Product recommendations?

I have been trying to find the right products for a while, and I keep trying them based on what I think will be good for my hair...
But things are kind of inconsistent, so I am looking for a little advice. Any would be great(:

I have low porosity hair that is mainly 2c but has some 2b and 3a in there. It's thick and coarse, but it can also get weighed down pretty easily. I am looking for a leave-in (or a RO that can be left in) and a styler. I'd love something that clumps my curls really well and defines them but leaves them soft without a lot of crunch. Also, nothing that will dry out my hair. For some reason, even with some moisturizing products, it still manages to feel dry...

I'm thinking I might get the Koils by Nature Peppermint Gel (I liked the sample) and either KCKT or Koils by Nature Shealoe Conditioner.

Thank you so much!
2c/2b with some 2a, coarse, dense, thick, low porosity
Growing out a CL bob. Currently at APL.
CG again as of 7/20/12 :laughing5:

Cleanser: BRÖÖ Smoothing I.P.A. Shampoo
RO: Trader Joe's Nourish Spa Conditioner
LI: Kinky-Curly Knot Today
Styler: Beautiful Curls Gel for Wavy to Curly Hair

:love4: all-natural products, light moisture, humectants, argan oil
:pukeright:silk protein, synthetic ingredients, heavy oils/products, cowashing