Need help with my damaged hair :/
I am 18 years old and havent had a relaxer in about to years. my hair is passed my shoulder when curly, but used to be a lot longer. My hair type is about a 3c, Im half pakistani and half black. but due to using heat once (sometimes twice) a month for the last 2 years, my curls arent clumping together how they used to. They need to be defined I guess. After washing, my hair dries pretty fast, and once dry, is not soft at all. My curls dont look the same when they dry either. Any help? Products/ natural remedies to make my hair softer, healthier, stronger, help my curls clump?