HI everyone! I'm new here and I registered to get help on my terrible ends! I've been natural for 10 years and had long, pretty curls, but then I had a cancer scare and chopped it all off. now I can't get it longer than 1-2 inches under my collarbone (i know this is kind of long, but i'm not satisfied because the longer my hair is, the more it hangs instead of poofing). so I grew it again and recently had to get a lot chopped off due to damaged ends! how do you all keep your ends from getting ratty? I wear a curly fro most days but my ends always feel like wire even 1 week after a trim. what am i doing wrong?! I sleep with a satin bonnet now and try to keep up on my trims, but I feel like my tips are still getting destroyed.