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Dating

crazycurlychickcrazycurlychick Posts: 344Registered Users
So I thought we should have a thread about what we want in who we date. I'll start 1 outgoing personality 2 mama's boy 3 nice smile 4 Christian 5 hyper and crazy

3A/B mix with flat roots dark blonde (refusing to call it brunette I miss my blonde baby hair) lovin my curls
:angel9:rockin the curls God gave me.

Routine!
Shampoo n/a
Conditioner Vo5 Moisture Milks
Leave in Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie
Shower, comb, apply leave in and mousse in wet hair then scrunch out the water and sometimes.
Second day, Wake up mist with water and smooth Shea Moisture Curl enhancing smoothie over hair :wav:

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  • Mwah LynxMwah Lynx Posts: 61Registered Users
    *clears throat* Ahem.
    I like them to have/be...
    1. Undying respect for me.
    2. Chivalry (yes, I just love when I get car doors opened for me and seats pulled ^^)
    3. Very amorous. (Since I'm not very romantic myself lol, it makes me feel awesome to be fawned over :D)
    4. Fun!
    5. Really nice hair (I don't have to have this quality in who I date obvz but it's a plus; I have a soft spot for course wavy hair..)

    There's more but I'm only putting my top 5 lol. Yes, I'm picky haha xD


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  • AfrotasticAfrotastic Posts: 37Registered Users
    This sounds fun!
    1) a good sense of humor
    2) gentleman (not many guys are nowadays)
    3) christian
    4) Intelligent (i like being able to have intelligent convos with guys. If I have to stop to explain simple things to you, you aren't for me)
    5) Understands my love for the arts
  • proud*tobcurlyproud*tobcurly Posts: 1Registered Users
    One Direction:love4:
  • crazycurlychickcrazycurlychick Posts: 344Registered Users
    To me if he has good grades thats great but if he's smart but his grades don't reflect that it's also okay with me lol


    3A/B mix with flat roots dark blonde (refusing to call it brunette I miss my blonde baby hair) lovin my curls
    :angel9:rockin the curls God gave me.

    Routine!
    Shampoo n/a
    Conditioner Vo5 Moisture Milks
    Leave in Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie
    Shower, comb, apply leave in and mousse in wet hair then scrunch out the water and sometimes.
    Second day, Wake up mist with water and smooth Shea Moisture Curl enhancing smoothie over hair :wav:
  • NickelNickel Posts: 10Registered Users
    I love thinking about my "Prince Charming" :]

    I always wanted someone:
    1) Confident/Capable
    2) Tech Savvy - Nerdy (like me!)
    3) Clever/Smart
    4) Taller than me (I've dated shorter guys... I need someone taller)
    5) Bright eyes and dark hair

    ...the best part is I found him! :D He has light brown hair, with the slightest tint of red, but everything else about him matches my description, haha <3 We've been together about 8 months now.
  • Luscious_M6Luscious_M6 Posts: 7Registered Users
    1.supportive
    2.honest
    3.protective
    4.attentive and considerate about my feelings
    5.doing the simplest things to make me happy

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  • skh3416skh3416 Posts: 3Registered Users
    1. able to make me laugh!
    2. respects me!
    3. loves God more than me!
    4. respects his parents!
    5. great personality!
    :)
  • ChikyuuChikyuu Posts: 268Registered Users
    I've never dated but I can try...
    1. Funny and/or undramatic (doesn't take things too seriously, like himself)
    2. Affectionate (snuggly wuggly kissy mushy crap)
    3. Somewhat successful (going to school/employed)
    4. Like some of the nerdy things I like
    5. Honestly? Attractive. Well taken care of, nice hair, clean soft clothes, preferably a slim build (Apparently I'm the only one who likes that.)
    6. Protective is good, too. Just not ridiculously.
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  • OcienOcien Posts: 23Registered Users
    Umm let's see perfect guy. . .

    1) Little bit protective and also respects me.
    2)good looking (of course) straightish hair couple inches long. I know what is wrong with me I'm a curly I'm supposed to like curly guys!
    3) Tall, thin.
    4) funny, talkative (since I don't talk much) opens doors, basically a gentleman.
    5)Romantic (the kind of guy who takes you on a moonlit walk on the beach.

    We ask a lot from our guys don't we. But then hey we also deserve it, or think we do.
    I Love my curls, and yours! :love2:

    2c-3a curls
    love Totally Twisted line, & Aussie Leave in Hair Insurance. Don't forget aloe vera gel!

    Cowash W/Vo5 conditioners, and Thermasilk by Heline curtis.
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  • mollymmollym Posts: 31Registered Users
    I don't really date that much, but I'm definitely attracted to girls with certain qualities. :)

    1.) Strong sense of humor, but an ability to talk about serious things as well
    2.) Honest. Always.
    3.) Respectful (not just to me, but everyone else)
    4.) Not afraid to be unique!
    5.) Intelligent/creative :)
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  • ElizabethFaithElizabethFaith Posts: 429Registered Users
    One Direction:love4:

    Lol! Good choice! :) They're cute!
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    My hair has a mix of low/med/high porosity, and it's medium textured (some are still fine, though!)

    CG since Sept. 2011
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    Stylers: KCKT*, Coconut Oil, Olive Oil, Grapeseed Oil, Honey*

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  • ElizabethFaithElizabethFaith Posts: 429Registered Users
    Oh, and I know the type of guy I would most likely date! I'm still working on all of his attributes, though! Carry on! :)
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Curly and PROUD!!!

    My hair has a mix of low/med/high porosity, and it's medium textured (some are still fine, though!)

    CG since Sept. 2011
    Cowash: Vo5/Suave Naturals/Tresemme Naturals*
    RO/LI: GVPCB*, Tresemme Naturals*
    Low-poo: Shea Moisture Moisture Retention
    Stylers: KCKT*, Coconut Oil, Olive Oil, Grapeseed Oil, Honey*

    * represents my HGs!!! Finally!!!
  • JohariJohari Posts: 673Registered Users
    Yikes this just reminds me of how I've never had a bf and I'm a senior now! Well I guess id rather not date in high school but it'd still be nice to have a boyfriend.
    For some reason I'm more attracted to guys with longish curly or wavy hair but anways:
    1.Believes in GOD he could be a Christian or Catholic
    2.Funny/witty
    3.Adventurous and outgoing because I'm shy and sometimes it can boring with 2 shy people.
    4.A sweetheart-nice&caring
    5.No tattoos
  • wholelottalovewholelottalove Posts: 168Registered Users
    1. Funny/good sense of humor
    2. Outgoing
    3. Musician or at least into music (I'm a musician)
    4. Smart. Not necessarily in a bookish way, just not ignorant.
    5. Not religious.
    3a
    medium/thick
    Loves protein and oils

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    Co-wash: CJDF, Jessicurl Aloeba
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    PT: SS protein treatment, Ouidad 12 min
    Oils: argan, sweet almond, jessicurl oil blend
    Stylers: SS firm hold, SS curl enhancing jelly, Kiss My Face Upper Management gel, AG Recoil
  • moonwalkgirl25moonwalkgirl25 Posts: 23Registered Users
    1 chubby or thick. Dark hair. Funny and affectionate. In school or working. Able to love me and my quirkyness... Hah I'm weird... :) and someone who likes to cuddle. :)) oh... And Someone who will hold me when I am sad or upset. :)) smart (of course) and has to be Christian
  • xocandiixocandii Posts: 93Registered Users
    1. A hottie that all the girls drool over :p.
    2. Confident
    3. Respectful
    4. Sense of Humor
    5. Romantic
    6. Protective

    That's asking for too much though, lol.
  • ElizabethFaithElizabethFaith Posts: 429Registered Users
    ^^I'm sure you'll find a guy like that!!! Mostly everything that you girls have said goes for me, too!
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Curly and PROUD!!!

    My hair has a mix of low/med/high porosity, and it's medium textured (some are still fine, though!)

    CG since Sept. 2011
    Cowash: Vo5/Suave Naturals/Tresemme Naturals*
    RO/LI: GVPCB*, Tresemme Naturals*
    Low-poo: Shea Moisture Moisture Retention
    Stylers: KCKT*, Coconut Oil, Olive Oil, Grapeseed Oil, Honey*

    * represents my HGs!!! Finally!!!
  • curly_sunshinecurly_sunshine Posts: 6Registered Users
    Lol I guess most of us want the same things.

    I'd like my guy to have Common sense, I guess that covers everything ;-)
  • ultracurlzultracurlz Posts: 212Registered Users
    hehehe XD this seems fun.

    Hmm....

    1. Attractive. Obviously. if you aren't attracted to a person there's no reason in dating them...in my mind anyway XD
    2. Sense of humor. 'Cause boring sucks.
    3. Ability to put up with my nonsense. I'm annoying sometimes and awkward as all get out. If they can't deal with that they just won't do.
    4. Smart. It would be impossible to date someone who's very stupid, commonsense wise. So that is very important.
    5. A decent person.
    6. The ability to argue without getting mad :pain10: I like me a good debate XD
    3C/4A mix (Seriously it's all over the place)
    Hair is kinda fine and kinda thick.
    Super short, I'd like definition but styling products don't like me

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    Chopped off (was shoulder length) November 2014
  • WavyshibbyWavyshibby Posts: 165Registered Users
    I have very strange qualities that I look for...

    1) sense of humor-needs to understand sarcasm and never take anything seriously
    2) weird- by this I mean he can't be too "normal" because normal is boring and I'm not normal and I don't do normal things :)
    3) smart- Needs to be able to have a stimulating conversation with me. Politics, current events, life...doesn't matter but I still like convorsation
    4) non athletic-Don't mean to stereotype but I generally don't go for athletes. I don't care much for sports and I'd feel real bad if I weren't there to support something that means so much to him, so I just stay away from athletes usually.
    2c/3a, fine texture, normal porosity, medium-to-thick
    Co wash: Vo5 Extra Body
    Conditioners: Deva One Condition, GVP CB, Loreal Evercurl
    Stylers: Devacurl ArcAngel, KCCC, AG Recoil, Iso Bouncy Creme, Ecostyler Krystal, CCCCL, KCKT
    Low Poo: Devacurl NoPoo, GTTT
    Hair likes: plopping, diffusing, SMaster's, coconut and argan oil, honey, protein
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  • Deborah<3Deborah<3 Posts: 23Registered Users
    Oook! I've never dated but I'll try ....
    1)Smart
    2) He MUSTN'T be a playboy .-. I hate 'em
    3) Respectful (who likes a person who plays with feelings?)
    4) Clean. (you know, the black lines under nails...oh, yuck!)
    5)Beautiful (to me, of course. If I don't like what he's like, there's no sense in dating him)
    6) Romantic.
    I think I haven't forgotten anything xDDD
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  • Curlygirl814Curlygirl814 Posts: 14Registered Users
    This sounds fun!!!
    My must haves:
    Dedicated Christian
    Respects me
    Doesn't try to control me
    Will wait for me
    Clean
    Doesn't talk dirty
    Things that would also be great:
    Tall!
    Really cute (or handsome)
    Dresses nice

    Ok there are others but these are a few. :)
  • Curlygirl814Curlygirl814 Posts: 14Registered Users
    One more thing! He must absolutely never ever NEVER cheat on me or tear me down!
  • crazycurlychickcrazycurlychick Posts: 344Registered Users
    So I'm updating/ reposting mine lol it's been awhile so things have changed

    1 He must have Style (skinny jeans or nice dark wash jeans to match my style and ears pierced are a plus)
    2 athletic without being a jerk
    3 sense of humor. He can't be a straight faced no personality guy
    4 he must be willing to just chill in my room watching movies without wanting to go "there"
    5 and now for the shallow things.... Cocoa colored hair, brown eyes, tall and not to thin but not fat
    :angel9:rockin the curls God gave me.

    Routine!
    Shampoo n/a
    Conditioner Vo5 Moisture Milks
    Leave in Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie
    Shower, comb, apply leave in and mousse in wet hair then scrunch out the water and sometimes.
    Second day, Wake up mist with water and smooth Shea Moisture Curl enhancing smoothie over hair :wav: