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have you ever been in love?

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  • three rivers curlythree rivers curly Posts: 994Registered Users
    Yep. Both before my husband and with my husband. I highly recommend it - love is good.
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  • RedCatWavesRedCatWaves Posts: 31,258Registered Users
    Yes, several times. Fortunately, one of those great loves is with the man I'm married to.
  • quickcurlquickcurl Posts: 1,310Registered Users
    Yup. Once before the man I'm with now, although that is nothing compared to what I feel for the man I'm with now. The real thing is amazing! :D
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  • YolyCYolyC Posts: 3,758Registered Users
    Yep! Unfortunately things didn't work out. Hopefully I will find love again with someone who knows how to appreciate me and realizes what a wonderful person I am. :lol:
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  • internetchickinternetchick Posts: 6,191Registered Users
    Yeppers :D
  • SpringcurlSpringcurl Posts: 8,002Registered Users
    Once. It ended very badly. He really truly acted like he loved me, too... he was very tender and sweet to me. Then one day he just stopped coming by. I waited a month and when I finally called him and asked him what was going on he told me, "I don't have anything to give you."

    That was the first and last time I've ever been in love.
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  • bushyheadbushyhead Posts: 1,676Registered Users
    Just once - I married my first love. :D
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  • velvet pawsvelvet paws Posts: 1,250Registered Users
    I've been lucky enough to fall in love a few times -- but the relationship I have with my fiance is by far the most healthy, loving and caring one that I've ever been in. :)
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  • M2LRM2LR Posts: 8,630Registered Users
    Shouldn't you be asking your underage MySpace girlfriends this question?

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  • gekko422gekko422 Posts: 4,869Registered Users
    Maybe he is doing research! :lol:
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  • RheannaRheanna Posts: 2,614Registered Users
    Yes.

    WHy would you need popcorn for this?
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  • gekko422gekko422 Posts: 4,869Registered Users
    I am still in love, I just can't afford what it is I love.

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    Democracy is not a spectator sport.

    You know why pandas are endangered? Cause pandas ain't got no game.

    Jesus loves you, but I'm his favorite.
  • gekko422gekko422 Posts: 4,869Registered Users
    Stupid dp.
    Democracy is not a spectator sport.

    You know why pandas are endangered? Cause pandas ain't got no game.

    Jesus loves you, but I'm his favorite.
  • BefrizzledBefrizzled Posts: 3,854Registered Users
    Yes, once, and I'm happily still in a relationship with him. :D
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  • love yourself firstlove yourself first Posts: 5,398Registered Users
    gekko422 wrote:
    I am still in love, I just can't afford what it is I love.

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    I've been in romantic love a few times. Fascinating concept and experience.
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  • KeeweeKeewee Posts: 1,376Registered Users
    apparently not
  • violetsviolets Posts: 1,689Registered Users
    I don't think I've ever been truly in love with a person that loves me back.

    I've had people that if fantazised with romatically but not true love in the end.
  • RheannaRheanna Posts: 2,614Registered Users
    The last two posts made me think of something... do you think that it isn't 'true love' if it doesn't last forever? Or that it isn't true love if they don't feel the same way back, or if they treat you badly? I think there are lots of different degrees of love. Lots of people love someone as much as they can, then fall for someone else later and love them more, thus thinking they obviously didn't "really" love that first person, but I disagree. I have been in love with people before my husband (sometimes they were unaware :)) and although I love my husband more, I know that I still did love those people... it was just different. There were people I was infatuated with or had a crush on, too, but that was different than what I'm talking about.

    And even in a relationship, I think sometimes you'll love someone more than they love you (or vice versa) and I think that love can be true, but still not last. Thoughts? :)

    JMHO.
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  • ~Ghost Poster~~Ghost Poster~ Posts: 2,264Registered Users
    Rheanna83 wrote:
    Yes.

    WHy would you need popcorn for this?

    Because, as I've pointed out before, he uses this board and its members for his own twisted personal entertainment purposes.
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  • three rivers curlythree rivers curly Posts: 994Registered Users
    violets wrote:
    I don't think I've ever been truly in love with a person that loves me back.

    Stalker, huh? :wink:
    Better everyone think your a fool, than to open your mouth and prove them right.

    Perception is not reality.

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  • g-stringrannyg-stringranny Posts: 2,701Registered Users
    gekko422 wrote:
    I am still in love, I just can't afford what it is I love.

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    I think I just fell in love. :P I would look so good in that!
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  • violetsviolets Posts: 1,689Registered Users
    violets wrote:
    I don't think I've ever been truly in love with a person that loves me back.

    Stalker, huh? :wink:


    Not stalker at all, more like the person doesn't know ( doesn't have I clue at all) that I love them.

    I have had 2 major crushes in my life with guys that had no idea whatsoever that I would have married them in a second. :)
  • violetsviolets Posts: 1,689Registered Users
    Rheanna83 wrote:
    The last two posts made me think of something... do you think that it isn't 'true love' if it doesn't last forever? Or that it isn't true love if they don't feel the same way back, or if they treat you badly? I think there are lots of different degrees of love. Lots of people love someone as much as they can, then fall for someone else later and love them more, thus thinking they obviously didn't "really" love that first person, but I disagree. I have been in love with people before my husband (sometimes they were unaware :)) and although I love my husband more, I know that I still did love those people... it was just different. There were people I was infatuated with or had a crush on, too, but that was different than what I'm talking about.

    And even in a relationship, I think sometimes you'll love someone more than they love you (or vice versa) and I think that love can be true, but still not last. Thoughts? :)

    JMHO.

    Yeah, I don't think it can grow into true love if you are not corresponded. You can feel something that looks like love but it can never grow into any kind of deep permanent attachment. Its more like infatuation.
  • NYCurlyGirlyNYCurlyGirly Posts: 1,012Registered Users
    I know I am right now, but don't know if he feels the same way :oops:
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  • quickcurlquickcurl Posts: 1,310Registered Users
    I am insanely in love with a man right now, I know that he feels exactly the same way (which just amazes me some times), just don't know if things are going to work out (very complicated story). It sucks knowing that there's a chance I may not be able to spend the rest of my life with the love of my life. :cry:
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  • KeeweeKeewee Posts: 1,376Registered Users
    I am waiting very patiently to fall in love, I guess I thought once in my life that I was in love, but I think it takes two people to be in love... I can't wait to feel that true love I have waited a lifetime for it... When is it going to come???
  • KeeweeKeewee Posts: 1,376Registered Users
    violets wrote:
    I don't think I've ever been truly in love with a person that loves me back.

    Stalker, huh? :wink:

    me too
  • avataravatar Posts: 454Registered Users
    quickcurl wrote:
    I am insanely in love with a man right now, I know that he feels exactly the same way (which just amazes me some times), just don't know if things are going to work out (very complicated story). It sucks knowing that there's a chance I may not be able to spend the rest of my life with the love of my life. :cry:

    I'm in this same position. But I figure that if it's not him, then I will get to spend my life with someone equal to or better than him.
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  • Oregano  (formerly babywavy)Oregano (formerly babywavy) Posts: 5,297Registered Users
    My first "love" was in high school - and although it was "love" it obviously wasn't that adult - stick with you through thick and thin - sort of love.

    I engaged to someone I was with for 5 years who I truly though I was in love with. Looking back I feel like I was more dependent on him, and comfortable, but I was NOT in love.

    I fell in love with my husband the moment I recognized my feelings for him. We had known eachother for a long time, but always kept eachother at a distance. Once we allowed ourselves to be close as friends, I tried denying my feelings for him, but it was obvious to me that I was falling in love with him.

    I can't say that I was in love with anyone before my husband b/c THIS feeling of love in so uncomparable to any other, it has to be given a seperate title. It just can't be the same thing.
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  • violetsviolets Posts: 1,689Registered Users
    I know I am right now, but don't know if he feels the same way :oops:

    This is me at the moment. I least I think I am in love. I don't allow myself to "fall in love" very easily. I am very cautious and to me love is something that can only come with time.