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SweetZcurlZSweetZcurlZ Posts: 20Registered Users
I am currently on my Journey to natural hair. I got my first relaxer, from a hair school:sad1: When I was 12. I am currently transitioning (13mos). Through hair reasearch (youtube,curlynikki,naturallycurlly etc) I've noticed that individuals who had long hair relaxed were able to grow long hair natural. Is there anyone who never achieved long hair (SL & below) relaxed but is now acheiving long hair natural?!?!? I am just curious to know that theres hope! I am currently doing everything possible to insure length retention(protective styling, low manipulation, 2-3x DC a week, scalp massages, and patience)I am just curious to hear other ppls opinion on the matter. I never had long hair before& I dont want to feel like it is something I "can't" do, I know hair grows!!! I'm just curious! Thanks!:iroc::love1:
Poo:Komaza Califia
DC: Honey, Coconut oil, and Condish
Leave in:Komaza Califa
Sealant: Komaza Moku butter
Condish:Trader's Joe Tree Tingle, YTC
Protective stlyes:Flat twist out, Buns, Braid Out Updos
Treatments: Protein, Henna
Current length: SL
Hair goal: Healthy full Hair but Length would nice
Transitioning Since: Dec 25 2009
BC?!?!?!?!? I dunno Maybe never
Fotki: /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fpublic.fotki.com%2FMonnyD%2F" class="Popup

Comments

  • SystemSystem Posts: 39,059 Administrator
    I kept my hair relaxed or used a flatiron and it would always get close to shoulder and break off. I'm now natural (except for henna coloring) and it's between BSL and waist while curling and waist pull straight.
  • aislinaislin Posts: 864Registered Users
    I grew my relaxed hair (first relaxed Oct '09) out to about collar bone length and then in June or July of 2010 I chopped a bunch of it off in an angled bob, and had only a little bit still relaxed on the very front edges. I could have kept growing because I did just what you're doing now and my relaxed hair was so healthy the stylists I went to for trims were surprised because I had barely any split ends. But, I decided I wanted to jump on the curly hair band wagon again so I chopped most of it off. I've had my fun with short hair, now I've decided to grow it out again even though it's natural, so again I'm doing a lot of what you're doing just to keep it healthy.

    I know there are some ladies on Long Hair Community forums that have grown theirs out MUCH longer than that when they've transitioned. The general consensus seems to be that it's worth the patience and work involved :-).
    Wurly, fine, thin, moderately to heavily porous. Mod CG.

  • SweetZcurlZSweetZcurlZ Posts: 20Registered Users
    Thanks so much ladies, I feel recfocused now! Thanks :alien:
    Poo:Komaza Califia
    DC: Honey, Coconut oil, and Condish
    Leave in:Komaza Califa
    Sealant: Komaza Moku butter
    Condish:Trader's Joe Tree Tingle, YTC
    Protective stlyes:Flat twist out, Buns, Braid Out Updos
    Treatments: Protein, Henna
    Current length: SL
    Hair goal: Healthy full Hair but Length would nice
    Transitioning Since: Dec 25 2009
    BC?!?!?!?!? I dunno Maybe never
    Fotki: /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fpublic.fotki.com%2FMonnyD%2F" class="Popup
  • MyHairIsMyHobbyMyHairIsMyHobby Posts: 25Registered Users
    I know you already got the responses you were looking for but I just wanted to tell you that there is a thread about this! I had the same exact question because I too was on sites like Curly Nikki and Moptop Maven. I think where the have a leg up is that they have been natural all of their lives and we are just starting out. So yes, it may seem intimidating. Trust me, your hair will grow long provided that you listen to it and don't fight nature!
    Last relaxer:
    April 1, 2010
    Shampoos:
    Elasta QP Creme Conditioning Shampoo
    Aubrey Organics HoneySuckle Rose Moisturizing Shampoo
    Conditioners:
    Trader Joe's Nourish Spa
    Alter Ego
    Really Loving My new Ayurvedic Regimen
    Currently Loving:
    Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Creme and Spritz!
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  • hkh0609hkh0609 Posts: 41Registered Users
    I ALWAYS HAD LONG HAIR. MOSTLY SHOULDER LENGTH BUT I WANT LONGER AND HAVE HAD LONGER WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH MY GIRLS BUT AFTER THEIR BIRTHS I HAD ALOT OF BALD EDGES AND SHEDDING AND THAT WAS WITH PERMS WITH BOTH CHILDREN. SO NOW IS BEEN 9 MONTHS SINCE MY LAST PERM AND I WANT TO GROW MY HAIR PAST SHOULDER LENGTH. MY AVATAR PIC IS MY HAIR ABOUT 4 MONTHS IN I THINK, BUT ITCHING TO BC TOO.

    Sent from my HTC Glacier using CurlTalk App
    Mz Dija
  • SweetZcurlZSweetZcurlZ Posts: 20Registered Users
    Thanks so much for replying. I thought the logic would work but even sebum has a diffcult time traveling down curly strands lol

    Sent from my SCH-I500 using CurlTalk App
    Poo:Komaza Califia
    DC: Honey, Coconut oil, and Condish
    Leave in:Komaza Califa
    Sealant: Komaza Moku butter
    Condish:Trader's Joe Tree Tingle, YTC
    Protective stlyes:Flat twist out, Buns, Braid Out Updos
    Treatments: Protein, Henna
    Current length: SL
    Hair goal: Healthy full Hair but Length would nice
    Transitioning Since: Dec 25 2009
    BC?!?!?!?!? I dunno Maybe never
    Fotki: /home/leaving?target=http%3A%2F%2Fpublic.fotki.com%2FMonnyD%2F" class="Popup
  • twirlerbby94twirlerbby94 Posts: 7Registered Users
    This caught my attention because I went through it myself. My hair was always pretty long but when i relaxed, my hair was never healthy. I got it cut a good 6 straight inches to get the dead stuff off and realized that I was messing up my hair and decided to get it healthy. When my hair was relaxed it was probably about bra length. Now that I've been natural for a few years it's BWL when it's completely dry and when pulled straight it almost comes down to my pants :D Just hang in there and I'm sure you can get the length you want

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