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Do you make a Christmas list?

irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users Curl Neophyte
Do you tell people what you want for Christmas (close relatives, significant others, etc) or wait for whatever they get you?

Boyfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas (as he did last year, as he did for my birthday) and I always answer 'I dunno. Nothing really'.

I never really WANT anything. Gift wise. I want things for my house, furniture, etc, stuff I NEED that I would by myself, but I never come up with what I'd like someone to give me. I just expect ill end up with something nice, maybe something unnecessary or unexpected, but I'll appreciate it. I really don't want stuff. Buy stuff for my kids if you want. If I want something I'll buy it myself.

I use things to death so it's wasteful for me to get a new thing if I have an acceptable old one - microwave, stand mixer, utensils - things like comforters, curtains, decorations, I'D like to pick out.

All I could come up with was clothes or makeup, which of course I'd have to buy myself too.

All of this means that although I'm fairly simple, I'm extremely difficult.

A Mediterranean cruise would be a nice gift ;)

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  • xcptnlxcptnl Posts: 15,678Registered Users
    B always asks for a list from me. The first Christmas we were together i made up this list assuming he would pick and choose items from it. I got everything i put on it. WTF! I know now to not list everything i might want on it!! For his family we draw names and I ask for a list from whomever I drew. We have a $100 max and I want to get them something they want.

    My daughter always sends me a list.

    I like getting what people really want and it's not just me guessing what they want. So I like lists.


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  • MichelleBFTMichelleBFT Posts: 4,812Registered Users
    I always do, and most of my family appreciates it and sticks to it. I love books, movies and music as gifts, and people always want to know what I'm interested in this time of year. I keep my Amazon wishlist up to date.

    Of course there are some (MIL) who want to get me other stuff-- knick knacks and the like-- and while I appreciate the thought she puts into those things, I'm not a knick knack person so it mostly goes to waste. She's not weird about it, though, never asks where something she gave me is or anything like that.

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  • wavyblondewavyblonde Posts: 1,637Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    I don't usually make actual lists, but I do usually have a couple of things in mind that I'd like, and my family is good about getting me things I've requested. That's how my family works--we just tell each other. I have a couple of friends who always insist on surprising me because *they* like surprises, and I appreciate the thought, but I never end up using things I didn't ask for, most of the time, unless it's something that's really "me," like makeup or music-related items.
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  • RedCatWavesRedCatWaves Posts: 31,258Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    I have my kids each make me a list of what they want, but I do not provide a list to anyone for what I want. I buy myself stuff all year long. I really don't want gifts anymore. I'd much rather someone help me clean than buy me a candle.
  • curlylauracurlylaura Posts: 8,352Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    My mum and dad keep asking me what I'd like for Christmas but I honestly don't know.

    I feel bad making a list even though they've asked me too before.
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  • cymprenicympreni Posts: 9,609Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    The kids make a list that we give to our families.

    If anyone asks me, I usually just tell them supplies for whatever my current hobby is or I might mention a specific book or movie I want but haven't gotten around to buying myself.
  • PartyHairPartyHair Posts: 7,713Registered Users
    I refer people to my Etsy page and to my Amazon list.
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  • xcptnlxcptnl Posts: 15,678Registered Users
    PartyHair wrote: »
    I refer people to my Etsy page and to my Amazon list.

    My daughter uses amazon too.


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  • WileE-DeadWileE-Dead Banned Posts: 24,963Banned Users
    I'm w/ you, iroc, I think that vaca sounds fabu!
    I'm all for going back to Jamaica mon :pirat:

    I sent hubby some ideas the other day.
    I like to get stuff as a surprise.
    It's boring to always buy myself stuff.
    I also love to give.
    I'd really rather give than receive :chef:
    I hope hubby loves some of the :cool: stuff I got him.
    It's tough tho b/c his bday is in Dec.... :goofy:
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  • rainshowerrainshower Posts: 4,420Registered Users
    oh, you mean make a list of things i want for me to give to others so they'll know exactly what to get me?

    no.

    i don't like telling people what to get me. i don't like people asking me what i want or what they can get me. telling people what i want renders the same flavor as gift registries (a pet peeve). and people asking me what i want makes me think they have exhausted themselves thinking of something to get me. so i'd honestly prefer they just send a greetings card and call it a day. hey, i wouldn't be upset with a gas gift card or grocery store gift card, as high as prices are today.

    i've always liked to be surprised. and even if someone is off the mark, i'd rather discover it on Christmas morning. it adds to the wonder and surprise of the festive part of the holiday.
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  • midgimidgi Posts: 2,409Registered Users
    If anyone asks what I want, I tell them. Otherwise they get me scented lotion and bubble bath, and I hate that crap. But I don't just volunteer my list to any and all my relatives like I did when I was a kid.

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  • OBBOBB Posts: 4,174Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    my nephews and nieces are mostly at the age where they'd rather have cash. so it makes it much easier.
  • SarcasmIsBeautySarcasmIsBeauty Posts: 5,640Registered Users
    This year was the first year I made a list, my bf made me. Every time someone asks me, I always draw a blank. My parents gave me money after a certain age, made it easier for everyone.
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  • rainshowerrainshower Posts: 4,420Registered Users
    midgi wrote: »
    If anyone asks what I want, I tell them. Otherwise they get me scented lotion and bubble bath, and I hate that crap. But I don't just volunteer my list to any and all my relatives like I did when I was a kid.

    Sent from The Brick

    i can't even stand walking past the store fronts of the stores that sell the shower gel, body lotion, body oil trio. gotta hold my breath!
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  • LAwomanLAwoman Posts: 2,949Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    No. I haven't made an actual Christmas list since I was 12.
    rainshower wrote: »
    oh, you mean make a list of things i want for me to give to others so they'll know exactly what to get me?

    no.

    i don't like telling people what to get me. i don't like people asking me what i want or what they can get me. telling people what i want renders the same flavor as gift registries (a pet peeve). and people asking me what i want makes me think they have exhausted themselves thinking of something to get me. so i'd honestly prefer they just send a greetings card and call it a day. hey, i wouldn't be upset with a gas gift card or grocery store gift card, as high as prices are today.

    i've always liked to be surprised. and even if someone is off the mark, i'd rather discover it on Christmas morning. it adds to the wonder and surprise of the festive part of the holiday.

    Pretty much all of this. Especially the bolded. Giving somebody a list of what to buy me just seems so... generic or something (to ME).
  • cmb4314cmb4314 Posts: 984Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    I am 28 years old and married, but both my parents and my in-laws request lists and still treat Christmas kind of like my husband and I are kids.

    Once there are grandkids, I foresee this changing, lol.

    It's also only been a year now that we've been out of grad school, so until this last year we made almost no money and actually needed some things come Christmastime.

    My birthday is in mid-December as well, so I REALLY get bugged for ideas from both sides.

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  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    rainshower wrote: »
    oh, you mean make a list of things i want for me to give to others so they'll know exactly what to get me?

    no.

    i don't like telling people what to get me. i don't like people asking me what i want or what they can get me. telling people what i want renders the same flavor as gift registries (a pet peeve). and people asking me what i want makes me think they have exhausted themselves thinking of something to get me. so i'd honestly prefer they just send a greetings card and call it a day. hey, i wouldn't be upset with a gas gift card or grocery store gift card, as high as prices are today.

    i've always liked to be surprised. and even if someone is off the mark, i'd rather discover it on Christmas morning. it adds to the wonder and surprise of the festive part of the holiday.

    This is how I feel EXACTLY.

    I was like, ya, I know its lame, but I suppose you could get me gift cards. He told me that was stupid and that he'll take me shopping, lol.

    He would buy me anything, so if I asked for jewelry, I'd get it. Problem is, I don't like most jewelry.

    Plus, I think Christmas gifts are like, you see something that reminds you of someone and you get it for them. It seems boring to just check things off a list.

    But I guess Im one of the few!



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  • cymprenicympreni Posts: 9,609Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    rainshower wrote: »
    midgi wrote: »
    If anyone asks what I want, I tell them. Otherwise they get me scented lotion and bubble bath, and I hate that crap. But I don't just volunteer my list to any and all my relatives like I did when I was a kid.

    Sent from The Brick

    i can't even stand walking past the store fronts of the stores that sell the shower gel, body lotion, body oil trio. gotta hold my breath!

    One year, I kid you not I ended up with 9 bottles of VS lotion. They were having a 3 for $20 sale. The fragrance in those were so strong I worried about it clashing with other stuff I was wearing.

    I've learned to hate all those spa/beauty gift baskets they sell at the holidays. If your that strapped for ideas, just buy a gift card!
  • OBBOBB Posts: 4,174Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    who here only checks their X-mas list only twice. more like twice times 10
  • MichelleBFTMichelleBFT Posts: 4,812Registered Users
    rainshower wrote: »
    midgi wrote: »
    If anyone asks what I want, I tell them. Otherwise they get me scented lotion and bubble bath, and I hate that crap. But I don't just volunteer my list to any and all my relatives like I did when I was a kid.

    Sent from The Brick

    i can't even stand walking past the store fronts of the stores that sell the shower gel, body lotion, body oil trio. gotta hold my breath!

    This, too.

    It's not like I go around announcing that I want stuff, but at this time of year my entire family is going to buy me something (and vice versa). I would rather give and receive gifts that will be wanted and enjoyed by the recipient, and a list makes that hella easier.

    My brother and his wife don't make lists, and I don't know their preferences well, so buying for them is extremely difficult. I know what shows they like, and the kind of movies they like, but I don't know what they already own. I have no idea what sizes they or their kids wear, what toys their kids like. I'm basically shopping for strangers. And dear dog the hell to pay if I get them nothing.

    So yeah. I like lists.

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  • xcptnlxcptnl Posts: 15,678Registered Users
    B still gets me stuff off the list. But there are usually books I want and he would have no idea which ones because he is not a reader and has no clue what I have already read. There are also some other things - kitchen wise that I would not buy for myself that I will put on my list. He then gets me clothes or jewelry on his own.

    It works for us. He is horrible about giving me a list though. That is why last year I got him his iPad. I was not even sure he wanted one but he loves it.


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  • cailincailin Posts: 899Registered Users Curl Connoisseur
    iroc wrote: »
    rainshower wrote: »
    oh, you mean make a list of things i want for me to give to others so they'll know exactly what to get me?

    no.

    i don't like telling people what to get me. i don't like people asking me what i want or what they can get me. telling people what i want renders the same flavor as gift registries (a pet peeve). and people asking me what i want makes me think they have exhausted themselves thinking of something to get me. so i'd honestly prefer they just send a greetings card and call it a day. hey, i wouldn't be upset with a gas gift card or grocery store gift card, as high as prices are today.

    i've always liked to be surprised. and even if someone is off the mark, i'd rather discover it on Christmas morning. it adds to the wonder and surprise of the festive part of the holiday.

    This is how I feel EXACTLY.

    I was like, ya, I know its lame, but I suppose you could get me gift cards. He told me that was stupid and that he'll take me shopping, lol.

    He would buy me anything, so if I asked for jewelry, I'd get it. Problem is, I don't like most jewelry.

    Plus, I think Christmas gifts are like, you see something that reminds you of someone and you get it for them. It seems boring to just check things off a list.

    But I guess Im one of the few!



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    This. I've been known to give "christmas" gifts either before or after Christmas, because that's when I found the perfect gift for someone.
  • irociroc Posts: 7,890Registered Users Curl Neophyte
    cailin wrote: »
    iroc wrote: »
    rainshower wrote: »
    oh, you mean make a list of things i want for me to give to others so they'll know exactly what to get me?

    no.

    i don't like telling people what to get me. i don't like people asking me what i want or what they can get me. telling people what i want renders the same flavor as gift registries (a pet peeve). and people asking me what i want makes me think they have exhausted themselves thinking of something to get me. so i'd honestly prefer they just send a greetings card and call it a day. hey, i wouldn't be upset with a gas gift card or grocery store gift card, as high as prices are today.

    i've always liked to be surprised. and even if someone is off the mark, i'd rather discover it on Christmas morning. it adds to the wonder and surprise of the festive part of the holiday.

    This is how I feel EXACTLY.

    I was like, ya, I know its lame, but I suppose you could get me gift cards. He told me that was stupid and that he'll take me shopping, lol.

    He would buy me anything, so if I asked for jewelry, I'd get it. Problem is, I don't like most jewelry.

    Plus, I think Christmas gifts are like, you see something that reminds you of someone and you get it for them. It seems boring to just check things off a list.

    But I guess Im one of the few!



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    This. I've been known to give "christmas" gifts either before or after Christmas, because that's when I found the perfect gift for someone.

    If its someone I'm close to, I'll tend to buy and give something as I see it if I see something that's really 'them'.


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