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irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users
Boyfriend is taking a long time in the shower. So I ask boyfriend, are you shaving? He says yes. I say, you don't only shave on sex days? (I'm thinking since its after 11 and he's just showering, its too late for sex. We're lame. Shut up). He says, no. I say, you shave on non sex days? He says, when I'm hairy....

Well doesn't that completely screw up the shaving schedule?

Discuss.

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  • Nappy_curly_crownNappy_curly_crown Posts: 4,162Registered Users
    I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.
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  • NejNej Posts: 2,444Registered Users
    I shave almost every day. Single and in the dead of winter.

    I'm confused by the question


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  • kaybkayb Posts: 5,054Registered Users
    I would shave only when I know I'm getting some. :occasion9:
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  • RedCatWavesRedCatWaves Posts: 31,258Registered Users
    Um...shave what?


    Hubby shaves his FACE every day, sex or no-sex. That's all he ever shaves.

    Me...I shave only enough to not be embarrassed to go swimming.
  • BlackAngelPlayahBlackAngelPlayah Posts: 1,419Registered Users
    DH shaves every other day. I trim up when I need to.


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  • JosephineJosephine Posts: 14,175Registered Users
    I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.

    This is me. The only time I plan it is if I'm going to the beach and I want to be extra hairless and sexy feeling and of course to make sure nothing shows lol.

    Generally it's done as needed. I don't understand the scheduling thing and how it would mess anything up, confused as well.

    ETA- Um I assumed u meant the bikini area for shaving??
  • LAwomanLAwoman Posts: 2,949Registered Users
    Um...shave what?


    Hubby shaves his FACE every day, sex or no-sex. That's all he ever shaves.

    Me...I shave only enough to not be embarrassed to go swimming.

    Yeah my boyfriend shaves every Mon-Fri ...has nothing to do with "the sex."

    As for me, I shave my legs about 2x/week, the bikini area once/week and the underarms every day.
  • MunchyMunchy Posts: 5,206Registered Users
    Josephine wrote: »
    I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.

    This is me. The only time I plan it is if I'm going to the beach and I want to be extra hairless and sexy feeling and of course to make sure nothing shows lol.

    Generally it's done as needed. I don't understand the scheduling thing and how it would mess anything up, confused as well.

    ETA- Um I assumed u meant the bikini area for shaving??

    I don't shave anything unless I anticipate needing to show that body part.
  • TrenellTrenell Posts: 3,562Registered Users
    If I feel stubble in the shower, I shave. I'm not on any set schedule.

    Hubby shaves 2 maybe three times a week. He let's his beard(ish) grow during the summer. He is a teacher.
  • LadyV69LadyV69 Posts: 3,397Registered Users
    Not sure I totally understand the question.

    During the summer, I shave once or twice a week-underarms, legs and bikini area, enough so I won't feel embarrassed wearing sundresses, capris or swimsuits. In the winter, I shave about every 10 days on average, but then, you don't show as much skin then. If I waited until I had sex, I'd need electrolysis by now since I haven't had any in three years (and counting).
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  • SariaSaria Posts: 15,963Registered Users
    Munchy wrote: »
    Josephine wrote: »
    I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.

    This is me. The only time I plan it is if I'm going to the beach and I want to be extra hairless and sexy feeling and of course to make sure nothing shows lol.

    Generally it's done as needed. I don't understand the scheduling thing and how it would mess anything up, confused as well.

    ETA- Um I assumed u meant the bikini area for shaving??

    I don't shave anything unless I anticipate needing to show that body part.

    YES! Lazy shavers unite!
    I think what iroc means, at least from experience, is that the hair needs time to grow back a little before shaving again. I don't get very smooth results if I try to re-shave my legs too soon. It's better if I let the hair grow a little more. So, if you kind of have a schedule, it can get screwed up if you get out of it.

    As to what her boyfriend shaves, she provided the info in rhyme on the Say It thread. :lol:
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  • MunchyMunchy Posts: 5,206Registered Users
    I'm so lazy! I guess one good thing is that my leg hair doesn't really grow because I hardly shave them :)
  • SariaSaria Posts: 15,963Registered Users
    I HATE shaving, so I'm not going to take all that time doing it if I'm not planning on actually showing it.
    You're lucky indeed! My hair grows fast. :(
    (It's a myth about shaving making the hair grow thicker/faster though.)
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  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users
    As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

    I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

    However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

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  • inheritedcurlsinheritedcurls Posts: 2,954Registered Users
    Hubby shaves every 2 or 3 days...when his facial hair gets itchy...unless we are going on a date or he has an important work meeting.

    I on the other hand shave armpits every day (habit) legs, bikini area twice a week...unless I know I'm going swimming. I've been married 12 years...so shaving before sex does not happen. He doesn't care...just happy he's having sex. LOL


    oh...I'll shave if I know we are going out on a date...or somewhere special. :)
  • RedCatWavesRedCatWaves Posts: 31,258Registered Users
    iroc wrote: »
    As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

    I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

    However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

    It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.



    That's too many sex-rules for me. He either likes me as I am...or he's free to go elsewhere. He somehow sticks around. ;)
  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users
    iroc wrote: »
    As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

    I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

    However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

    It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.



    That's too many sex-rules for me. He either likes me as I am...or he's free to go elsewhere. He somehow sticks around. ;)


    It's certainly not rules that he's set. He's a guy, it's sex, he doesn't care!

    And I don't make him jump in the shower and shave if he hasn't in a while.

    It's just me it bothers. I can't stand that prickly feeling myself. If I even go a day between, I have to wear pants because it drives me nuts to be stubbly. I just wouldn't feel able to do it if I hadn't shaved in a few days. It would be like not brushing my teeth before!

    But that's why I just always try to keep clean shaved.
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  • JosephineJosephine Posts: 14,175Registered Users
    iroc wrote: »
    As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

    I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

    However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

    It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.

    Oh you meant legs....wait so you don't have sex if you don't have your legs cleanly shaven???

    I like to keep my legs hairfree in general because they itch less and the moisturizer gets into my skin better if they are not hairy. So i waxed them last saturday before the pool and i only touched up with the epilator for 2 minutes yesterday. I epilate probably once a week. No shaving legs for me.

    Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.
  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users
    Josephine wrote: »
    iroc wrote: »
    As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

    I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

    However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

    It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.

    Oh you meant legs....wait so you don't have sex if you don't have your legs cleanly shaven???

    I like to keep my legs hairfree in general because they itch less and the moisturizer gets into my skin better if they are not hairy. So i waxed them last saturday before the pool and i only touched up with the epilator for 2 minutes yesterday. I epilate probably once a week. No shaving legs for me.

    Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.


    Nope.

    For instance, I shaved last night, so if he were going to want to have sex tonight, I would take a shower first, to shave again, and probably irritate my skin, so I was clean shaven.

    Unless I was still fairly smooth (which occasionally I have bouts of slower hair growth) then I would go for it.

    Most likely I'd think that since the kids are going away this weekend, I'd wait until tomorrow night since then I wouldn't have to worry about kids being here. And then I'd try to get it in a couple of times on the kidless weekend to make up for it.

    I seriously think too much. I don't think we have sex enough, but clearly that's because I have too many 'reasons' why or why not. I'm not very spontaneous on the sex thing. He used to get irritated with me in the beginning for my lack of just diving into it. I'm sorry, it's real life, not porn, I can't promise everything will line up perfectly in that second.

    Maybe this shouldn't be about shaving, but rather about whether you have a spontaneous sex life!
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  • Who Me?Who Me? Posts: 3,181Registered Users
    Josephine wrote: »

    Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.

    Exactly. I can't imagine my sex life being even remotely torn to the recentness with which I've shaved my legs, after perhaps the first couple times.

    I think the point is that real life in not porn (as you mentioned), and therefore you shouldn't expect to be as hairless as in a porno whenever you have sex.
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  • NejNej Posts: 2,444Registered Users
    iroc wrote: »
    Josephine wrote: »
    iroc wrote: »
    As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

    I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

    However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

    It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.

    Oh you meant legs....wait so you don't have sex if you don't have your legs cleanly shaven???

    I like to keep my legs hairfree in general because they itch less and the moisturizer gets into my skin better if they are not hairy. So i waxed them last saturday before the pool and i only touched up with the epilator for 2 minutes yesterday. I epilate probably once a week. No shaving legs for me.

    Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.


    Nope.

    For instance, I shaved last night, so if he were going to want to have sex tonight, I would take a shower first, to shave again, and probably irritate my skin, so I was clean shaven.

    Unless I was still fairly smooth (which occasionally I have bouts of slower hair growth) then I would go for it.

    Most likely I'd think that since the kids are going away this weekend, I'd wait until tomorrow night since then I wouldn't have to worry about kids being here. And then I'd try to get it in a couple of times on the kidless weekend to make up for it.

    I seriously think too much. I don't think we have sex enough, but clearly that's because I have too many 'reasons' why or why not. I'm not very spontaneous on the sex thing. He used to get irritated with me in the beginning for my lack of just diving into it. I'm sorry, it's real life, not porn, I can't promise everything will line up perfectly in that second.

    Maybe this shouldn't be about shaving, but rather about whether you have a spontaneous sex life!

    As someone who also has a tendency to make things difficult from over-thinking I can empathize. But at the same time this all sounds terribly exhausting!

    I had an ex who wouldn't kiss me in the monrings because of his breath. Drove me crazy! I sometimes miss the down and dirty crazy spontaneous sex I use to have with my ex before him. Shower, shave, breath none of it mattered. When you want it you WANT it.

    I use to make my ex before that shower before I went down on him, no wonder we broke up.
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  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users
    I could not have bad breath sex. No way. Ew. I am totally easily distracted by things and it'll throw off all my sex mojo.

    Weird smells, the TV on, too much light, if the curtains are open, if my windows are open and I'm being too loud. Its too hard for me to shut my mind off. My head is usually racing.

    So me being teeth brushed and shaved is necessary for me!

    I don't see what the difference is between your decision to have sex while shaved/unshaved vs having your period. Some people are totally uncomfortable having sex on their period. Some are okay with it. I'm not comfortable having sex if I feel all stubbly. And I'm certainly not having sex under conditions I'm uncomfortable with. Its not about me needing to be perfect, or about meeting some expectation. Its just the feeling of it bothers me.

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  • jeepcurlygurljeepcurlygurl Posts: 19,238Registered Users Curl Dabbler
    I actually enjoy shaving and I like smooth legs so I shave every 2-3 days no matter the time of year or whether sex is on tap, no matter whether I'm alone or with someone.
    I think smooth legs feel sexy, to me and to my guy, so it's a bonus when they are freshly shaved.
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  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users
    I actually enjoy shaving and I like smooth legs so I shave every 2-3 days no matter the time of year or whether sex is on tap, no matter whether I'm alone or with someone.
    I think smooth legs feel sexy, to me and to my guy, so it's a bonus when they are freshly shaved.

    That's all I'm saying. :)

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  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users
    Who Me? wrote: »
    Josephine wrote: »

    Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.

    Exactly. I can't imagine my sex life being even remotely torn to the recentness with which I've shaved my legs, after perhaps the first couple times.

    I think the point is that real life in not porn (as you mentioned), and therefore you shouldn't expect to be as hairless as in a porno whenever you have sex.


    It's not that big of a deal. Between life, kids, work, long days, stuff going on, there's not much time for spontaneous sex around here. By the time my kids are in bed, its after 8. Then I'd like some time to read, or watch some TV, maybe watch a movie - there isn't likely going to be sex until I go to bed. I just shower before bed, and BC I like being smooth, I shave when I shower. Unless I'm absolutely not in the mood to have sex, then I'll skip shaving (or showering) and it isn't an issue.

    My only point was that if I shave on a day when I clearly don't want sex, I feel like I'm messing up the schedule. Or I'm wasting smooth hairlessness on not having sex!

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  • murrrcatmurrrcat Posts: 9,596Registered Users
    I've been swimming everyday and haven't shaved in forever. Jesus was really looking out when he gave this lazy chick the slowest growing hair ever. I shave my legs about once every 3-4 weeks. The chucktown, the same. You can't see my spiders bc my thighs love to hug each other so I'm in the clear on Maintence.
    Even if hair did grow faster I still wouldn't shave as often, I hate showers in general that just adds time to the torture.

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  • JosephineJosephine Posts: 14,175Registered Users
    iroc wrote: »
    I seriously think too much. I don't think we have sex enough, but clearly that's because I have too many 'reasons' why or why not. I'm not very spontaneous on the sex thing. He used to get irritated with me in the beginning for my lack of just diving into it. I'm sorry, it's real life, not porn, I can't promise everything will line up perfectly in that second.

    Maybe this shouldn't be about shaving, but rather about whether you have a spontaneous sex life!

    Just curious, why do you need your legs cleanly shaven for sex? I can maybe understand if they are overgrown hairy, completely grown out, haven't shaved in months(yes I used to be like this until I realized how much better my skin feels w/out hair). But I'm assuming it's not that bad. Because the legs aren't even directly needed....like I could sorta understand if it was the bikini area.

    Since you mentioned porn Im guessing you want sex to be like porn, everything perfect and in place before you do it. It's so much more fun though when it's not. Like it's when I'm not freshly waxed, wearing my emergency undies and looking like crap when I end up having the best unexpected sex.

    Yes I'm spontaneous..as for unpreparedness, on Wednesday I was at the pool all day, in the water, out, drinking, smoking, sweaty, nasty and we came back(me and my dude) and I wanted to take a shower first (and I'm not picky but I was just feeling that gross) but boy did not care even when I told him..we just did it before the shower..and of course afterwards.
  • JosephineJosephine Posts: 14,175Registered Users
    iroc wrote: »

    I don't see what the difference is between your decision to have sex while shaved/unshaved vs having your period.

    Um...where you have your period is where you have sex. :D Legs are irrelevant, especially the smoothness of them. Having sex on period requires a little more work(removing tampon/pad/cup, laying down towel, dealing with possible mess with certain positions, etc.). That being said, i have no issues with period sex but it's understandable to me that a lot of women do. Especially since many just feel uncomfortable while they are on it.
  • Who Me?Who Me? Posts: 3,181Registered Users
    iroc wrote: »
    Who Me? wrote: »
    Josephine wrote: »

    Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.

    Exactly. I can't imagine my sex life being even remotely torn to the recentness with which I've shaved my legs, after perhaps the first couple times.

    I think the point is that real life in not porn (as you mentioned), and therefore you shouldn't expect to be as hairless as in a porno whenever you have sex.


    It's not that big of a deal. Between life, kids, work, long days, stuff going on, there's not much time for spontaneous sex around here. By the time my kids are in bed, its after 8. Then I'd like some time to read, or watch some TV, maybe watch a movie - there isn't likely going to be sex until I go to bed. I just shower before bed, and BC I like being smooth, I shave when I shower. Unless I'm absolutely not in the mood to have sex, then I'll skip shaving (or showering) and it isn't an issue.

    My only point was that if I shave on a day when I clearly don't want sex, I feel like I'm messing up the schedule. Or I'm wasting smooth hairlessness on not having sex!

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    It's BECAUSE I don't think there's much time/energy for spontaneous sex that I don't think it makes any sense to let something like stubbly legs get in the way of it.
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