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Anyone finding transitioning getting easier?

hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
I'm about 8 weeks post relaxer now. I've been experimenting with new styles without heat like braid outs. I think transitioning is getting easier for me as long as I'm patient and I take care of both textures of hair.
Products I'm currently :love10::
  • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
  • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
  • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
  • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:

Comments

  • al3x&riaal3x&ria Posts: 6Registered Users
    I'm fully natural now, just cut off the rest of the relaxed ends about 2 weeks ago, but I definitely noticed that the longer my natural hair got, the easier it was to work with. I noticed the biggest improvement after I reached 6 months post. I think it has to do with being able to stick to a more stable routine. In the begining when my natural hair was starting to grow in, I had to change up my detangling routine and products often; what worked for an inch of new growth wouldn't work or do the same thing for 2 inches. But once I got to about 3 inches, I was able to be more consistent. The last few months of my transition weren't hard at all.
  • lizpiperlizpiper Posts: 20Registered Users
    I'm not far enough along in it and I'm ready to go back! I'm a 3C with hair I've been able to grow out by straightening it. Now I'm using this method and am SO FRUSTRATED! I used to wash my hair once a week, now I have to go through the routine every two days because it just gets thicker and wider and frizzier by the minute.
    Also, when I have it wet and full of conditioner I try to finger comb through the curls and I spend 30 minutes just working out knots and snarls and what Mom used to call rats' nests. I was prepared for a lot of hair fallout during it, but i think I've lost more than my husband ever had! AAARGH!
    Anyone else finding that leaving curly hair curly takes more time, effort, and patience than just straightening it and calling it a week?
    Total Newbie!
    Hair: Dry, coarse, porous, 3b/c, dense, and strong-willed

    Found a Ouidad salon!
    Carve/Slice really lightened up my curls
    Hair's really dry - need regular DT
    Conditioner got the tangles out!

    Results:
    Improving
  • Butterfly_CurlzButterfly_Curlz Posts: 955Registered Users
    al3x&ria wrote: »
    I'm fully natural now, just cut off the rest of the relaxed ends about 2 weeks ago, but I definitely noticed that the longer my natural hair got, the easier it was to work with. I noticed the biggest improvement after I reached 6 months post. I think it has to do with being able to stick to a more stable routine. In the begining when my natural hair was starting to grow in, I had to change up my detangling routine and products often; what worked for an inch of new growth wouldn't work or do the same thing for 2 inches. But once I got to about 3 inches, I was able to be more consistent. The last few months of my transition weren't hard at all.

    ITA and adamantly believe that having a simple & consistent routine has gotten me as far as I am now. Knock on wood that things keep going the way they have been but for me yes, it has gotten easier.

    I only do my hair once a week, wash/co-wash, condish, deep treat, style & leave it alone until I repeat the next week. That's the way things have been for close to a yr now. I have no complaints at all & actually if things keep goin so well I plan on continuing this for another yr or two. I'm about 2inches from apl which I'm hoping to be at by my birthday in September & then getting my hair to bsl. Once I reach that I will just maintain my hair at that length until I trim off the remainder of my relaxed ends.
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Hair Type: A head full of THICK, normal porosity curls/coils that I am TOTALLY in LUV with!
    (Transitioned for 16 & 1/2 months)


    Loving:love10:: MC LI Condish, Raw shea butter, Coconut & Grapeseed Oil, SM raw shea butter shampoo,HEHH Conditioner, Braggs ACV & Egg, Mayo & EVOO PT's



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  • Butterfly_CurlzButterfly_Curlz Posts: 955Registered Users
    lizpiper wrote: »
    I'm not far enough along in it and I'm ready to go back! I'm a 3C with hair I've been able to grow out by straightening it. Now I'm using this method and am SO FRUSTRATED! I used to wash my hair once a week, now I have to go through the routine every two days because it just gets thicker and wider and frizzier by the minute.
    Also, when I have it wet and full of conditioner I try to finger comb through the curls and I spend 30 minutes just working out knots and snarls and what Mom used to call rats' nests. I was prepared for a lot of hair fallout during it, but i think I've lost more than my husband ever had! AAARGH!
    Anyone else finding that leaving curly hair curly takes more time, effort, and patience than just straightening it and calling it a week?

    I really would not suggest transitioning this way. Your hair is already in a fragile state as it is especially at the line of demarcation & all your doing by not only straightening it at all but also doing it so much is increasing your chances for breakage. So I am not surprised at all when you say you are losing a good amount of hair.

    If you personally care for straighter styles then I would suggest roller setting (using curlformers,etc) your hair & wrapping it during the week until you wash again. There is alot of info out there (internet, youtube,etc) that can give you plenty of advice about what styles you can do until your natural hair grows out.

    The best advice I heard was that you want to baby your new growth because one day that will become your ends, & since your on a natural journey you do not want to start out destroying the new hair your growing in before it really has a chance to florish.

    Therefore I would re-evaluate some of your transistioning methods before you throw in the towel to see if making some simple adjustments does not make a world of difference in your hair.
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Hair Type: A head full of THICK, normal porosity curls/coils that I am TOTALLY in LUV with!
    (Transitioned for 16 & 1/2 months)


    Loving:love10:: MC LI Condish, Raw shea butter, Coconut & Grapeseed Oil, SM raw shea butter shampoo,HEHH Conditioner, Braggs ACV & Egg, Mayo & EVOO PT's



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  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    Thanks for the feedback everyone! I find braid/twist-outs have been working great for me in 80+ weather. I won't be straigtening my transitioning hair until the fall.
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • lizpiperlizpiper Posts: 20Registered Users
    Thanks hippiedoll! I'm taking a breath and relaxing. Now, you say you don't recommend transitioning this way. All I've done so far is try to find non-sulfate, no 'cone products, and wash with conditioner instead of shampoo. Do you think I'm just doing it too often? I'm not sure what I'll do when my hair loses all curl definition and just frizzes out all over. that happens within 2 days. Is it a conditioning issue? I really want to just let my hair be curly. It's very, very thick, and very frizzy-curly. One person who worked with it said "it dries angry".
    Total Newbie!
    Hair: Dry, coarse, porous, 3b/c, dense, and strong-willed

    Found a Ouidad salon!
    Carve/Slice really lightened up my curls
    Hair's really dry - need regular DT
    Conditioner got the tangles out!

    Results:
    Improving
  • Butterfly_CurlzButterfly_Curlz Posts: 955Registered Users
    lizpiper wrote: »
    Thanks hippiedoll! I'm taking a breath and relaxing. Now, you say you don't recommend transitioning this way. All I've done so far is try to find non-sulfate, no 'cone products, and wash with conditioner instead of shampoo. Do you think I'm just doing it too often? I'm not sure what I'll do when my hair loses all curl definition and just frizzes out all over. that happens within 2 days. Is it a conditioning issue? I really want to just let my hair be curly. It's very, very thick, and very frizzy-curly. One person who worked with it said "it dries angry".

    When I was referring to 'doing it too much' I was talking about straightening your hair. As far as washing it too much..well that is more of a personal preference & what you feel comfortable with/what you have going on in your life (exercise regimen, indoor/outdoor work,etc).

    However if you are using sulfate shampoos & your washing your hair every three days then yes that is wayyy to much for curly hair because all you would be doing is stripping the moisture/oils from your hair, which would in turn lead to more breakage on top of all that straighteneing you said you were doing.

    Now you say you have been trying to 'find' these products...have you actually found any yet? I personally use Shea Moisture products for shampooing & Suave for co-washing (both available at Target). Even though I mentioned ones that I like, the success to a stress free transition is establishing a regular regimen with products that work for YOUR HAIR!

    This will take time (I am almost a yr into my HHJ & I have just settled into finding products that work really well for my hair). It's nothing to stress over, its just a part of the process that we all have to go through & as corny as it sounds the more you focus on the health of your hair that happier you and your hair will be.

    As far as styling goes I would suggest doing an internet search for different transitioning hair styles & experimenting w/those & if it really starts to get frustrating for you then put your hair away for a while (braids, weave, quick weave,etc) until you feel ready to tackle the issue again.

    Just be patient, do your research & love your hair. With consistent practice you will see a huge difference in the health & behavior of your hair. I can honestly tell you that my hair is 1000% healthier than what it was this time last year. Just stay with it!

    HTH
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Hair Type: A head full of THICK, normal porosity curls/coils that I am TOTALLY in LUV with!
    (Transitioned for 16 & 1/2 months)


    Loving:love10:: MC LI Condish, Raw shea butter, Coconut & Grapeseed Oil, SM raw shea butter shampoo,HEHH Conditioner, Braggs ACV & Egg, Mayo & EVOO PT's



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  • JaeLaSoulJaeLaSoul Posts: 2Registered Users
    I'm a year and almost 3 months into my transition. For me, its all about moisture and protective styling (braids, twists, etc...) I don't like to manipulate my hair too much, so I make sure to keep it done. I've only used heat once just to see how long my hair has gotten. For me, once I figured out how I wanted to execute my transition, it really has gotten easier.

    But, I can't say I don't often have the itch to BC. 9 more months and my relaxed ends will be long gone!

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  • lizpiperlizpiper Posts: 20Registered Users
    hippiegirl, thanks again! I was looking at the suave naturals coconut shampoo ingredients - isn't it full of sulfates?
    I haven't soaped up my hair in about 2 weeks, just co-wash, and have ordered but not tried the Giovanni no-sulfate shampoo. I have very dry skin/scalp, no dandruff but little oil. probably could get away with soaping up once a year! so what i need is moisture, moisture moisture! I'll try the Shea butter you like.
    One more question: when you give in to the silicones then want to take them back out, will a vinegar or baking soda soak remove them completely?
    Total Newbie!
    Hair: Dry, coarse, porous, 3b/c, dense, and strong-willed

    Found a Ouidad salon!
    Carve/Slice really lightened up my curls
    Hair's really dry - need regular DT
    Conditioner got the tangles out!

    Results:
    Improving
  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    I'm answer everyone's questions and replying to the feedback everyone left. I think anyone who is transitioning or taking breaks from chemical processing should take time to know their hair. I am at 10 weeks post now and I'm loving the versatility of transitioning. I find that using all natural styling products work best for me. I like to use no sulfate shampoos on days whens my hair isn't so dirty. I do use sulfate shampoos 3-4 times a month. I am still using conditioners and anti-frizz products with silicones. I think everyone should use products that work best for them and stick with them. Target has a great ethic hair care section. As for heat try to limit heat styling once a week or every 2-3 weeks. Roller sets are a great way to achieve straight styles. Light blow outs and flat ironing should be okay as well. Wrapping is a great way to keep hair straight. I mostly do braid/twist outs and buns on a daily basis I only heat style twice a month. I hope these helps answer everyone's questions.
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    You're welcome. I think transitioning has a Lot to do with just letting your hair do its own thing. Not putting so much stress and emphasis on going natural. The products you use can also make or break your hair.
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • BoyheadBoyhead Posts: 51Registered Users
    Im 8 Months into my transition and it's getting easier as my natural hair gets longer. When it was shorter, it would shrink and therefore get matted... but as it gets longer I'm able to stretch it as I put my hair into a bun. I am planning on a 24 month transition - or at least until I can make a decent sized bun with my natural hair.
    1st BC - rocked a TWA
    2nd BC - rocked a Caesar
    "I've made up my mind to remain steadfast in the realm of coils, curlicues, kinks, and waves...says this this WestIndianCoily

    Oh, and I don't believe in Curl Cream anything... :protest:
  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    Boyhead wrote: »
    Im 8 Months into my transition and it's getting easier as my natural hair gets longer. When it was shorter, it would shrink and therefore get matted... but as it gets longer I'm able to stretch it as I put my hair into a bun. I am planning on a 24 month transition - or at least until I can make a decent sized bun with my natural hair.

    I agree I'm transitioning until I get a decent amount of natural hair grown in. I probably won't BC until after December 2011
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • Ms.CrissMs.Criss Posts: 6Registered Users
    I am experiencing a hair emergency! I am 9 months post relaxer and im at a really weird stage. I can't figure my hair out. Part of the new growth is wavy, part curly, part kinky and matted. The total length of my new growth is about 4in curly (6 stretched out). The permed hair is about 5in long. It sucks up moisture like the sahara desert. Its one big curly, wavy, kinky, straight afro!!!! Im pregnant and im really considering taking some clippers and shaving it all off..........please help!!!!!!

    Sent from my DROIDX using CurlTalk App
  • Ms.CrissMs.Criss Posts: 6Registered Users
    I am experiencing a hair emergency! I am 9 months post relaxer and im at a really weird stage. I can't figure my hair out. Part of the new growth is wavy, part curly, part kinky and matted. The total length of my new growth is about 4in curly (6 stretched out). The permed hair is about 5in long. It sucks up moisture like the sahara desert. Its one big curly, wavy, kinky, straight afro!!!! Im pregnant and im really considering taking some clippers and shaving it all off..........please help!!!!!!

    Sent from my DROIDX using CurlTalk App
  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    Ms.Criss wrote: »
    I am experiencing a hair emergency! I am 9 months post relaxer and im at a really weird stage. I can't figure my hair out. Part of the new growth is wavy, part curly, part kinky and matted. The total length of my new growth is about 4in curly (6 stretched out). The permed hair is about 5in long. It sucks up moisture like the sahara desert. Its one big curly, wavy, kinky, straight afro!!!! Im pregnant and im really considering taking some clippers and shaving it all off..........please help!!!!!!

    Sent from my DROIDX using CurlTalk App

    Try getting a hair cut/trim or Big Chop. Also try switching up your hair products. I recommend Shea Moisture or Karen's Body Beautiful products. Try a moisturizing deep conditioner and leave in your hair for an hour to soften it up
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • FabledBeautyFabledBeauty Posts: 145Registered Users
    lizpiper wrote: »
    Thanks hippiedoll! I'm taking a breath and relaxing. Now, you say you don't recommend transitioning this way. All I've done so far is try to find non-sulfate, no 'cone products, and wash with conditioner instead of shampoo. Do you think I'm just doing it too often? I'm not sure what I'll do when my hair loses all curl definition and just frizzes out all over. that happens within 2 days. Is it a conditioning issue? I really want to just let my hair be curly. It's very, very thick, and very frizzy-curly. One person who worked with it said "it dries angry".

    Wow I can really relate to that... Im still pretty new into my journey and my hair dries angry as well.. you cracked me up with that:toothy10:
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
    Getting there slowly but surely!

    Natural Since the Beginning of January 2011!:headbang:
    Current: Full Collar Bone
    Texture: 3B/C & 4A
    Goal: APL by New Years 2013 :afro:

    See my Natural Journey on Fotki: www.fotki.com/fabledbeauty

    Current Favs<3 Taaliah Waajid Curly Curl Cream, Vegetable Glycerin and Pure Argan Oil!!!
  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    lizpiper wrote: »
    Thanks hippiedoll! I'm taking a breath and relaxing. Now, you say you don't recommend transitioning this way. All I've done so far is try to find non-sulfate, no 'cone products, and wash with conditioner instead of shampoo. Do you think I'm just doing it too often? I'm not sure what I'll do when my hair loses all curl definition and just frizzes out all over. that happens within 2 days. Is it a conditioning issue? I really want to just let my hair be curly. It's very, very thick, and very frizzy-curly. One person who worked with it said "it dries angry".

    Wow I can really relate to that... Im still pretty new into my journey and my hair dries angry as well.. you cracked me up with that:toothy10:

    Before I convinced myself to turn away from relaxers, I had trouble finding products that worked best for my hair. Everything made my hair dry , until I switched to all natural hair care products. I'm more conscience of ingredients now.
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • AmazinnaturalAmazinnatural Posts: 755Registered Users
    Ms.Criss wrote: »
    I am experiencing a hair emergency! I am 9 months post relaxer and im at a really weird stage. I can't figure my hair out. Part of the new growth is wavy, part curly, part kinky and matted. The total length of my new growth is about 4in curly (6 stretched out). The permed hair is about 5in long. It sucks up moisture like the sahara desert. Its one big curly, wavy, kinky, straight afro!!!! Im pregnant and im really considering taking some clippers and shaving it all off..........please help!!!!!!

    Sent from my DROIDX using CurlTalk App

    My hair did the same thing when I first began transitioning and that's been almost 2 yrs ago. Your hair is reverting back to its natural state therefore your curl pattern may be different in different parts of your head. Also because you hair has been chemically altered in the past some areas will be wavy while other parts will be kinky. Like with my hair it ins current state the sides and back of my hair have a very curly curl pattern while the crown of my hair have a more kinky-curly kind of curl pattern. I've learned to accept the fact the my hair will not all be one texture. But if the differences in your curl pattern is a huge dillema try twistouts or braidouts so that your hair will not look so drastically different!



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    Still loving my curls and kinks!
    Products I love:
    Ion Dandruff/Seborrheic Dermatitis Tar Shampoo
    Suave Shea Butter Conditioner
    Biolage Scalp Therapy Shampoo
    Biolage Fortify Therapy Shampoo
    Trader Joe's Tea Tree Tingle Conditioner
    Beautiful Textures Rapid Repair Deep Conditioner
    Shea butter, olive oil, coconut oil, apricot oil, peppermint oil, tea tree oil, and eucalyptus oil
  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    Ms.Criss wrote: »
    I am experiencing a hair emergency! I am 9 months post relaxer and im at a really weird stage. I can't figure my hair out. Part of the new growth is wavy, part curly, part kinky and matted. The total length of my new growth is about 4in curly (6 stretched out). The permed hair is about 5in long. It sucks up moisture like the sahara desert. Its one big curly, wavy, kinky, straight afro!!!! Im pregnant and im really considering taking some clippers and shaving it all off..........please help!!!!!!

    Sent from my DROIDX using CurlTalk App

    My hair did the same thing when I first began transitioning and that's been almost 2 yrs ago. Your hair is reverting back to its natural state therefore your curl pattern may be different in different parts of your head. Also because you hair has been chemically altered in the past some areas will be wavy while other parts will be kinky. Like with my hair it ins current state the sides and back of my hair have a very curly curl pattern while the crown of my hair have a more kinky-curly kind of curl pattern. I've learned to accept the fact the my hair will not all be one texture. But if the differences in your curl pattern is a huge dillema try twistouts or braidouts so that your hair will not look so drastically different!

    I agree. I don't think I will be able to learn my true hair texture due to damaged over processed hair I have in the middle and back of my hair. I have to make the best of the crazy hair textures for right now until I end the transitioning process. I'm planning on ending my transition in December of 2011. I will be constantly trimming my ends and cutting off relaxed ends once I see a curl pattern forming at the roots that's in 2-3 inches in length.
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • AmazinnaturalAmazinnatural Posts: 755Registered Users
    @hippiedoll
    Good luck with the rest of your transitioning!!! You will love your hair once it completely natural!!! I like 95% there and I been loving my curls for a minute now. I glad that you are trimming your relaxed ends, that definitely helps because when you BC you eont have to get too much chopped off. Just continue to love your hair and take very good care of it!!!



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    Still loving my curls and kinks!
    Products I love:
    Ion Dandruff/Seborrheic Dermatitis Tar Shampoo
    Suave Shea Butter Conditioner
    Biolage Scalp Therapy Shampoo
    Biolage Fortify Therapy Shampoo
    Trader Joe's Tea Tree Tingle Conditioner
    Beautiful Textures Rapid Repair Deep Conditioner
    Shea butter, olive oil, coconut oil, apricot oil, peppermint oil, tea tree oil, and eucalyptus oil
  • hippiedollhippiedoll Posts: 398Registered Users
    @hippiedoll
    Good luck with the rest of your transitioning!!! You will love your hair once it completely natural!!! I like 95% there and I been loving my curls for a minute now. I glad that you are trimming your relaxed ends, that definitely helps because when you BC you eont have to get too much chopped off. Just continue to love your hair and take very good care of it!!!

    Thanks! I'm learning new things daily about natural hair so when I am fully natural I'm able to take care of my hair with ease. Right now I'm having fun with braid outs and on my difficult hair days I throw it in a bun. I'm count down the weeks. Next week I'll be 11 weeks post. My goal is to BC by Dec or Jan 2012.
    Products I'm currently :love10::
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia (Vanilla Latte scent)
    • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
    • Certified Organic Coconut Oil
    • Karen's Body Beautiful Heavenly Jojoba Oil
    Staple Deep Conditioners: Giovanni Direct Leave-in and Karen's Body Beautiful Luscious Locks Hair Mask :love5:
    Recent newbie to the Curly Girl Method
    6 months post relaxer. I will be 7 months post September 17 !! :occasion9:
  • naturalnewbnaturalnewb Posts: 193Registered Users
    Ms.Criss wrote: »
    I am experiencing a hair emergency! I am 9 months post relaxer and im at a really weird stage. I can't figure my hair out. Part of the new growth is wavy, part curly, part kinky and matted. The total length of my new growth is about 4in curly (6 stretched out). The permed hair is about 5in long. It sucks up moisture like the sahara desert. Its one big curly, wavy, kinky, straight afro!!!! Im pregnant and im really considering taking some clippers and shaving it all off..........please help!!!!!!

    Sent from my DROIDX using CurlTalk App


    Lol I feel your pain!! I just BCed in April and prior to actually chopping my hair off, I was kind of freaking out about the various curl/wave patterns. As it turns out, *most* of the areas that appeared wavy just have a looser curl pattern than the rest of my 4a head. However, there is a bit near the crown of my head that is just a really loose wave.

    So, do I look like a wavy/curly/straight afro-mess when I do a wash and go? No. It all seems to blend pretty well.

    That said, I find it far easier to do twist-outs and pony puffs for the time being. If you haven't already given a twist-out a try, you might want to: it gives your hair a uniform curl pattern and the style is relatively easy to maintain.

    Hope that helps :)