hello, I'm a thirteen year old girl. I love my curls, but they're very very uncontrollable and frizzy. I'm 3b..I think! and my dream hair is to have my hair longer like proper long hair, and to have it thinned so it's just nice and controllable but very nice.. em I need some help please, I don't know what to buy what to do or anything about the no shampoo or anything!! If you help me thankyou!