Dec 2011-Jul 2012

    Now fully natural!:thumbright:

    One year anniversary: Dec 28, 2012

    Curl Type: The type that curls kinkily.
    Products: Tresemme Naturals, Trader Joe's Tea Tree Tingle Condit., Coconut Oil


    "Wait, I'm doing it wrong!"
  • NikkiNickoleNikkiNickole Registered Users Posts: 8
    Lol! All the time. Today was the worst because I did my first chunky braidout ,and it was beautiful

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  • HipsterSoulHipsterSoul Registered Users Posts: 1,017
    it's funny because just yesterday I got complimented on my hair and this woman asks me how I do it. I told her that I just twist while damp and unravel them. Then she looks at me like she's expecting me to say more, well that's it, lol.

    It's not magic, it's the beauty of 4a hair :)
  • Jo SomebodyJo Somebody Registered Users Posts: 1,578 Curl Neophyte
    No.
    My hair is in the 4s, low in porosity, high in density and coarse. :happy6:

    Love: QB - all of it, Bobeam - shampoo bars, Darcy's Botanicals - Pumpkin Seed Conditioner, Coconut Cupuacu Pomade, KBN - Shealoe Leave-in, Oyin - Juices & Berries, Kinky Curly - Knot Today, Ayurvedic treatments, my Denman and the cloud of kinky goodness on my head that I get to play with! :love8:
  • applesandafrosapplesandafros Registered Users Posts: 328
    When its straight all the time. And when its in a puff people ask me if its a puff piece.
    Almost MBL Coils
    spongy, low porosity, dense awesomeness

    Shampoo: Curly Kinks Cleansing Cream
    Rinse Out/Detangler Conditioner: Aussie Moist, V05 Strawberries and Cream, Suave Naturals Coconut
    Leave in Conditioner: Trader Joe's Nourish Spa and Giovanni Direct Leave in
    Styler: Eco Styler Krystal and Blue, Herbal Essence Totally Twisted Gel and Flax seed gel
    Sealer: Grape seed oil
    Deep Conditioner: Curl Junkie Repair Me
    Protein Treatment: Karishma and Jamilla Henna
  • JohariJohari Registered Users Posts: 673
    When its straighten I get mistaken for a relaxer look a like or weave. If done curly with roller sets then ya some people think its a wig!
  • kurlygurlykurlygurly Registered Users Posts: 644
    adthomas wrote: »
    Funny!



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    Deep Trestment: Nature's Nectars deep conditioner/styler
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    LEAVE-IN:Nature's Nectars luv-n-a-bottle, Natures Gate pomegranate sunflower
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  • kurlygurlykurlygurly Registered Users Posts: 644
    Only when I was in high school.....but not a wig....maybe a weave or hair piece. That never happens anymore.

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    3b-ish... normal to low porosity....med. texture
    Wash: Desert Essence Coconut shampoo, Acure argon shampoo
    Deep Trestment: Nature's Nectars deep conditioner/styler
    Condition: Nature's Nectars luv-n-a-bottle, Nature's Gate pomegranate sunflower
    LEAVE-IN:Nature's Nectars luv-n-a-bottle, Natures Gate pomegranate sunflower
    STYLE: Nature's Nectars Sweet Shea butter blend, Ecostyler gel
    hemp oil, jojoba oil
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  • claudine19claudine19 Registered Users Posts: 4,486
    EtTu2 wrote: »
    Yep!
    I was at work one day and some random guy argued with me trying to say my jair wasnt real. It was pretty embaressing. I also had a lady grab my hair from behind. I thought I was going to have to start swinging but then she asked if my hair was real and asked what I do to it. I gladly told her and then she said" oh, well I cant do that with my hair." :/

    I can't believe someone grabbed your hair, let alone argued with you about it.

    People are nuts.
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  • belwillcoilybelwillcoily Registered Users Posts: 303 Curl Connoisseur
    When I wear two strand twists, I am sometimes asked what brand of synthetic hair I used for my kinky twist. When I explain that there is no added hair; that it's my natural hair twisted I am often given the side eye. It used to bug me but now I just blow it off. I feel it's a testament to the fact that my hair is dense and growing and I'm retaining the length. :toothy7:

    Once when I wore a twist out my family and I went to Six Flags. My hair became big and fluffy after walking around the amusment park for several hours and my youngest son told me I looked like I had a wig on. Out of the mouth of babes, I tell you... :wink:
    :afro: Me Fascina El Pelo :afro:




    Low Porosity; Medium Strands; Dense
  • EtTu2EtTu2 Registered Users Posts: 69
    claudine19 wrote: »
    EtTu2 wrote: »
    Yep!
    I was at work one day and some random guy argued with me trying to say my jair wasnt real. It was pretty embaressing. I also had a lady grab my hair from behind. I thought I was going to have to start swinging but then she asked if my hair was real and asked what I do to it. I gladly told her and then she said" oh, well I cant do that with my hair." :/

    I can't believe someone grabbed your hair, let alone argued with you about it.

    People are nuts.
    Before that I didn't mind people touching my hair- Now I have issues with people touching it. I don't know why someone would argue with me about hair. I don't think it looks fake but he could have kept his comments to hisself.
  • puppitypuppuppitypup Registered Users Posts: 115
    I think that has only happened to me a handful of times. Not so much recently, though. My hair isn't super dense though. I love thick, full hair!!
    3C, fine/med texture, normal porosity, high elasticity, very defined spiral

    Holy Grail Products: TRESemme Naturals conditioner, my mango/shea butter mixture, Apricot Kernel Oil, Coconut Oil, EVOO & Cantu Shea Butter

    Check out my blog: http://ricciolina.wordpress.com
  • SandiSandi Registered Users Posts: 364 Curl Neophyte
    Somehow, at my school (which is predominantly Asian and White, if that has any relevance), I'm always asked, "Is [your hair] real?"

    Well, uh, yeah, it is. And then they give me this look like such hair can't exist. Sheesh.

    Fortunately or unfortunately, that usually happens on days where my ringlets don't frizz. Meh.
    Hair Type: 3c/4a, Coarse, Med-High Density, Med-Low Porosity
    Curly since '09
  • CalberCalber Registered Users Posts: 126
    Norwegians are a reserved set of people, so no one has asked. However, I had a twist out-fro going on 2 days ago and I experienced this one girl running directly up behind me and started staring intently at it while we stood inline at the check out counter😳. She smiled at me when I was leaving, guess she liked my hair "did"...😊
    I have to shower in order to wake up properly in the mornings :hello1:
  • AstoniedAstonied Registered Users Posts: 26
    No but my wigs get mistaken for my hair. Some people don't know I did the big chop so they say things like "Your hair has gotten sooo long" and "How did you get your hair like that? It looks fabulous!" and "Now is that a permanent color, or can it wash out?"

    I wish I could do a twist out now but its too short.
    Last relaxer: 11/24/2011
    Big chop: 03/13/2012
    Type: 4a/b
    Porosity: Low
    Strand Thickness: Fine/Med
    Density: Idk
    Length: 5in TWA
    Goal: WL
    Regimen:
    - Hot oil treatment with EVCO before every wash.
    - Cowash 1x per week with GF triple nutrition conditioner
    - Low poo 1x per mo. alternating from shea moisture african black soap shampoo & andalou naturals moisture rich
    - Moisturize with water/aloe mix or KKNT and seal with EVOO as needed
    - Sleep with satin bonnet
    Style:
    Wash & go
  • evelynnalfredevelynnalfred Registered Users Posts: 324
    People ask if my hair is real frequently. I don't know if they think it's a wig or weave, but they don't seem to think it could possibly be mine. It bothers me.
  • anonymous_114091anonymous_114091 Registered Users Posts: 126 Curl Neophyte
    I used to when I had long relaxed hair. It was super thick and healthy-looking. Now that I'm natural, however, people keep asking me if I have a texturizer. Not sure how to feel about that yet, lol.
    *BIG CHOP: September 22, 2012* :afro:
    *Last Relaxer: April 15, 2012* :p


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  • anonymous_114091anonymous_114091 Registered Users Posts: 126 Curl Neophyte
    *I'm still in the TWA stage, so I get asked what kind of texturizer I use* very often. I get gasps when I say I don't use them lol. The product question usually follows the gasps. Ohh the joys of being natural. ;)

    (Section between the asterisks) Me too!
    *BIG CHOP: September 22, 2012* :afro:
    *Last Relaxer: April 15, 2012* :p


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  • sweetmx85sweetmx85 Registered Users Posts: 1,017 Curl Neophyte
    sometimes and when its flat ironed ppl think its weave i just take it as a compliment though
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  • murrrcatmurrrcat Registered Users Posts: 9,596
    No. at least no ones ever said it to my face.
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  • HomeGrownHairGirlHomeGrownHairGirl Registered Users Posts: 296 Curl Neophyte
    Yes; Someone at my job once said "Your hair is so pretty--it looks like a wig!"

    My own mother did not believe this was my hair until she went through and touched my scalp. She says my hair looks like a wig/weave, ALL the time.

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  • Alice_42 Alice_42 Registered Users Posts: 791 Curl Neophyte
    Only when it's straight. Sometimes I get it when I wear a wash and go but "OMG HOW DID YOU DO THAT?" is waaaaayyy more common.
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    Last relaxer: August 2008
    Big Chop: December 2008/January 2009
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  • 1FlySista1FlySista Registered Users Posts: 14
    Yes, I get it all of the time. But I also used to get it when I was relaxed as well.


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