People who do everything wrong and still get awesome curls!!

So i know 3 people who do everything "wrong" with their curls and they have the most awesome heads of hair!!! (by wrong i mean anything less than gentle treatment)

First my brother just shampoos his hair (no conditioner), combs it into a parting and lets it air dry (which i guess is good) but he gets the most awesome massive riglets i've ever seen, seriously there're like 3 inches fat and frizz free and he does nothing!!! Hes since had it all cut off though so that has eased my envy!

This girl i used to know at work would bleach the hell out of her curls and blow dry and she had the kind of hair that makes people just stop and gawp.. it was ringlety right the way down to her bum :shock:

Then i have another friend that has been straightening for years, her hair used to literally break off half way down her hair. Anyway, her straighteners broke so she just decided to leave it to air dry and oh my gosh... amazing ringlets right from the roots of her hair!!! Grrrrrr!!!!!!

This all gets me wondering if all this gentle treatment is worth it, its a little depressing as well as i'm putting all this effort in and they don't fuss and get amazing curls... Anyway, had to vent!!!!!
fine 3b curls and spirals - first goal BSL!!

HG's - Body Shop Honey shampoo & conditioner and Shea Moisture leave-in condish which gives me lovely frizz-free bouncy curls. My PJ is calling me to experiment with gels again... argh!