Looking for a hair twin

in Hair Type 2
i think that I am 2b, medium to high density with normal porosity. I'd really like to find a hair twin, to see what they use and try it out on myself. Basically, i'd like my hair to be less poofy and with a more defined wave. If you are my twin I'd love a pic of your hair before and after, but if not post none the less.
(This is air dried, nothing done to it)
http://i557.photobucket.com/albums/ss16/photolady123/myhair.jpg?t=1245189666
(This is air dried, nothing done to it)
http://i557.photobucket.com/albums/ss16/photolady123/myhair.jpg?t=1245189666
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I've got about the same wave pattern, but a little more rigid. My hair is also denser.
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http://www.naturallycurly.com/curltalk/showthread.php?t=90412
cleanser: Redken Fresh Curls Shampoo, CJ Daily Fix
rinse out: GVP Conditioning Balm, CJ Beauticurls, CJ Smoothing
jellies/creams: CR Curl Maker, KCCC
gels: CJ CQ, CJ Pattern Pusha, BRHG