my hair just wont be soft its not exactly greasy, just kind of.. gross and heavy. i started cowashing (with tresemee. before i used yes to carrots shampoo) to try and fix it but it feels exactly the same, although its looking a little better. i rinse really well so i dont think that's the problem. ive tried evoo and mayo rinses. i only use a cream-gel, and not on the roots, where it's feeling bad. help??