So Frustratedly Frazzled! Ugh!! Please help!

I have no idea how to deal with my NG, and I'm only 1.5 months post relaxer. I can't cornrow or plait; I can only create inept, loose braids. My staple hairstyle is the high bun, but I can't rely on that forever. I know how to care for my relaxed hair because I've had a lifetime of experience, but I have no idea how to handle and care for my natural texture. It changes depending on what region of my head I'm focusing on! I want to be natural so badly, but I'm scared I won't know how to care for my hair. How am I supposed to moisturize it and when, for example? This all seems so daunting. I wrestled with my hair painfully last night in attempt to detangle it. It was a nightmare. What do I use to keep my natural roots soft and moisturized? TIA.
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*Last Relaxer: April 15, 2012*